Erica1
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Tired of Libras getting the short end of the stick
what are your placements ?
Posted by LoveeStoned
what are your placements ?
I'm Leo rising and Aquarius moon. I know I have two Cancer placements and a Moon placement (Moon is essentially Cancer), so maybe that accounts for my being very emotional as well as getting along phenomenally with Cancer males.
My friend...I'm not sure about her. I know she's Virgo rising because she said so.
I also don't think librans are cold, far from it. In fact, the ones I know are very sensitive people & are easily hurt, sometimes I just want to tell them to snap out of it already. You guys are good at hiding your hurt though, which is why you're mistaken for being unemotional. You have to know a libra very well to recognise when they're are hurt by anything you said or did. And if a libra is comfortable with you & is certain that you wont make fun of their emotions then they will tell you upfront when they're hurt. I've had libra females cry infront of me & tell me all their personal problems, from infidelity to family problems with their siblings/parents. The thing is I don't push for information, I let them open up to me on their own time & they know they can trust me with anything. I've had male librans open up to me too & they only wanted someone who would listen without giving unwanted advice & I guess I'm that person lol. You all are mushy as hell, you just don't trust that many people to show all your vulnerabilities to.
So quit putting yourself in a position of getting the short end of the stick.
And if you're not like it, then tell your sign mates to get their shit together. :p
I know I wouldn't have an issue smacking the hell out of the bad Aries cause that shit's annoying.
Also, the fact that you're making this post, upset over a generalization that describes a group when you know you are not like that generalization, speaks volumes about your insecurity- a Libran trait. :p
If you know you don't apply to these stereotypes/descriptions, why get so bothered by it?
And if you're not like it, then tell your sign mates to get their shit together. :p
I know I wouldn't have an issue smacking the hell out of the bad Aries cause that shit's annoying.
Also, the fact that you're making this post, upset over a generalization that describes a group when you know you are not like that generalization, speaks volumes about your insecurity- a Libran trait. :p
If you know you don't apply to these stereotypes/descriptions, why get so bothered by it?
Posted by Erica1Posted by LoveeStoned
what are your placements ?
I'm Leo rising and Aquarius moon. I know I have two Cancer placements and a Moon placement (Moon is essentially Cancer), so maybe that accounts for my being very emotional as well as getting along phenomenally with Cancer males.
My friend...I'm not sure about her. I know she's Virgo rising because she said so.click to expand
Cancer moon is a bitch. 😢
To me Scorpios are just honest about who they are and people try to change them, when that sign doesn't compromise for anyone unless it suits them
Libras try to hard to be someone they are not, JMHO, they use sad stories to get their way, and most of the time when they get caught in their lies they try to make it the other persons fault instead of admitting they are fault
Libras try to hard to be someone they are not, JMHO, they use sad stories to get their way, and most of the time when they get caught in their lies they try to make it the other persons fault instead of admitting they are fault
Posted by TaurusNikki
To me Scorpios are just honest about who they are and people try to change them, when that sign doesn't compromise for anyone unless it suits them
Libras try to hard to be someone they are not, JMHO, they use sad stories to get their way, and most of the time when they get caught in their lies they try to make it the other persons fault instead of admitting they are fault
I find them to be chameleons as well, librans that is. What I've noticed is that you have to be a certain way with them if you want them to be that way with you. Example, if you want them to be honest with you etc then you have to lead them by being an honest person yourself. It's that mirroring thing they do...so you have to show them the reflection of what you want them to be when dealing with you.
1 of my female libra friends is one of the biggest gossips I've ever met, she really likes to talk about other people & their problems. When we began our friendship, she started telling me stuff about all these people I didn't give a damn about. I'm not friends with everybody unlike her & I didn't even know most of the people she was talking about even though we all lived in the same building. Well, I didn't need to tell her that I didn't care much about the stories she was telling me about, she figured it all out on her own. After that she only talked to me when she had serious things to talk about ie. her failing marriage & only gossiped with her other friends.
I compare them to clay, you have to mold them 😛
Posted by TaurusNikki
To me Scorpios are just honest about who they are and people try to change them, when that sign doesn't compromise for anyone unless it suits them
Libras try to hard to be someone they are not, JMHO, they use sad stories to get their way, and most of the time when they get caught in their lies they try to make it the other persons fault instead of admitting they are fault
Well, my top supervisor once said about me: "One thing you have to say about her...she doesn't lie!"
Scorpio females lie real badly!! Like I said, they're just so good at it that they're convincing. I'm a Libra yet people have lied about my character.....not the other way around! It's not okay. Here are some examples --
(1) My co-worker (Scorpio female) lied about me not showing up for work MONTHS before I was even scheduled to start there....I was still working at my old job at the time!! Yet she'll preach about how much she hates gossiping. Love it!
(2) My ex-crush (Sagittarius male) lied about me "stalking him" (standing outside his house every day and driving by his house every day). I never did any such thing. He told that lie to all these guys who are our mutual friends in an attempt to defame me, and I almost lost them. Well, he didn't succeed. When the truth came out about him, the other fellows welcomed me back with open arms.
(3) Someone in college lied about me following some girl to her house (freshman year). I have no idea who it actually was. Interesting since I barely had a social life freshman year of college and spent my time either in my dorm or visiting home. Oh and I didn't have a car at the time to be able TO follow someone to his/her house!!
(4) My ex-friend (Taurus female) lied to me about one of my closest, dearest girlfriend (a Pisces) saying something mean about me that she didn't say. She was attempting to break up our friendship and she didn't succeed. And I knew it was something my Pisces friend would never say. That same girl tried to do it again when she lied to the Pisces friend about me (I don't remember specifically what it was about, but she tried).
(5) A neighborhood woman with whom I went to school (a Pisces) lied about me getting fired from my current job (I wasn't).
The list could go on...
Posted by WaterCup
I also don't think librans are cold, far from it. In fact, the ones I know are very sensitive people & are easily hurt, sometimes I just want to tell them to snap out of it already. You guys are good at hiding your hurt though, which is why you're mistaken for being unemotional. You have to know a libra very well to recognise when they're are hurt by anything you said or did. And if a libra is comfortable with you & is certain that you wont make fun of their emotions then they will tell you upfront when they're hurt. I've had libra females cry infront of me & tell me all their personal problems, from infidelity to family problems with their siblings/parents. The thing is I don't push for information, I let them open up to me on their own time & they know they can trust me with anything. I've had male librans open up to me too & they only wanted someone who would listen without giving unwanted advice & I guess I'm that person lol. You all are mushy as hell, you just don't trust that many people to show all your vulnerabilities to.
Thank you, WaterCup. You are one of the few who actually gets it. Are you a Cancer?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
So quit putting yourself in a position of getting the short end of the stick.
And if you're not like it, then tell your sign mates to get their shit together. :p
I know I wouldn't have an issue smacking the hell out of the bad Aries cause that shit's annoying.
Also, the fact that you're making this post, upset over a generalization that describes a group when you know you are not like that generalization, speaks volumes about your insecurity- a Libran trait. :p
If you know you don't apply to these stereotypes/descriptions, why get so bothered by it?
Lol yes. I will certainly admit to my shortcomings. I am definitely insecure and defensive, and I know those are particularly Libra traits. My female Libra friend (the one with the Pisces dad) is VERY combative! She loves who she loves and she treats her family & friends like gold but if she doesn't like you...brrr!!
Posted by TaurusNikki
Libras try to hard to be someone they are not
Not my friend. Her Virgo mother even said, "She's her own person for sure and she likes what she likes...I can't even get her to change her style of jeans & t-shirts!" (Alluding to how she'd always made attempts in the past to get her daughter to dress more like her in very polished, feminine outfits).
I usually get along wonderfully with Tauruses and them with me so I find what you say interesting. I have a beautiful connection with my Taurus cousin and uncle, as well as a dear male friend of mine. In fact, my male Taurus friend started off as a date and one of the things he said he appreciated is how I was honest and didn't lead him on; said plainly that I wanted to be friends but nothing romantic. We have remained friends.
Posted by Erica1Posted by WaterCup
I also don't think librans are cold, far from it. In fact, the ones I know are very sensitive people & are easily hurt, sometimes I just want to tell them to snap out of it already. You guys are good at hiding your hurt though, which is why you're mistaken for being unemotional. You have to know a libra very well to recognise when they're are hurt by anything you said or did. And if a libra is comfortable with you & is certain that you wont make fun of their emotions then they will tell you upfront when they're hurt. I've had libra females cry infront of me & tell me all their personal problems, from infidelity to family problems with their siblings/parents. The thing is I don't push for information, I let them open up to me on their own time & they know they can trust me with anything. I've had male librans open up to me too & they only wanted someone who would listen without giving unwanted advice & I guess I'm that person lol. You all are mushy as hell, you just don't trust that many people to show all your vulnerabilities to.
Thank you, WaterCup. You are one of the few who actually gets it. Are you a Cancer?click to expand
I'd kill myself if I were a cancer lol...I'm an aquarius. Yeah I know about 5 libras, 2 females & 3 males (1 I dated)...so I get you guys.
Posted by WaterCupI'd kill myself if I were a cancer lol...I'm an aquarius. Yeah I know about 5 libras, 2 females & 3 males (1 I dated)...so I get you guys.
LOL your user name totally had me fooled! I thought you're a water sign!! ; )
Posted by Sugarfoot
Erica, some people would rather write about the negative traits of a particular sign than the positive. I'm starting to think that's what they need to make them feel good about themselves. Try not to take it personally. There will always be those who will write off libras as being cowardly, weak, lying fools who just stare at themselves in the mirror all day eating Bon bons. If that's what they need to think, then let 'em have it. They sure as hell aren't open to seeing anything better so there's no point trying to make them.
I know, but what pisses me off is how pretty much all the other signs (especially the water & earth signs) get off scot-free when they do something wrong or behave unacceptably. No one's ever really brought this to light before. But it is true. They get a free pass for bad behavior. It's always: 'Oh, Scorpios are very private people that's why the lied by omission! They have to choose who they trust with their truth that's why they OUTRIGHT lied to you!!' That's okay, right? *Sarcasm* Or, 'Ohh, Pisces are secretive by nature and they can't help it if they lie; it's that Neptune influence!' (I happen to love Pisces, but I've heard this said/seen it on-line all too often). Or, 'Capricorns are just so ambitious; that's why they cut the little person's job at work!!' Or, 'Sagittarians are so wonderfully blunt; that's why they said that really mean thing to you!' Or, 'Virgo is just so shy and choosy with whom they decide to build relationships; that's why they didn't say hello back to the nice friendly person who was just trying to spread a little joy!!' (Again, I happen to like Capricorns and love Sagittarius and Virgo...and I actually love Scorpio males I'm just trying to prove a point here). Meanwhile if a Libra does any of those things I mentioned above, he/she is absolutely vilified! They lied just for the sake of lying; they didn't tell you something because they're selfish; they're mean and said unnecessarily nasty things to someone; they're rude and that's why they didn't say hi back to someone. I am just stating the way it is and I'm just tired. I am sick and tired of it!! The truth must be told.
I don't know who you've been talking to, but when anyone of any sign is being an asshole, they get called out on it. I don't have much tolerance for douchebaggery. I don't care for how Sags are so self involved that they think the world revolves around them and can fuck people over without a second glance. I don't like how Caps tend to be users, or how Gems are incredibly two faced (something I've noticed of air signs overall, actually). Pisces have a tendency to play mental manipulation for shits n giggles, and Scorps are fucking crazy assholes who manipulate and emotionally abuse others to get their way (they also run when shit gets real and they're called out on their bullshit). I dislike the giant egos on Leos and what crazy users the females seem to be. Cancers are whiny and too emo. Etc. etc.
The point is that any sign has a "bad" sign or negative tendencies and there will be a group within that sign that falls into that category, OR it's something that just does not mesh well with your moral views. From the examples you gave, you either have people who are absolutely obsessed with a sign that they excuse bad behavior, or you have nutters within the sign who want to dismiss these negative qualities because their sign can do no wrong (something that is also seen quite often here on the Libra board and it also happens on several other sign specific forums on this site).
You sound like you're doing something that TN pointed out earlier- victimizing yourself to make yourself sound like the better person. Why do you need to do that if you know you aren't of these bad qualities that the dicks of your sign get pegged with?
Overall point, just do you and quit worrying about what others think. This is where Libran insecurity destroys you lot. You let this shit get to you and you stress and freak out over it, people pleasing and doing whatever to balance that shit out. I may be hard on Libras, but I don't hate them. I've just seen what the negative traits can do to perfectly sane people. Insecurity is something that can plague anyone, but some individuals/signs seem to be more prone to it, and insecurity alone can turn a perfectly decent human being into an absolute asshole.
The point is that any sign has a "bad" sign or negative tendencies and there will be a group within that sign that falls into that category, OR it's something that just does not mesh well with your moral views. From the examples you gave, you either have people who are absolutely obsessed with a sign that they excuse bad behavior, or you have nutters within the sign who want to dismiss these negative qualities because their sign can do no wrong (something that is also seen quite often here on the Libra board and it also happens on several other sign specific forums on this site).
You sound like you're doing something that TN pointed out earlier- victimizing yourself to make yourself sound like the better person. Why do you need to do that if you know you aren't of these bad qualities that the dicks of your sign get pegged with?
Overall point, just do you and quit worrying about what others think. This is where Libran insecurity destroys you lot. You let this shit get to you and you stress and freak out over it, people pleasing and doing whatever to balance that shit out. I may be hard on Libras, but I don't hate them. I've just seen what the negative traits can do to perfectly sane people. Insecurity is something that can plague anyone, but some individuals/signs seem to be more prone to it, and insecurity alone can turn a perfectly decent human being into an absolute asshole.
Also, astrology is NOT an exact science. It's fascinating, but not exact. Knowing that, you all really shouldn't be letting it cause that much butthurt. I don't understand why people get so all up in arms over generalizations that don't apply to them.
Good lord another libra victim
I'm sick and tired of SOME LIBRAS playing the victim card
I'm sick and tired of SOME LIBRAS playing the victim card
Some few Libras ruin the reputation of the whole lot but Same is true for EVERY sign - every sign has its negatives amplified by a few bad eggs from that sign.
Honestly speaking, gossiping of any kind is bad regardless of what sign you are, so is lying, being negative, cheating, betrayal, playing victim and the list goes on. Mirroring someone else to please them is reinforcing ones own insecurity regardless of your sign and is self-inflicted injustice. Being cold is also celebrating fear of intimacy, openess or connecting with whatever the situation is regardless of your sign. These are not traits unique to one sign or to just Librans- we all have exhibited varying degrees of this at some point in life hopefully not defining us.
Point is, and I speak to myself as well, widen the thought compass. Judge individuals and their signs individually. Generalisation ruins the chance of discovering new connections with people who may otherwise have offered something useful.
Some of the most amazing people I know are Librans - then again I have met some not so amazing ones. Same for each sign - I've met some I adore and in the same sign some I'd prefer to forget. We can only hope we learned what we needed from the bad interactions so we don't encounter them twice.
Honestly speaking, gossiping of any kind is bad regardless of what sign you are, so is lying, being negative, cheating, betrayal, playing victim and the list goes on. Mirroring someone else to please them is reinforcing ones own insecurity regardless of your sign and is self-inflicted injustice. Being cold is also celebrating fear of intimacy, openess or connecting with whatever the situation is regardless of your sign. These are not traits unique to one sign or to just Librans- we all have exhibited varying degrees of this at some point in life hopefully not defining us.
Point is, and I speak to myself as well, widen the thought compass. Judge individuals and their signs individually. Generalisation ruins the chance of discovering new connections with people who may otherwise have offered something useful.
Some of the most amazing people I know are Librans - then again I have met some not so amazing ones. Same for each sign - I've met some I adore and in the same sign some I'd prefer to forget. We can only hope we learned what we needed from the bad interactions so we don't encounter them twice.
But really that's the problem. Why keep changing yourself to fit people's comfort zone. Be yourself because the fakeness will be unattractive. I have no real issues with libras but the minute I think they r hella cool they go n sleep with someone who's married or
Someone with money or they tell everyone a different story so they can be everybodys friend.
You are too grown for that if you are an adult playing games like that.js I hope libras grow up bc they really do
Try to have good intentions. It's such a shame.
Someone with money or they tell everyone a different story so they can be everybodys friend.
You are too grown for that if you are an adult playing games like that.js I hope libras grow up bc they really do
Try to have good intentions. It's such a shame.
Posted by toxe5
But really that's the problem. Why keep changing yourself to fit people's comfort zone. Be yourself because the fakeness will be unattractive. I have no real issues with libras but the minute I think they r hella cool they go n sleep with someone who's married or
Someone with money or they tell everyone a different story so they can be everybodys friend.
You are too grown for that if you are an adult playing games like that.js I hope libras grow up bc they really do
Try to have good intentions. It's such a shame.
Thanks, toxe5 you seem to get it as well. I admit that I used to do what you're talking about, in my 20's. I made up stories (three times) that I had a boyfriend when I didn't. I tried to make people think I had more money than I had (by buying gifts and things and stuff). I slept with a married man when I was 30. Then finally IN my 30's, I grew up. Now, I'm not afraid to tell anyone the real deal about me. If people ask, I give them the honest answer. I'll say the real deal: I'm not afraid to say "There's nothing going on in my life." I am not afraid to say that I have no boyfriend, that I'm a born-again virgin, that I live with my parents, and that I'm underemployed. No pretense anymore. I'm just me. I may "be at the level" that most of my female peers are at (especially the ones I went to school with), but I have my own goals and ambitions and I'm working towards them. I recognize that my real friends love me for me.
Let's agree to disagree
Everybody has their opinions about libras, I have my share
Before me and my libra finally made it officially, he was everything mentioned on this board, took him awhile to get his shit together and the dude is 41 years old, so age has nothing to do with it
Most libras don't know what they have until it's gone, and to be honest it's the immature ones that ruin it for everbody
My BFF is a female libra, at times she would be the people pleaser, but she is working on that part of herself, can't rush her, but she has to find her own way
But to say that people are wrong would be ignorant, everybody has good and bad period, no one and I mean no one is perfect, so if someone has or is having a bad experience in the libra department has a right to vent how they feel get over it, take the good with the bad, me being a Taurus, I'm stubborn as hell, and I have a libra moon so I'm pretty sure I got the libra stuff down, and know what libras go through, and trust me I can relate to the bad and good parts of the libra, but to act like it doesn't exist would be stupid on my part, so Peolpe say how u feel, it's just your opinion, and parts of it are right and parts of it are wrong, there SIMPLE
Everybody has their opinions about libras, I have my share
Before me and my libra finally made it officially, he was everything mentioned on this board, took him awhile to get his shit together and the dude is 41 years old, so age has nothing to do with it
Most libras don't know what they have until it's gone, and to be honest it's the immature ones that ruin it for everbody
My BFF is a female libra, at times she would be the people pleaser, but she is working on that part of herself, can't rush her, but she has to find her own way
But to say that people are wrong would be ignorant, everybody has good and bad period, no one and I mean no one is perfect, so if someone has or is having a bad experience in the libra department has a right to vent how they feel get over it, take the good with the bad, me being a Taurus, I'm stubborn as hell, and I have a libra moon so I'm pretty sure I got the libra stuff down, and know what libras go through, and trust me I can relate to the bad and good parts of the libra, but to act like it doesn't exist would be stupid on my part, so Peolpe say how u feel, it's just your opinion, and parts of it are right and parts of it are wrong, there SIMPLE
Posted by SugarfootPosted by TaurusNikki
Let's agree to disagree
Everybody has their opinions about libras, I have my share
Before me and my libra finally made it officially, he was everything mentioned on this board, took him awhile to get his shit together and the dude is 41 years old, so age has nothing to do with it
Most libras don't know what they have until it's gone, and to be honest it's the immature ones that ruin it for everbody
My BFF is a female libra, at times she would be the people pleaser, but she is working on that part of herself, can't rush her, but she has to find her own way
But to say that people are wrong would be ignorant, everybody has good and bad period, no one and I mean no one is perfect, so if someone has or is having a bad experience in the libra department has a right to vent how they feel get over it, take the good with the bad, me being a Taurus, I'm stubborn as hell, and I have a libra moon so I'm pretty sure I got the libra stuff down, and know what libras go through, and trust me I can relate to the bad and good parts of the libra, but to act like it doesn't exist would be stupid on my part, so Peolpe say how u feel, it's just your opinion, and parts of it are right and parts of it are wrong, there SIMPLE
Take the bolded and repeat it too yourself over and over again in the mirror. You're the one who seems to think you're perfect. Acting like you're Moses leading all the poor libras to the promised land. Smh. You and the others who are constantly talking about teaching and leading libras to do this or that really should get over yourselves for just one moment.
thx.
And, its not about being butthurt. It's about being really annoyed by how dumb this behavior is.
All. The. Time....Ugh.click to expand
Damn even in Black and White u still can't F****** READ
How bout u take what I said and freaking read it to yourself until u understand I never said I was Moses, WTF ARE U SMOKING
It's ignorant people like yourself that just can't understand that I just said everybody is entitled to their own POV, I myself have gone through the same shit by a libra, damn WTF did I say that I was perfect, I never claim to be perfect, WTH do u see that i said that shit, U WANT ME TO GET U SOME DAMN GLASSES, OMFG people like you need to get your
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Shit togther and stop blaming others for you silly mistakes, NEXT TIME READ WHAT THE HELL IS BEiNG SAID, BEFORE U CLAIM TO ACT TUFF
Shit togther and stop blaming others for you silly mistakes, NEXT TIME READ WHAT THE HELL IS BEiNG SAID, BEFORE U CLAIM TO ACT TUFF
And another thing, libras always care about what other people think
Whether they want to admit it or not
At the end of the day, they will always be kids at heart
Whether they want to admit it or not
At the end of the day, they will always be kids at heart
Posted by tizianiPosted by TaurusNikki
And another thing, libras always care about what other people think
Whether they want to admit it or not
At the end of the day, they will always be kids at heart
Who doesn't care about what other people think? It's just human nature.click to expand
I agree, that's why I can understand a libra at times, even tho some libras drive me crazy
Posted by SugarfootPosted by TaurusNikki
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Shit togther and stop blaming others for you silly mistakes, NEXT TIME READ WHAT THE HELL IS BEiNG SAID, BEFORE U CLAIM TO ACT TUFF
How does one claim to act tuff by typing words on a keyboard— that's hilarious.click to expand
Much like how u don't understand meanings of such statements is hilarious
Posted by Sugarfoot
you actually have no idea how you come across do you—? I've read enough of your posts dear. I don't need to re-read anything. you obviously need to go back and read your own posts. you don't have a clue why I said what I said? surely you can't be that bull-headed.
anyway. just as I told the OP. its a waste of time. I've banged my head up against brick walls enough.
so what's all the cursing for? You don't like MY pov now? imagine that. ur funny.
I don't think u banged ur head hard enough on those bricks
Try harder please
I guess head to brick doesn't work so good after enough try's
O well
O well
Posted by tizianiPosted by TaurusNikki
And another thing, libras always care about what other people think
Whether they want to admit it or not
At the end of the day, they will always be kids at heart
Who doesn't care about what other people think? It's just human nature.click to expand
I think the degree of care varies though...some people can't do anything without thinking about the reaction of other people first. On the other hand there are those who don't care about what the general population thinks & only hold a select few opinions in high regard.
Librans do really care about what EVERYBODY thinks of them, even people whose opinion shouldn't matter. I remember when my female libra friend's furniture was repossesed by the store, she didn't go out for weeks after that. LOL! She even tried to talk them into taking back the goods in the dead of the night so noone can see it. I for one cannot relate to that level of care. I wouldn't want to go to jail though because oh my God, what will people think? And by "people" I mean people that actually matter, like employers...I don't care about the rest who aren't of any use to me & my wellbeing. See the difference?
The same libra girl I mentioned is about to get a huge settlement, 1.2 million to be exact. Her husband got injured at work & couldn't work, reason why they couldn't make payments. So anyway, the company he was working for was being unfair & shady about the whole thing, so they sued. He go badly injure, had screws inserted on his leg, etc, so they won the case. And now she can't keep quiet about it. She tells EVERYBODY that she's about to live like a queen lol. I think she is doing it so she can be treated differently, with respect...she likes that kind of thing. I don't know the rest of her chart though to figure out why she likes high social standing so much.
I just dislike how some Libras easily let the bad side overtake their good qualities.
They're cool, but look at them funny and with that fickle bullshit, here comes the crazy side everyone hates. Or I'll see a Libran friend getting screwed over by being all passive, but deep down they hate it, I encourage them to stand their ground. But they don't want to rock the boat. Then WHAM it's the victim card. "I do this and that and blah blah. This person is screwing me over! Poor me!" Omg, do something about it tardo!
Like I've said before, our society is encouraging immaturity more and more. You combine that bs with the bad traits of any sign or personality, you're gonna have a wave of crazy going on.
Then again, I live in a pretty shallow and superficial state. People here are ridiculous and I think I may see more crazy side of any sign/personality. They breed people here to be like that. :/
They're cool, but look at them funny and with that fickle bullshit, here comes the crazy side everyone hates. Or I'll see a Libran friend getting screwed over by being all passive, but deep down they hate it, I encourage them to stand their ground. But they don't want to rock the boat. Then WHAM it's the victim card. "I do this and that and blah blah. This person is screwing me over! Poor me!" Omg, do something about it tardo!
Like I've said before, our society is encouraging immaturity more and more. You combine that bs with the bad traits of any sign or personality, you're gonna have a wave of crazy going on.
Then again, I live in a pretty shallow and superficial state. People here are ridiculous and I think I may see more crazy side of any sign/personality. They breed people here to be like that. :/
hmm... this was an interesting read... I like debates, I'm a Taurus, but with a lot of Libra/air influence. I don't see anything wrong with being a people pleaser, yea it gets on my nerves at times (you just can't please every person you meet), but at the end of the day I'd still go out of my way for others cus that's how I am (and that's how I think the world should be, call it childish all you want... 😆.) I care a lot about people's perception of me because I want to always show the best of me (let's be real... nobody wants to be seen at their worst -_-) 😆 except for family/friends... they've already seen it all so nothing u can do there lol. I don't like this word 2face, it's really about being selective, and I have the right to be however I want to be with whom ever I want to be it with, they betta earn it!(lol mouthful) It doesn't make me any less sincere or genuine with that person. You wouldn't go to work acting the way you do outside of work when your at the bar would you? When it comes to friends I have three close ones I can think of, a Cancer, a Gemini, and a Taurus... all very different but we share similar interest in different things. I can't talk with my Gemini friend about the something that I can go on all day about with my Cancer friend and vice versa with the Taurus friend (every relationship has it's own dynamics.) It's just all common sense to me and I understand why Libra's would get upset over being stuck in one dimension because that's injustice to any human being, being grouped as one thing. hmm I guess I'll pick being 2faced after all or 3,4,5 😆 just means I'm complex and in 3D (and a cornball)... Anywho just wanted to throw some pennies into the well even tho I'm late, I like sharing... don't mind me = ).
Posted by TaurusNikki
Let's agree to disagree
Everybody has their opinions about libras, I have my share
Before me and my libra finally made it officially, he was everything mentioned on this board, took him awhile to get his shit together and the dude is 41 years old, so age has nothing to do with it
Most libras don't know what they have until it's gone, and to be honest it's the immature ones that ruin it for everbody
My BFF is a female libra, at times she would be the people pleaser, but she is working on that part of herself, can't rush her, but she has to find her own way
But to say that people are wrong would be ignorant, everybody has good and bad period, no one and I mean no one is perfect, so if someone has or is having a bad experience in the libra department has a right to vent how they feel get over it, take the good with the bad, me being a Taurus, I'm stubborn as hell, and I have a libra moon so I'm pretty sure I got the libra stuff down, and know what libras go through, and trust me I can relate to the bad and good parts of the libra, but to act like it doesn't exist would be stupid on my part, so Peolpe say how u feel, it's just your opinion, and parts of it are right and parts of it are wrong, there SIMPLE
You actually said that beautifully. I know several Libras who are real lemons! Some of the negative characteristics of some Libras that I've seen are: being a bad mother (unfortunately I know a few of those particularly my best friend's cousin??_ugh!!); being loud, obnoxious, and rude (a man I work with); shying away from conflict (NOT confrontation, though!) (me); being superficial and cocky (this guy I used to work with); being just plain mean (a handful of the females I've known over the years); being very wishy-washy (a former male co-worker of mine); and being quite simply a bully (this guy I went to school with). Although there are bad apples in every sign. I will say that Libras are either high-quality, top-notch, amazing people or they are lower than a snake's belly. Then you have your in-betweens sprinkled in there. Lol.
Posted by Erica1
You actually said that beautifully. I know several Libras who are real lemons! Some of the negative characteristics of some Libras that I've seen are: being a bad mother (unfortunately I know a few of those particularly my best friend's cousin??_ugh!!); being loud, obnoxious, and rude (a man I work with); shying away from conflict (NOT confrontation, though!) (me); being superficial and cocky (this guy I used to work with); being just plain mean (a handful of the females I've known over the years); being very wishy-washy (a former male co-worker of mine); and being quite simply a bully (this guy I went to school with). Although there are bad apples in every sign. I will say that Libras are either high-quality, top-notch, amazing people or they are lower than a snake's belly. Then you have your in-betweens sprinkled in there. Lol.
...sooo why create this thread then?
Anyone with half a brain knows that not all are the same as some. The reason you see more negative than positive, of any sign, is because people will go in search for solutions or understanding for a problem they're having with an individual. People don't go looking to figure out something there are no issues with. I seriously think a lot of people miss that bit and just assume the world is out to get X sign.
You're going to hear more "Why is this x sign being an asshole?" or "This guy is x sign and these are the current issues I'm having. How should I approach this and is this because he's x sign?"
And less of "So this guy is totally perfect. Is it because of his sign??" or "This guy is the best boyfriend ever. He's this sign. Can someone explain this??"
Posted by tiziani
cold, detached, superficial etc. Not very popular descriptions are they? But we can all think of a time in our lives where we needed these exact traits to be the person to help someone else.
So true.
In many spiritual views detachment is viewed as true love, because it allows you to care for someone without emotional muddying.
Posted by anonymousheartPosted by tiziani
cold, detached, superficial etc. Not very popular descriptions are they? But we can all think of a time in our lives where we needed these exact traits to be the person to help someone else.
So true.
In many spiritual views detachment is viewed as true love, because it allows you to care for someone without emotional muddying.click to expand
You two are on crack and trying to justify that being a dick is okay. NOPE.
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