To My Girl Chatz.. The Complexity of a Libra Lost

Lyrics - for all who can.. must listen to this song..

Dido - See You When You're 40


I've driven round in circles for three hours
It was bound to happen that I'd end up at yours
I temporarily forgot there's better days to come
I thought that I would give it just one more chance

Cos' I want, tonight, what I've been waiting for
But I found, tonight, what I'd been warned about

You think you are complicated,
Deep mystery to all,
Well it's taken me a while to see,
You're not so special.
All energy, no meaning,
With a lot of words,
So paper thin that one real feeling,
Could knock you down.

And I've seen, tonight, what I'd been warned about
I'm gonna leave, tonight, before I change my mind

So see you when you're forty,
Lost and all alone,
Being comforted by strangers,
you'll never need to know,
Not sad because you lost me,
But sad because you thought it was cool,
To be sad.

You think misery will make you stand apart from the crowd.
If you had walked past me today,
I wouldn't have picked you out,
I wouldn't have picked you out,
Wouldn't have picked you out.

Now I've seen tonight,
How could I waste my time?
And I'll be on my way,
And I won't be back,

Cuz I've seen tonight,
What I've been warned about,
You're just a boy, not a man; and I'm not coming back,
And I'm not coming back,
What I've been warned about.

oh.. also, I see everyone put there pics up.. so I got one up too.. the resolution is horrible.. but its me..

Thanks Brats...its kinda how I am seeing my man (must be that 5-6 month mark eh where one sees the real person?)....he's right there at 40!! And behaving badly...one day he'll realise that his looks can no longer attract the girls...love him to bits and I'd be there if he really wanted me but I know he just can't resist the "greener grass" and Im just not "the one".


Thanks chicky 🙂

Met this Leo woman this weekend... She is getting married in October. We started chatting about her and her fiance. She was telling me that it took her almost 1.5 years to nab her girlfriend. Apparently, she wasn't interested and turned her down on several occasions. But the Leo woman stuck it out, and stuck it out, and stuck it out, and was persistent and head strong and got her girl. And now they are getting married in October. 🙂

If he is the one you want, Chatz, then get your man. If he isn't worth that much effort, then you need to find you the one that is worth it (whether they actually require that much effort or not)... 😉

alcheme, yes my sweet I know and thanks hun, its just frustrating and yes of course he is the one I want. Bloody Leos are too loyal so I can't actually walk away totally but I do need to protect my pride too....time for him to realise though, that Im not doing all the work anymore and I know he's going to miss me being around coz he's not seeing anybody else and I think he has a problem finding somebody else due to his insecurities and shyness.....we'll see.

OK Brats, I've just come home and put the Dido CD in (and played the song I normally skip over LOL)....all I can say is OMG!!!

Thanks chicky!!

Okay Chatz what's up with our friend the Libra? what has he done now—

Its what he's not doing QS....basically he's not sad that Im gone...he's not upset that now he's all alone again...its what he wants by the looks of it...Im there, he knows it, yet he chooses to sit at home every night chasing strangers online he'll never meet.

Maybe one day he'll wake up - doubt it though

Chatz, maybe it is time to stop waiting to see if he does... I know it is hard, but you could be missing out on "Mr. Right" while you are waiting on "Mr. not right now". Y'know.

You might be making things too easy for him. Libra men seem to not respond too well to getting things easy.

indeed....that's what my intention is.

Im not making another move unless he does.....its a stand off 😛

Keeping busy, trying not to think of him (living 5 minutes away, being sexy and all LOL)....ok back to work

Chatz.."OK Brats, I've just come home and put the Dido CD in (and played the song I normally skip over LOL)....all I can say is OMG!!!"

Girly! I use to skip over this song too bc I don't like how it starts.. but I just let the CD play the other day and heard it and thought about you. I wish (if he is not the one) that you would feel this way, start a new thing and let him get himself together. Because he is a mess right now and it's dragging you down and you need to be up!

Alcheme.. I have found persistance does pays off sometimes but more often than not, when it comes to matters of the heart, we just come up short changed and hurt.. But that is just my jaded experience...

I wish all good things for you Chatz! You already know!

Chatz, you got it handled. Proud of you!

🙂