What to do with this libra?

Hun unfortunetly you have to let go.. nothing you can do can win him back if he has already made up his mind. You will only end up disrespecting yourself and lowering your self esteem. You have to cut all contact with him by deleting his numbers and staying away completely. It wont be easy but if you keep yourself busy with your friends and family eventually you will get over him and meet someone new.

I know you want to hear something different but if you look at the things he is already "DOING & SAYING" you will know yourself in your heart that it is over. Sorry😢

Libras always want what they cant have. The harder it is 2 get the more the want it. As soon as they get u and u tell them u have feelings and start giving them all ur time they slowly lose interest. Stop contacting him, stop looking at him and dont go 2 the places he is at. U have 2 completly drop off the map. If u have mutual friends try and keep ur whereabouts under wraps. He thinks u will always b around and that he can keep u as a plan b. He is only interested in ur friend again cuz she has moved on and he cant stand that he wasnt and isnt being adored and worshipped by her. When he starts paying attention 2 u~ and he will~ DO NOT fall 4 it or give n2 him. He is just testing 2 c if u still find him attractive. It will seem like a relationship will start up again but i seriously doubt it. Please do not fall 4 this. It is a bad libra trait. We all do it on some level. Its horrible and it sucks but u have 2 pick urself up and dust urself off and find the strength 2 turn ur back 2 him and walk away for good.

Also what he is doing has nothing 2 do with u or what u did or didnt do. U have 2 come 2 the understanding that this is a problem of his and noone can help him with it. U have 2 put everything n2 a relationship. And sometimes u get with someone who does the same. Being 2 emotional isnt a bad thing~ unless its crazy emotional. U need 2 find someone who likes ur passion. It will happen.

As a Librian, if I make up my mind on someone then it's definite! 100% OVER. Yes I might come back into your life one day BUT it's not because I want to re-ignite the relationship but the "friendship" I hate to think that we can't be friends because it didnt workout as lovers (yes I have no problem admitting I want people to like me, who wants haters?)...it's the other parties that are reading more into this from what I can see!

?? I'm a pisces, and he has three other pisces in his life that he so loves: the smashing pumpkins, nirvana, and sublime.

Music ain't people baby. You can turn it off when you want. 🙂

?? sent him an emotional letter too, ahhh.

So he complains that you are too emotional and your response is to write him an emotional letter. Herein lies the crux of your problem.

You have an inner NEED to express your emotions to the person you feel closest too. HE has an inner need NOT to have people express their darker emotions around him. Who wins? Noone. You are in opposition. You aren't compatible at all. Noone will be happy.

Although you may not see his inner NEED as a need it is. It is. And it is just as strong and just as intrigal to his happiness as expressing your emotions are to you and your happiness. The fact is, he cannot give you the emotional support you want, in the way you want it. He will never make you feel loved in a way that you need.

Alas music is not enough to base a relationship on, although wouldn't it be great if it was? I am pretty sure it is the only reason me and my ex stay together as long as we did. Lol! By the way Beathappening is an awesome band. I??ve had —Our Secret?? running through my head since I saw your post. 🙂

Not everyone we love is compatible or good for us. This guy can never meet your inner needs. You can't lie and change them. That spells disaster. He can't change who he is.

(Plus young guys in bands? That is heartache in capital letters my friend.)

Let this one go and find someone who finds all your need to express emotion charming and wouldn't want you to change anything.

* Libras are sweet they really are when they are not jerks.

This made me giggle!

🙂

you blew it by being a fish girl sorry too emotional