Will I have a chance to be with him?

I'm taurus and he is libra. I'm 18 teen and he is 20.
We were classmates. We chatted very often on yahoo then when we were chatting, he asked me to be his gf.

At that time I like him too, but I want he say it to me face to face, not on the Internet. He said he scare of girl, he do
not dare to say it, but he persured me that even if he said it on the internet- it's real feelings and he will has reponsibility for what he said. I laughed and said "I don't believe" then I changed the topic.

We also hanging out together, he never touch me, just look at me and smiling. We didn't talk too much when we dating. Instead, when we go home, we online and chat about the day. Once time when we were chatting, he said "you're so beautiful and cute, I wanna hug you... will you accpet it if I hug you"? . I was really surprised, why he don't hug me, hold my hand when we were in the cinema— Why he wait untill we go home and ask me that question?
I thought that he don't really like me, I'm not pleased. I want he act stronger!


We continues dating , but it's sparse gradually. 3 months recently, I feel I'm losing him, like he's pulling aways. He do not online often, but he answer my texting. I tried to make he interested in me again, I became the only one he contact first and he just answer. I made foods and bring to school for him, I made 2 handmade gifts for him. He always smile and say thank you. He also shows that he proud of its when his friends saw us. I told him that I like to be going out with he, interested in him. He responded by smiling, laughing, don't say a word!
I asked him out, he acppeted, but 2 months lately he denied due many reasons 😢 He told me that 's tired and stress about life and his studying. He don't want to go out...

These days he's very strange. He has not used his facebook, has not online on yahoo, starting vegetarian for 1 months!

What should I do now? Should I wait for a long time (3-4 weekes)to make he miss me and want me again—

But 5 months ago said that he like me. What is the problem with age? It is not a true love because I'm too young?

Posted by wsigaf
awwww

what do you mean?

then what should I do? any advice for me?

Posted by QLIbraMale
as a shy Libra Man, I can relate to him, basically he likes you but doesn't want to offend you, he's in depressed Libra stage where we need our space. Age your both young, and he's scared of "Rejection" because he asked you online to hug you ect ect. So as Libra Man i'm also shy at times and hate "Rejection" So here's my Tip to bring closeness for y'all. 1. If you still Like him Text him telling him your just thinking about him and you hope everything okay text him 3-4 times a week but not back to back days.#2. This is very important !!!!!!!!!!!! (You Need To Make The Initiative) When you see each other again Hug Him, & Maybe a kiss on cheek, saying you missed him. lol this helps bring his caring confidence back, than y'all will go from there Good Luck.

If he is in depressed stage and need space. Why I should text him? is it disturb him?
about hugs and kiss... do u thik it's possible? cause it's not formal in my country (Asia) 😢

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Honestly... You just need to move on, the quicker you do the happier you will be...

You're young and boys are gonna come and go... Have fun and enjoy your youth...

I liked many boys, But he'is special- the only one who I can not forget. I feel that only him can understand me totaly. I'm thinking of him every minute 😢(

* But 5 months ago said that he like me.

He probably did 5 months ago. Pull up a chair and let me give you a bit of advice that will help you through dating and love. What is true today may not be true tomorrow. Just because he liked you 5 months ago, and could possibly still like you, many things have changed in that time. You have both changed. Just reading this email means you have a different perspective and are different from when you started reading. He just lost interest. It happens.

This will happen a lot. Not because you aren't a great person but because sometimes it just happens. Try not to take it personal. You are young and both of you are changing and growing. Not every like nor every love means a lifelong commitment. Having a broken heart is a very cliche experience and everyone experiences at one time or another. It just is part of being human. But remember, you are meant to break up with every person except one. This guy wasn't your one, which means your one is still out there somewhere.

Thank you all 🙂

Posted by little_sparrow
* But 5 months ago said that he like me.

He probably did 5 months ago. Pull up a chair and let me give you a bit of advice that will help you through dating and love. What is true today may not be true tomorrow. Just because he liked you 5 months ago, and could possibly still like you, many things have changed in that time. You have both changed. Just reading this email means you have a different perspective and are different from when you started reading. He just lost interest. It happens.

This will happen a lot. Not because you aren't a great person but because sometimes it just happens. Try not to take it personal. You are young and both of you are changing and growing. Not every like nor every love means a lifelong commitment. Having a broken heart is a very cliche experience and everyone experiences at one time or another. It just is part of being human. But remember, you are meant to break up with every person except one. This guy wasn't your one, which means your one is still out there somewhere.

You're right. We talked 4 days ago, he told me that:

_17 days ago, on his birthday, another girl told him she loves him. He accepted it!
_ It was so difficult to chase me, he gave up and decided to be friends with me 3 months ago.

I also asked him "Do we have a chance if I talk to you sooner?" He answer "maybe, I can't answer cause It didn't happen"


Now I know I have to move on and forget him even though it's seem so hard 😢

Posted by ceecee
Thank you all 🙂

Posted by little_sparrow
* But 5 months ago said that he like me.

He probably did 5 months ago. Pull up a chair and let me give you a bit of advice that will help you through dating and love. What is true today may not be true tomorrow. Just because he liked you 5 months ago, and could possibly still like you, many things have changed in that time. You have both changed. Just reading this email means you have a different perspective and are different from when you started reading. He just lost interest. It happens.

This will happen a lot. Not because you aren't a great person but because sometimes it just happens. Try not to take it personal. You are young and both of you are changing and growing. Not every like nor every love means a lifelong commitment. Having a broken heart is a very cliche experience and everyone experiences at one time or another. It just is part of being human. But remember, you are meant to break up with every person except one. This guy wasn't your one, which means your one is still out there somewhere.

You're right. We talked 4 days ago, he told me that:

_17 days ago, on his birthday, another girl told him she loves him. He accepted it!
_ It was so difficult to chase me, he gave up and decided to be friends with me 3 months ago.

I also asked him "Do we have a chance if I talk to you sooner?" He answer "maybe, I can't answer cause It didn't happen"


Now I know I have to move on and forget him even though it's seem so hard 😢

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You want a stronger man CeeCee, he seems too insecure and didn't want to work at catching you. You will meet a better one soon.

I love his gentle acts, his moderate voice. It's my fault that I didn't realize it soon 😢( How can I deal with this feelings? 😢