wants to be on again with libra man

I use to hook up with this libra years ago. For about 2 years. We grew up together,so I knew him well.but either one of is really tried to turn it in to anything more than sex and partying. Fat forward 15 years later and he sends me a friend request on f.b. We ended up talking, this was last Sunday. We ended up making plans for Saturday. I am very nervous. He is recently widowed. And sounds like he needs a friend and I can do that. I just don't know what to do, how do I take this. What if we his n day is 10/4 mine ifs 4/4. Yong and yang to the t! What can I A expect from him as a libra? How to be more than just f& $ k buddies?

lol @ 'fat forward' & 'yong yang'. You have my son's and my ex's birthday btw. Sorry I cant help with your story, just do you.

Step one- just talk to him.

Posted by leoliza
Be careful. Libra men are classic for popping up only when they need you/when their relationships end. Then they drift in and out of lives. If they really care, they don't usually ever disconnect.

A good way not to be his F buddy would be....ummm not to have sex with him!
He's widowed. Be his friend only. He will respect you 1000000xs more.

I don't know about the first half of this, but the second half is spot on.


And yeah just talk to him. You haven't seen him in years, how do you even know you still like him. Just relax, don't worry about sex or relationships... go hang out and be a friend. See if you all can even still be buddies before you worry about the fucking.

lol @ 'before you worry about the fucking'

Maybe it was GOOD & now that the old lady is gone, well...its time to do good again or do BETTER even. There is something called a 'mercy fuck' after all 😛

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Posted by WaterCup
lol @ 'fat forward' & 'yong yang'. You have my son's and my ex's birthday btw. Sorry I cant help with your story, just do you.

Lol ^^^^

If you go into it with the expectation of just reconnecting with an old friend, things will go alot smoother.

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Right? Just approach it as a "friend" and not a fuck buddy. The fact that the OPs mind is already targeted on sex tells me she's got all her thinking in the wrong place.

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Posted by raerae2one8
I use to hook up with this libra years ago. For about 2 years. We grew up together,so I knew him well.but either one of is really tried to turn it in to anything more than sex and partying. Fat forward 15 years later and he sends me a friend request on f.b. We ended up talking, this was last Sunday. We ended up making plans for Saturday. I am very nervous. He is recently widowed. And sounds like he needs a friend and I can do that. I just don't know what to do, how do I take this. What if we his n day is 10/4 mine ifs 4/4. Yong and yang to the t! What can I A expect from him as a libra? How to be more than just f& $ k buddies

Well damn. Since it's been 15 years after all it's fairly safe to assume he's at a different place in life now, than he was back when you two were knocking boots. Don't expect him to re-appear with sexual intentions right off the bat after an extended hiatus.
But if he does, chances are that's exactly why he initiated the reunion and nothing of greater substance is in the cards. Assuming he's considering the possibility of something more with you, he won't pounce immediately if he has ANY game at all.

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Wait... so now the guy without any game gets sex? I really don't understand this dating stuff 😛

Posted by tiziani
Libra men don't want fuck buddies really.

Don't agree that's true for all Libra guys. These the exact words from a Libra guy; "Yup I kinda think that's why one should have a fuck buddy"..

But don't agree that its purely a sign thing either Lol... Men will be men and if its offered on a platter, well.. why the hell not?

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Posted by tiziani
Libra men don't want fuck buddies really.

True. Libra men may settle into FwBs, rebounds and slump-busters over taking an oath of celibacy. Emphasis on *settling for* since they typically don't idealize nor prefer this arrangement.

We all got needs tho.

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This is extremely accurate, at least for myself. Even though I am a very persuasive, handsome guy, I'm still really looking deep down for a connection that is sustainable. Sadly, this usually means I get into the minds of women where I shouldn't be and leave them brokenhearted. That just makes it worse because I hate conflict and hurting people, but I tend to justify it if it means believing I'll be happy, just for a moment.

Happy birthday, raerae!