What's your fear..

As I've noticed from a far, I picked up on Libras fearing that the person with whom they fall in love with will ultimately change. Whether its growing distant or developing into a completely different person (maybe the person who they are supposed to be), etc..


- side note, my libra friend's brother had a girlfriend for 6 years, and she changed on him, they were actually supposed to get married, but she cheated on him and married someone else. she changed about half way through the relationship. and this effected my libra friend as much as it effected his brother (the one in the relationship). he always says "people change people change", and as i listen carefully, i sense a bit of fear in his voice and in his soul that someone will do this to him.

Do you libras have a deep rooted fear that the love of your life will leave you/change?

How old is this person, that she changed? I'm a Libra, and concerned the person who I love would leave. Let's face it, people have options, they come and go. They were not meant to be, and I'm sure someone our there better for him.

They were both in their early 20s I wanna day 23/22.. So you she afraid of someone leaving you?

Everyone has their own personal fear.

For example mine, being an earth sign, is loving someone who is unreliable, someone who I can't count on. To tauruses, that is most important thing, stability. Without it, we are internally unhappy and incomplete.

I'd say this is a common fear in all people that have been hurt before or have witnessed
someone close to them being hurt, especially if that person did everything right.
However when you are mature enough you dont let the fear of someone else leaving you or hurting
ruin your chances at finding someone.
Are you cautious? Of course. This is why there's no harm in building a friendship with someone.
The reason a friendship before a relationship is so important, is because friends tend not to hurt you
as much. They are most of the time considerate of your feelings, and if nothing else they always want the friendship to fall back on if a relationship doesnt work.
I have a fear of rejection but i dont let it stop me from what i want. I'm just not very direct when im too scared. lol

They are very young. On a spiritual level, it's not that she changed, it could be she learned who she is and what she wants. Unfortunately, Libra struggles to make a relationship work although it should have ended earlier. I really hope your guy friend learned from this relationship, if not, it will be a repetitive cycle of disappointment for him.

I'm curious, are you "mysteriousTaurus" are a guy/girl? I'm Libra girl.

People change all the time everyday everyday second tizani

And I am a female

I agree with you what you say. This is why Libra try you in different ways and need much space and time , just to see if you transforming yourself into other person or you will be constant in what you are when they met you. The Libra ways to try you, are many and not easy to win them . If after all, you will no change your feelings for him, he will know you are the one. But, in the same time, Libras wrong using all this ways, because the person who they try, will think that he is not real . The person see his change , because Libra when do this , they also change themselves ( become cool, cold, disappear for a while, ignore you, etc..). So, I guess, your friend's brother ( if I understood well) who is a Libra, used all this ways to try his GF and she did not had the patience or understanding to pass all this tests, in a point where she cheated him also because of this tests , Nobody likes to be tested ! But Libra do this a lot with peoples ! and peoples think about them that they are fake in feelings and relationship when they use a cold way to testing you or ignore you to see your reactions, or disappearing from you to see if you get him back, etc..

For example mine, being an earth sign, is loving someone who is unreliable, someone who I can't count on. To tauruses, that is most important thing, stability. Without it, we are internally unhappy and incomplete.




Leo is the same . But air signs not ... They can fly anytime and find others because they have the ability to fly in the air... we don't have, we need stability on the earth.

Did your libra do this to you? Mine did this to me, but he started talking to his ex again, I told him it's over even though we weren't official, I told him he needs time to himself to figure out what he wants. He hurt me sooo bad. He lead me on so much. Then completely changed. But honestly I think he's confused and will come back to me because I'm a Taurus and I'm so patient with him. His ex is an Aries. She hates me. She def manipulates him to take her back even though she cheated on him and I never hurt him. Typical Aries. Always trying to win. That's all they care about. And libras are influenced easily. He's such a mess but I don't want to give up on him. He even told me, "when I was with my ex I was so attracted to you and interested, I don't know why" because we are compatible you idiot that's why. Libras annoy me now because there's always confusing themselves they never make a solid decision