Why not to date a Libra...

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Libra:

Don't ever ask a Libra a question that involves a choice unless you want to camp out wherever you happen to be while they're trying to choose. They're not famous for their decision-making abilities. If you want to date a Libra, tell them what you want them to wear before you get there, pick them up, take them where you want to go, and order for them. You'll have a wonderful time -- which is all that counts, in their minds. Do Libras lie? No, they don't... well, maybe a little... okay, it depends. If they know you really want to hear the truth, then truth it is -- 100% . If truth is not what they know you're in the mood for, they'll smile, ask you what you think, and agree. That's not lying, is it? It's just that they care so very much about your happiness -- truly. Never mind the fact they'll also smile, listen, and agree when your arch-enemy tells their side of the story seconds later, while you're in the bathroom. Of course, that's not likely to happen, i.e., you going anywhere without your Libra lover. These folks don't like to do anything alone or go anywhere without you -- not even there.

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If we're generalising...I'll have a go.
In my view another reason why not to date a libra is the clinginess... Well-intentioned,ofcourse, i do believe they want the best for their partners.. My boyfriend is a libra and I'm a cappy with moon in aquarius ( and venus in pisces). We cannot get anywhere everytime we talk and discuss issues between us because he simply agrees with everythign that i say, and that's it, no talk, no going forward,he 'admits' everytime that i am right(!!!!!), cos he's afraid to lose me.This makes me climb the walls cos im not looking for someone to sing my song but someone who can add to my song.
He says so many times he thinks he's good for nothing and only I can make him better.(this i find scary) .he got my name tatooed on him (this i find very scary too). He made me meet his mum 'accidentally' and i got preached by the woman not to play with her boy cos he's very sad when i upset him (!!!). Oh and i didnt foresee this at the beginning because at the beginning he was so nice and indeed willing to compromise'!. little did i know it was a trap. Are all the libra men like that or did i just find the troubled one?
Ofcourse the truth is someowhere in the middle and i'm not exactly miss 'i'll cut my arm for you my beloved and i'll spend all my waking hours with you' but yet.. I am curious... are all the libra men ----that---- clingy that they end up driving partners away?
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Cancerlady,
Yes, he DOES have his moon in Cancer! Amazing how you spotted him.I completely forgot about his chart, but oh, how well does his behaviour match with his Cancer Moon. Also his Venus is in Sagitarius and his Ascendent in Leo. Add to that my moon in Aquarius and hah, recipe for disaster. I think you are right saying to watch out for his patterns. All my mates are saying the same, especially after he's got my name tattoed on him. He's alright, quiet one, extremely funny and people pleaser another times,everybody likes him, just clingy.. he seems innocent, I'm not scared of him at all but funny that, if i get to think of it,and after watching too many thrillers --he seems obsessed with me. I'm gradually seeing him less and less,and i'm not shy of telling him my reasons. Thanks for your feedback
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Well BizzMizz,

That was the only combination with Libra I could think of that would make him so clingy...but then again you are a Cappy with Aqua rising which means you are always going to like to do your own thing outside of you man, I would imagine. But I have a Cancer moon too so watch out!


The Cancer Moon is a sensitive, patient and devoted Moon. This Moon possesses literary and/or artistic abilities coupled with a sharp memory. The Cancer Moon learns and expresses everything through emotions and harbors a strong desire to be a nurturer. This Moon is likely to have heightened psychic abilities, although life itself is lived within a series of mood swings. The Cancer Moon is prone to the expression of insecurities in a smothering, possessive and/or jealous manner.

In general, the personality of those whose Moon sign is in Cancer will be very similar to those individuals whose Moon sign is in Taurus. Both combinations are very fond of relaxation and satisfaction. However, those individuals with Cancer as their Moon sign are different in that they lack the stability and/or stubborn character provided by Taurus (unless, of course, the person in question happens to have Taurus as his or her Sun sign). The personality of the Moon in Cancer subject is rather supple and flexible. This will be an emotional character whose surroundings play a large role in his or her mood. When individuals with the Moon in Cancer are at home, or some other comfortable place, they can be quite sociable, friendly and charitable. However, when the environment proves to be less comforting, they tend to hide themselves. Basically inherently conservative, those whose Moon sign is in Cancer tend to be very close to their families...in particular, the mother. Here, there may well be a strong attachment and very often, both mother and child will share many personality traits. Generally, accepting advice from others and following through on the plans of others will bring good luck to the Moon in Cancer person. These are people perceptive of the feelings of those around them and they frequently prove to be good actors or mimics. Blessed with an inherent sensitivity, the Moon in Taurus subject is often psychic. These individuals are strongly attracted to water (although they are not always aware of this) and may live or vacation near large bodies of water. They are also likely to favor travel by ship as the preferred mode of transport. Basically sympathetic, kind and compassionate souls, individuals whose Moon sign is Cancer are drawn to the underdog and the downtrodden of society...a hard luck story will win them over every time. There is a tendency for those governed by the Moon sign of Cancer to expect others to see and feel they world as they do. This often leads to feelings of rejection when such is not the case. Those governed by Cancer as their Moon sign are likely to keep mementos of their lives from the first four-leaf clover they found to the dog-eared photograph of their first love...probably all tied up with a pink ribbon.




Leo rising people cannot help but be noticed. They radiate a special energy and magnetism that gets others' attention. Sometimes it's because they are loud people who pay a lot of attention to their personal appearance (especially their hair!); other times it's due to a regal manner that simply demands interest from others.

Leo Ascendant people are very self-aware and body-conscious. They are acutely aware of others, and how they come across. In fact, these people are especially aware of their personal "backdrop"--they consider what the people they're with, and the environments they are in, do to their own image. Often, Leo rising natives feel as if they are on stage, even in the privacy of their own homes!

They are given to rash decisions, temper tantrums, and excesses. However, they have plenty of staying power, drive, and their idealism keeps them from
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Hello Cancerlady,
Thank your for making the effort to post the last bit, it describes my boyfriend to a T.
Buy you told me to watch out when I'm talking about Cancer Moon people, and I feel the need to clarify I don't mean to criticise them, if anything I have a lot to learn from them cos they're so different from the way I am. I admire their sensibility and the way they are stretches my beliefs and pushes me to think outside my box. Compared to them I seem so cold blooded ! But Im not, i just got more common sense (me hides
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Oh No You diiin't! How dare you!

Just kidding chica, I was saying Watch Out! because I know what we are like, not because I thought you were critical of the sign. Sometime I can get a little clingy, even for my Pisces man who loves it most of the time.

Well maybe I shouldn't say clingy...I just like to touch him and kiss him because he is so beautiful. Cancers are very affectionate. LOL Just the other night he said he was going to put me on a kissing ration for his face. He said 10 kisses per day...At first my feelings were hurt, but then he explained that he breaks out really easily, even from his own sweat so he has to limit my kisses. At that point I was like oh, okay!

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LOL lease ! Anyways thanks guys for your postings i think they are making a lot of sense. I'm already so enjoying myself and i don't loath him as much as i did before,as a matter of fact i called him today just to catch up and i actually enjoyed talking to him. I think that's part of the leashing process heh!🙂 to my eyes that was a good piece of advice and a point i was about to miss, Cancerlady. So I won't let him go too far,but I will have some FUN! He's acting so differrently, i am fascinated. He asked me if we can see eachother today, I said no cos i have other things to do and there's not enough time in the day, and he was so cool about it! No need for me to explain, to reassure, to compensate to promise another time. I so appreciate that. Meanwhile I am back to being the real me back to my idiosyncrasies,having a laugh with everybody, but not a moment without being grateful to what has he done for me.
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Bizzmizz... I dated a libran man too... same things.... absolutely the same.. he drove me up the wall though...! At one point I just had to shake him off me... I think Libran men are like that but not women... I just got real tired of being indecisive and then having someone as indecisive with me.. then at some point I felt like I was wearing the trousers.... and I like a man's man. you know? And all his artistic yabber... ahhh...! Met a leo after.. beautiful smooth sailing, took the reins... I felt woman lol...

I think there was something particularly disturbed with the Libran guy I dated... when I argued with him once... he cut shapes on his arm with a knife beats a tattoo.. and excuse me if I say it (*&^ing scary...! Oh and he planned how many kids... when we'd get married.. the rooms in the house he'd build... lol... Sorry I'm just rambling on.... but I was surely frightened!
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It depends I guess, I am quite like that too (except the self inflicted injury part), always wondering about the future, I think one of the hardest lesson that I have learn is how to enjoy the journey together, and let whatever happen come as a surprise. Use to be like your ex-libran guy, libra24, wondering about the future. I guess, including most libran friends I know, tend to do that in love, it's a happy thought about the future, a feeling of togetherness with our partner, the US. Though sometimes it scares our partner when we do that, know that it's laden with good intentions. The Gemini gal that I am with, was clever enough to reason with me, and it made me realise, that perhaps I rush to the future too much. So another advise for ladies dating libra guys, just reason with him - it will work wonders. Just avoid emotional blackmail and games.

By the way Cancerlady, where do you get the reading for BizzMizz? Can I have a website if you have it with you? If not can you do a quick read for me? Sun,Moon,Venus,Mars in Libra and Merc in Virgo. Thanks. 🙂
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Hello again Cancerlady, crimson-tide ,and all how are you? My bf and i are OK, though still keeping the distance from him. He is being a great help more often than not, not pushing himself towards me at all. But somehting slipped out last week when we met to catch up, he said somehting about sharing his whole life with me and buying a house. it was part of a joke, said with a light heart, but it activated my red button and i am even more pondering now how shuld i approach him the safest way. i have no reasons to blank him out because he is a very nice person and bless his heart he doesnt deserve to be hurt.like all of us heh.i told him i would love to be friends with him and take it from there, without assuming we're love-birds. he told me to think of his ways as an advertisement, he is advertising himself to me, i dont have to get wound up about it, i can take it if i want to. lol. so still in the same spot. i consider him and behave with him like he is a very very good friend of mine, nothing like boyfriend and girlfriend. he seems to need that statement that i'm his girlfriend, and i am not prepare to give it to him.anyway🙂. how are things with you?
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Heal...Here ya go!

Leo Ascendant

Leo rising people cannot help but be noticed. They radiate a special energy and magnetism that gets others' attention. Sometimes it's because they are loud people who pay a lot of attention to their personal appearance (especially their hair!); other times it's due to a regal manner that simply demands interest from others.

Leo Ascendant people are very self-aware and body-conscious. They are acutely aware of others, and how they come across. In fact, these people are especially aware of their personal "backdrop"--they consider what the people they're with, and the environments they are in, do to their own image. Often, Leo rising natives feel as if they are on stage, even in the privacy of their own homes!

They are given to rash decisions, temper tantrums, and excesses. However, they have plenty of staying power, drive, and their idealism keeps them from getting into too much trouble. The desire to oversee the goings-on in their circle can sometimes amount to bossiness. If this desire doesn't go too far, however, it can just mean a person who wants to make sure the people they love are all right. Many Leo rising people are managers, either by profession or character.

The tendency to overestimate things, and themselves, is generally present. This is due to a natural enthusiasm and optimism about any new undertaking. Sometimes, they are walking commercials. In fact, Leo rising people make excellent promoters.

Leo rising people are generally demonstrative, and given to grand gestures. Drama comes naturally to these natives. In fact, some are so caught up in fiction, they're a little blind to fact. They have an unusual need to be admired.

Leo Ascendants often have a strong physical constitution. They pay special attention to their personal appearance and mannerisms. Usually, they choose clothing and hair style s that are youthful. Their manner is authoritarian and strong.

No matter their age in real-world terms, Leo rising people are kids at heart. They are fun-loving and warm; generous and spirited.

Just how magnanimous and outgoing a Leo rising individual is will be modified by the placement of the Sun by sign and house. This is because the ruling planet of a Leo Ascendant is the Sun. For example, a Leo rising person with Sun in Virgo may not come across as strongly as a Leo rising person with Sun in Aries. No matter the placement of the Sun, however, Leo rising natives are quite self-aware and optimistic. They have a natural flair for presentation, an eye for quality, and a hard-to-resist warmth of style . They want to make things happen, and create a stir.

The Sun in Libra: Never tell one of these folks that they aren?t being fair. They tend to get angry with that one. And never argue with a Libra Sun-Sign head on. They will counter your every argument. Just look thoughtful, as if you are listening to their every word. You don?t actually HAVE to listen. Just look that way. With Libra Sun-Signs, it?s the outer form that counts. After they have finished, say "I see you?re point. But ON THE OTHER HAND" (and you must say "on the other hand") "isn?t there another side?" In many cases, they will think for a second or two, and reply, "You?re right, there?s another side" and they will proceed to argue for it and demolish their own point of view. A very fair sign. Balance is the key to understanding Libra. They can be aggressive one day and passive the next, hard at work one month and take it easy the next. And always, that charm, even when they are being shocking, like Lenny Bruce.

The Moon in Libra: needs charming surroundings at home. Not anything gaudy or showy. That would be more Leo. Just charming and in good taste. The women in the life tend to be charming and artistic, but not emotional or nurturing. Remember that little elegant touches appeal to Libra and that the Moon rules emotions. If you are
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Hey BizzMizz

So you are Bf/Gf because i know you said before you weren't ready to go there with him? You know libra's are all about the couple thing!

Has he become less clingy? I just read your chart and there's no wonder you are scared...The Sag rising of course HATES clinginess...The cappy sun makes you less demonstrative in love and the Aqua mercury lets you be able to tell him he's getting on your nerves all up under you all the time.

BUT I bet because of that pesky Pisces venus...underneath it all you just want someone to love and care for you unconditionally.

Cancerlady

BTW if you want to read about my Pisces man drama...Check out the Cancerboard under my birthday party post. PEACE!