FieryAries9
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What should i do? (last question for awhile).
You are trying too hard!! She isn't even slightly interested because it's too easy and yes we do like a challenge...we like the bad boy that makes us want them but you are the push over door mat that will only ever keep us interested for like 2 seconds...enough to get what we may want from you (friendship, ego boost, and to fill in the lull times)
Is it registering—
Are you confident enough to strut your stuff? Be the bad boy, hang and kid around with other beauties, ignore her, change your appearance, make yourself stand out and STOP falling all over her!!! Because you need to, you need to put some value on yourself for a Libran to notice you...and it wont go astray either
Because I've read a few of your threads and she is clearly not that into you! There might have been something that tickled her taste buds in the beginning...but it hasnt lasted!
Is it registering—
Are you confident enough to strut your stuff? Be the bad boy, hang and kid around with other beauties, ignore her, change your appearance, make yourself stand out and STOP falling all over her!!! Because you need to, you need to put some value on yourself for a Libran to notice you...and it wont go astray either
Because I've read a few of your threads and she is clearly not that into you! There might have been something that tickled her taste buds in the beginning...but it hasnt lasted!
Posted by sweethearts
You are trying too hard!! She isn't even slightly interested because it's too easy and yes we do like a challenge...we like the bad boy that makes us want them but you are the push over door mat that will only ever keep us interested for like 2 seconds...enough to get what we may want from you (friendship, ego boost, and to fill in the lull times)
Is it registering—
Are you confident enough to strut your stuff? Be the bad boy, hang and kid around with other beauties, ignore her, change your appearance, make yourself stand out and STOP falling all over her!!! Because you need to, you need to put some value on yourself for a Libran to notice you...and it wont go astray either
Because I've read a few of your threads and she is clearly not that into you! There might have been something that tickled her taste buds in the beginning...but it hasnt lasted!
hmm alright and yes i am confident enough and alright i am trying too hard...
Posted by wsigaf
Write her a naughty poem.
haha that would make her run as fast as she can away from me....
Posted by TasteOfChaos
Geezuz kid!
Yup, I agree with sweethearts... We prefer a challenge, we like the ones who are hard to get...
I told you before... IGNORE HER!
If she doesn't react, she is either relieved or she just doesn't care...
alright, I only have been so thickheaded about this because it matters, i won't over think it anymore...
Posted by LibraLuv
Now you know this will not be your last question... stop playin'... 🙂
no it will because i have asked all that i can really ask, I just have to use the advice given to me, i am going to invest a little more time into this, and if it doesn't work out then i can finally drop it and stop caring as much as I do.
Posted by wsigaf
My roomie has the same sun, moon, mercury and venus.
she's quite childish (but not naive),
and mostly interested in what she thinks she can't have..
likely to lose interest as soon as you're hooked.
1) take 3600 steps back
2) she'll wonder what the hell is going on.
(what has happened to my ego-stroker ?)
3) ignore any attempt from her to check if she still has that charm.
4) let her work to gain your attention back.
She will, if she was genuinely interested in the first place. 🙂
otherwise, too bad 😢
alright this is really good advice and it means a lot, I won't like making her feel ignored, but i guess it would be best, It is tiring working so hard to get nothing in return.
Posted by QLIbraMale
just do your own thang and ignore her lol. make her chase you, or you'll be considered to easy and the thrill will sizzle away. try getting create in your own ways, or hobbies basically she needs a reality check that she's not important in your life before she changes her tune. use your confidence to make her dance to your tune, it should make you feel better about yourself as well lol.
alright I am seriously going to take this advice thank you, and the next thread i post which won't be for awhile will be about the results if it amounts to anything.
Posted by wsigaf
you'll always have that charm, Koala..
it comes with being a 3rd decan.
? is that directed toward me? cause if so i am a second decan aries.
I have really nothing to add that hasn't already been said... I've been feeling sad and frustrated for you ever since you became so apologetic and mooning after her like a lost puppy, constantly asking us if you should apologize to her some more, because you apologized to her yet again, but don't feel it was quite enough. Then you ignore our advice, initiate contact, get impatient wanting things to develop NOW and do something brash and impulsive and SO Aries.. then she pulls back, you chase, you apologize.. then come ask us if you should say you're sorry some more. SHE KNOWS YOU'RE SORRY, now it's just overkill and makes you look like a whiny, clingy, needy doormat.. BIG turn off.
The Libra advice here is GOOD, so PLEASE heed it.. stop mooning about... stop FEELING so damn apologetic and weak when it comes to her. Libras like things to be FUN and stimulating, not all angsty and emotional.. they like a bit of a challenge, someone who keeps them on their toes, NOT someone they can walk all over! You're no challenge at all right now, and she KNOWS she's got you right where she wants you, you've made it very clear... so show her she's WRONG... by getting a life of your own that totally doesn't involve her. When SHE initiates contact and/or comes around, be pleasant (but NOT apologetic) and DO NOT try to be lovey or romantic.. FRIEND ZONE her for awhile.. more like an ALMOST friend. Don't be rude to her, but DO NOT seek her out, pay more attention to others, esp other girls... when it finally dawns on her that you aren't there anymore.. where'd you go?.. THAT'S when she will miss you and want to be around you. But you can't seem to keep your wits and patience about you long enough for her to miss you, so you have to keep starting over at square one! 😱
The Libra advice here is GOOD, so PLEASE heed it.. stop mooning about... stop FEELING so damn apologetic and weak when it comes to her. Libras like things to be FUN and stimulating, not all angsty and emotional.. they like a bit of a challenge, someone who keeps them on their toes, NOT someone they can walk all over! You're no challenge at all right now, and she KNOWS she's got you right where she wants you, you've made it very clear... so show her she's WRONG... by getting a life of your own that totally doesn't involve her. When SHE initiates contact and/or comes around, be pleasant (but NOT apologetic) and DO NOT try to be lovey or romantic.. FRIEND ZONE her for awhile.. more like an ALMOST friend. Don't be rude to her, but DO NOT seek her out, pay more attention to others, esp other girls... when it finally dawns on her that you aren't there anymore.. where'd you go?.. THAT'S when she will miss you and want to be around you. But you can't seem to keep your wits and patience about you long enough for her to miss you, so you have to keep starting over at square one! 😱
Posted by Nefer
I have really nothing to add that hasn't already been said... I've been feeling sad and frustrated for you ever since you became so apologetic and mooning after her like a lost puppy, constantly asking us if you should apologize to her some more, because you apologized to her yet again, but don't feel it was quite enough. Then you ignore our advice, initiate contact, get impatient wanting things to develop NOW and do something brash and impulsive and SO Aries.. then she pulls back, you chase, you apologize.. then come ask us if you should say you're sorry some more. SHE KNOWS YOU'RE SORRY, now it's just overkill and makes you look like a whiny, clingy, needy doormat.. BIG turn off.
The Libra advice here is GOOD, so PLEASE heed it.. stop mooning about... stop FEELING so damn apologetic and weak when it comes to her. Libras like things to be FUN and stimulating, not all angsty and emotional.. they like a bit of a challenge, someone who keeps them on their toes, NOT someone they can walk all over! You're no challenge at all right now, and she KNOWS she's got you right where she wants you, you've made it very clear... so show her she's WRONG... by getting a life of your own that totally doesn't involve her. When SHE initiates contact and/or comes around, be pleasant (but NOT apologetic) and DO NOT try to be lovey or romantic.. FRIEND ZONE her for awhile.. more like an ALMOST friend. Don't be rude to her, but DO NOT seek her out, pay more attention to others, esp other girls... when it finally dawns on her that you aren't there anymore.. where'd you go?.. THAT'S when she will miss you and want to be around you. But you can't seem to keep your wits and patience about you long enough for her to miss you, so you have to keep starting over at square one! 😱
I can be more patient,it's more that i over think things actually, but i will clean up the situation.
Posted by QLIbraMalePosted by FieryAries9Posted by QLIbraMale
just do your own thang and ignore her lol. make her chase you, or you'll be considered to easy and the thrill will sizzle away. try getting create in your own ways, or hobbies basically she needs a reality check that she's not important in your life before she changes her tune. use your confidence to make her dance to your tune, it should make you feel better about yourself as well lol.
alright I am seriously going to take this advice thank you, and the next thread i post which won't be for awhile will be about the results if it amounts to anything.
Good luck champ, and keep your spirits up. results are alot like life, its what you make it.click to expand
alright and thank you.
Posted by TasteOfChaosPosted by FieryAries9Posted by wsigaf
you'll always have that charm, Koala..
it comes with being a 3rd decan.
? is that directed toward me? cause if so i am a second decan aries.
No, he meant me... Im Koala cuz Im Aussie...
click to expand
oh. sorry about that.
MAAAAAATE!!!!! Stop being sooooo damn nice! Just by your answers to us, I can see how lovely you are but it doesn't turn me on...Now as a Libran woman I want that LATER....much LATER, i want a FUCK YOU ATTITUDE in the beginning!!!
I want to know that I have won something that I have had to fight for your attention a little becuase I know you are interested but lately I'm not so sure because you havent been giving me the attention I deserve....and all of a sudden I want it back!!!
I want to know that I have won something that I have had to fight for your attention a little becuase I know you are interested but lately I'm not so sure because you havent been giving me the attention I deserve....and all of a sudden I want it back!!!
Did you like my fresh Aussie accent TOC— Have I got the Maaate down pack 😛
ugh. i'm gonna disagree about her wanting a challenge. true for some, not for others. personally, i hate challenges, and i am far more likely to fall for someone if he's into me than if he isn't. at which point i challenge myself by getting all chilly and weird.
create a little more distance for now, try to talk to her a bit more, without getting that demanding vibe aries get.
the other night i met an aries. gave him my number. he sent me a text asking me to come over. a minute later when i hadn't replied he sent me another text saying i was full of shit and my number must have been fake. then he called, didn't leave a message. we had gotten along so well when we met, but i could tell he was a little too pushy for my taste. he didn't look like the typical aries either. but when i asked his sign, he made me guess. and aries was my first guess, just cos of how intense he was under the surface. i shouldn't have given him my number. at least he hasn't contacted me again.
the thing about aries is that they think they are pursuing someone, when they're really giving off this vibe of judgment, like they're chasing after you in order to grant you the opportunity to jump through hoops to impress them. they always want things on their terms, no willingness to compromise. and libras will jump through hoops, but not until you can get them to fall for you. and aries don't ever seem to have the patience for this.
basically what i'm saying is, take your time and stop wanting her to fall for you right this minute. even if she does, it takes way longer than that to warm up. be friendly. and learn to respect her independence. and that she needs things to happen a certain way. like, you can't just ask a libra out of the blue for her phone number. you can only do it after you've been talking to each other for a while, which means you have to build up to a long conversation then ask her before you part ways. then, you can't call and text her constantly. you have to respect her space.
i don't advocate ignoring her unless you're ready to move on completely.
create a little more distance for now, try to talk to her a bit more, without getting that demanding vibe aries get.
the other night i met an aries. gave him my number. he sent me a text asking me to come over. a minute later when i hadn't replied he sent me another text saying i was full of shit and my number must have been fake. then he called, didn't leave a message. we had gotten along so well when we met, but i could tell he was a little too pushy for my taste. he didn't look like the typical aries either. but when i asked his sign, he made me guess. and aries was my first guess, just cos of how intense he was under the surface. i shouldn't have given him my number. at least he hasn't contacted me again.
the thing about aries is that they think they are pursuing someone, when they're really giving off this vibe of judgment, like they're chasing after you in order to grant you the opportunity to jump through hoops to impress them. they always want things on their terms, no willingness to compromise. and libras will jump through hoops, but not until you can get them to fall for you. and aries don't ever seem to have the patience for this.
basically what i'm saying is, take your time and stop wanting her to fall for you right this minute. even if she does, it takes way longer than that to warm up. be friendly. and learn to respect her independence. and that she needs things to happen a certain way. like, you can't just ask a libra out of the blue for her phone number. you can only do it after you've been talking to each other for a while, which means you have to build up to a long conversation then ask her before you part ways. then, you can't call and text her constantly. you have to respect her space.
i don't advocate ignoring her unless you're ready to move on completely.
Really thank you so much for this advice everyone, and sorry i'm too nice.. especially thank you curious visitor you always say things so perfectly and the thing you said about aries wanting people to jump through hoops things, i feel i guess that is true, but i really wish i didn't come off that way because i really don't think i'm doing that when i am....
Posted by wsigaf
Amethyst.. are you Emo Ramo ?
and FieryAries9:
I'm sorry you feel sorry for being too nice 😉
you shouldn't though but thanks.
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Rising Sign is in 25 Degrees Cancer
Sun is in 19 Degrees Aries.
Moon is in 00 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Venus is in 09 Degrees Taurus.
Mars is in 25 Degrees Pisces.
Jupiter is in 12 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 08 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 26 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 23 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 27 Degrees Scorpio.
N.Node is in 24 Degrees Scorpio.
Her chart:
Rising Sign is in 20 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 25 Degrees Libra.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 07 Degrees Leo.
Jupiter is in 18 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 06 Degrees Pisces.
Uranus is in 22 Degrees Capricorn.
Neptune is in 20 Degrees Capricorn.
Pluto is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.