What to do A Libra Man and I am a Gemini/Cancer

I don't know what to do this guy is so cool well let me explain this to you...I live in Japan, I'm an African American woman and I teach English here, ok no big deal, so anyway 2 weeks ago I met this guy David, he's half Korean and Chinese, by chance I just happened to be at a festival chillin talking English cause I didn't feel like speaking Japanese that day. Anyway I said hi to David not paying much mind and towars the end of the festival I spoke to some Japanese people in Japanese of coarse...and he happened to ask me do I speak the lanugage and I said of coarse I pera pera, which is the cool way of sayin, oh yeah I do. Anyway after that he seemed right away to off and on stare at me, make some kind of conversation with me, his english isn't the best but it was better then most. After a friend and I waited for David and my other friend to finish cleaning we went to dinner, we had a few drinks and David asked me what kind of guys do I like, I know being part Cancer I fall quickly so I took that as a compliment and told him what i liked in a man and for the rest of the evening I told him funny stories about me and my blunders in japan. The best part of it all was that he actually laughed at it, when most asian/japanese men wouldn't even bother, now during the week he emailed me one day like what seemed like forever and I loved it then the emails stopped, but I emailed him inviting him to movies at my place, in which he was cool with that, he also called me on the phone which I find unusual because most Asian men don't do that. I want to know do you think this libra likes me, cause I don't know, I don't want to waste my time I'm cooking him dinner and we are gonna teach each other english/chinese/japanese to each other....does it take lots of time to get to know them—? even when I used my"loud voice" he said it was cute....I don't know what to do can anyone help me before this weekend————?

It can take awhile for a serious relationships. Flirting is part of the libran nature, so I wouldn't take this too serious too soon.

wat u mean by part cancer/gemini? wats ur dob?

I'm born on the cusp june 22 gem/cancer, I read so much about both signs and m personality never just belongs to one, I'm a social butterfly like a gemini yet retreat back to my shell sometimes like a cancer. Also like a gemini I HATE being at home, you'll never find me there, but cancer loves to stay home...no way thats just not me. I feel as if sometimes I got the worst signs in the zodiac

It can take awhile for a serious relationships. Flirting is part of the libran nature, so I wouldn't take this too serious too soon.


About this post LadyScorpio thanks for the advice do you have any pointers, I know a weakness of mine is patience...anything more you can tell me—? Thanks

I am not yet sure about the cusp part. Remains a complex situation. 😢

Patience? U are no way a gemini then. So dont waste time on a libra. Plus if you were a gemini then you would never let a libra catch u.

I'm a gem with A LOT of cancer in my chart and just got through dating a libra male. I am very loyal & patient too..and it doesn't mix if he turns out to be flighty. But then again, I am also quite the opportunist and therein lies my flight.

I think if he is interested, he will show it. Libras are flirts by nature and are incredibly charming at that, so it's easy to fall. They also make for fun & supportive friends. Often times our conversation was kept light and I would sometimes yearn for more depth, so I'd have to create it.

Remember: It doesn't hurt to ask him if you've got any questions.

It's still early, just try to have fun with it. :-)

Well I thought that I would update all of you on my situation well, nothing happened and he never showed up to coming to my house BUT we did wind up going to see each other that Sunday, he was with another girl that he said he was friends with, I wasn't jealous after all I'm not dating him and such, but he DID tell me that he kissed her that didn't bother me either surprisingly, in fact I gave him a present, well thats only because of the nice time that we had at the movies. Well during dinner he apoligized to the girl and said it was a mistake, and that it wasn't going to happen again, and then went on to me talking in english which the other girl couldn't understand. But anyway, he went on to tell me that he hates sex, I don't know what boring girls he's been with, and that he didn't want a realationship, during the time I was drinking so I mentioned to him what if a girl understood that he had to work all the time, would he then and he said that would be ok, well with that out the way I told him that in american culture that women like to touch their male friends and would that be ok to do with him as well, he also agreed and as we left I hugged him and he held me a few seconds and walked off with that girl. Well anyway elieve it or not the next evening he said that the girl I met the evening before wated to see me and they were having dinner and such so though it was far out my way I went to eat and to another bar with him. I was GREAT he was wasted and I found out that the girl worked at that same place so anyway he and I spoke most of the evening and at one point when he got up to use the bathroom that silent chick asked me do I like him, I didn't give her the straight answer but I did in a sense answer yes. Well after that night I was so certain that he wanted a break from me though I wanted to be with him. Anyway skipping to last Saturday he wanted to go out with me so I got some friends and we went out to another bar, life is drinking in japan, and I played darts against him and lost horribly, thats ok, but the thing that kinda depressed me was the fact that even though he complained about that chick being silent he had SEX with her, damn flirtatious libra's ahhhhh, anyway I played it off and didn't let it ruin my evening with him, he said he was drunk at the time, AGAIN, and didn't really enjoy it, what reaction was he expecting from me—

I didn't know what to do so I just said ok, and told him serves you right, if he thought she was boring in the first place. Anyway after that we went to a dance club, did I mention I looked FABULOUS, and I thought he would be sitting on the sidelines all night. I asked him to dance, and most asians can't dance, or at least keep up with me, so I told him I would teach him, he got half way dancing with me as I taught him the simple 2 step and then gave up. Well I didn't want that to ruin my evening so I kept dance, I met 2 of my japanese girlfriends that night and one of them was talking to him, and I don't know what she said, but he got up and asked me to dance I was AMAZED after a while of dancing with him as the evening got better some japanese chick was with bad company, and I know libra's fairness and all but when even after we got her away from them he's was ALL about her, he wasn't kissing on her or anything but he was pissin me off about it, well after all that was over, I wanted to test the limits on if I could touch him or not he let me hold his hand, put my arm in his, touch his leg, not like that, and lay on his shoulder....but the BEST part of all was during one song he asked ME to dance and I asked him did he want me to be serious about it he said yea, well it didn't lead to anything but for someone that didn't know how to dance that night he sure WOW'D me as he made up some nice sensous moves, I was charmed right back into him....awwww...anyway the night soon over he had to go after all he had work the next day, so I said that me and my friends would go to he gave me a hug of his own free will, WHICH I LOVED 🙂 but here's where it got weird my friends decided to stay and then he did too, but then suddenly he checked his phone messages like he usually does and left I walked him as far as I could to the exit and he just left no second hug nothing felt like a HUGE detachment, well he tried to call me that night but I didn't get any reception, so I mailed him that night asking if he wanted to go out with me the next day. I had a HORRIBLE hangover, but I was still determined to go out with him, he wound up canceling on me, saying he had work, which was fine cause I was in no mood to really go out anyway, well I mailed him to give me a ring or mail that night when he had the time or a break...

well its been 2day's since then and I just feel like he's mad at me or he just wants nothing to do with me now, I don't know if I should mail him tomorrow, I have off on the 20th and was thinking of asking him out what should I do? Should I leave him alone———??damn that libra charm 😢

Sorry about the long posts thanks