Me and my ex libra??

This topic was created in the Libra forum by thisLIBRAgirl on Thursday, November 18, 2010 and has 11 replies.

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@thisLIBRAgirl
15 YearsLibra

Hi everyone..
I was with this Libra guy for over an year, and even tho we broke up, he kept contacting me for a long time saying that "we belonged together, and that I were his soulmate etc. etc." and he would get jealous and all that stuff if I went out with my girls or was involved with another guy - he had no problem saying that he was jealous.. So I basically grew up with this guy and we have known eachother since we were like 5 years old.. abour an year and a half ago we got in to a big fight and ended our friendship, but I still see him everywhere because we have mutual friends, and he knows my entire family. Now he got a girlfriend. When he looks at me he got this look in his eyes, like he still loves me, and he get all shy and nervous when i catch him looking (and he DOES look ALL THE TIME)
I know he got a girl and all... but still, I was his first love.
Im not saying he still loves me because I dont know, but it just feels like it by his looks and the way he behaves..

So I was wondering if any of you Libra guys here feels the same about their first love?

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@thisLIBRAgirl
15 YearsLibra

Sorry .. I mean how do you libra guys feel about your first love.. and what do you guys think is going through his mind..

Btw. his chart is:

Rising sign: Sag
Moon: Virgo
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Libra
Jupiter: Aries
Saturn: Sag
Uranus: Sag
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
Sorry .. I mean how do you libra guys feel about your first love.. and what do you guys think is going through his mind..

Before I answer your question I'd like to ask one. Why do you care what he is thinking anymore?

My first love was/is still special to me but there is still a to how much or for how long I care. That fight where you talk about you guys ending your friendship would have been the end of it as far as I'm concerned. Ending a friendship with someone you were really close with is a big deal. Ok, so the relationship didn't work. He wanted you back. He tried to get you back. You shut it down and moved on. You all tried to keep a friendship but it didn't work that way. Now the friendship ended and he moved on too. I know at this point seeing my ex wouldn't invoke feelings of love and missing her. Are you sure that's what his eyes are saying? I'd be "shy and nervous" because I don't want to see her anymore.

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@thisLIBRAgirl
15 YearsLibra

Posted by LibraSid

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
Sorry .. I mean how do you libra guys feel about your first love.. and what do you guys think is going through his mind..

Are you sure that's what his eyes are saying? I'd be "shy and nervous" because I don't want to see her anymore.

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Well we was at my cousins engagement party, we were having fun and dancing and all that stuuf, and he kept staring at me.. trust me those eyes were not "im shy and nervous because I dont wanna see you" it was something else..

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@thisLIBRAgirl
15 YearsLibra

@LibraSid - I dont really think about what he is thinking daily, but whenever i see him, he does this, and then I think about it.. Im over it myself. just wanted to know if any of you guys had experience with some of the same things.

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@JOJOJO
18 Years500+ Posts

I would take me ex back, we are still friends to this day. We dated almost 12 years ago and are the best of friends, even after breaking off the friendship after a horrible argument. But what keeps me from not allowing myself to go back is the reason we broke up, I still see those things in her and I will not allow that into my life anymore. That door for is closed and never to be re-open. Some Libra can return to past relationships but one notion of why it ended and the relationship is unrepairable. Don't let the eyes deceive you, it's our actions that count. A Libra's stare says more than we care to reveal.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Libra men and the eyes they make @ you. They will say 1 thing but then their eyes tell a different story.
And yes they do stare....like they expect you to read what their eyes are telling you.
If, him staring is making you uncomfortable tell him to "stop making eyes at you". I had to tell mr libra the exact thing.