Libra Man- Valentines coming up, what should I do?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by daisey1507 on Tuesday, February 12, 2013 and has 6 replies.

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@daisey1507
13 Years

Hi, I have posted on here a few times, my boyfriend and I split up over a week ago, his choice, I suffer from pmdd and that led to the breakdown of the relationship, although I didn't know it was that at the time. I have contacted him and told him, I am going to get help, but have still not heard anything from him. I do still really love him and it hurts like mad, just wondered what I should do with Valentines coming up, should I send anything? I was thinking balloons and chocolates, or do I just need to give him space and not send anything, I am sure he won't send me anything, but I want to show him how much I do still care and want to get us back on track. He's not giving me anything to go on so I just don't know what to do, he is a libra cusp 23rd September and I am a true Cancerian. Any ideas anyone? Thanks

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@daisey1507
13 Years

Oh I don't expect anything in return at all, I know won't even hear from him, just feel like its too significant a day to not get him anything. I decided on a personalised card instead that has photo's of us on the front, just to try and show him the good times we had. I don't know how he'll react, or if he'll like it at all x

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@daisey1507
13 Years

Yeah a cd would have been good, I had got him tickets to see Plan b last saturday before we split up, but he obviously didn't want to come, thats one of his favourite groups, but yeah maybe I could do a cd for him. Thank you all of you, I really do appreciate the comments x

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14 Years10,000+ Posts

You broke up. Why are you getting him something for Vday?

Don't do it. You're just complicating things. I mean really, isn't it telling that he didn't want to go with you to a concert of a group that he really liked?

Getting him something is gonna make you look a little fruit loops.

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@daisey1507
13 Years

Yeah I guess your right, the cards already been done and sent curtesy of moon pig, so i cant do anything about that, but i guess i just need tp leave it at that. just finding this all really hard, i dont get how when something was so good, you can turn your back on it and not look back, it just doesnt make sense to me at all. And it hurts like crazy.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Yeah, I know. Libra guys are good at that bullshit. It was something I struggled with when my ex and I broke up. For him to do a total 180 after seeing a different side of him prior to that, it's really mind boggling that someone can treat one like that that they supposedly cared about.

Do your best to keep it NC. Sending him something for Vday is pretty inappropriate, tbh.