twin flame and soul mate = same thing?

long story short, i think it is the same thing, your twin flame is your soul mate, the person you are destined to be with, anyone else agree? (romantically of course) ive had a twin flame bond with one of my best girl friends but i wouldnt consider her my soul mate necessarily because i am not a lesbian.

No they are not the same. They both are soul connection and can feel deep love but the thing is, twin flame is YOU, the perfect mirror. But soulmates are great lessons in your life and you have lived with them in past lives many times but with twin, not so much.

Soulmates relationships are often like a ride in a smooth sail but because twins are mirrors a lot of problems arises.

Yes, if think that way that "meant to be" then yes, twin flames are your soulmates but when looking into more details then there are differences and really big ones.

Same thing yes = illusion = wishful thinking

then why are you looking through this thread or metaphysical section? in this way, all this is wishful thinking and illusion.

NO, they are NOT the same. Although they both are based on love...

Soul mate relationships are positive, relatively easygoing, and based on mutual understanding.

Twin soul relationships are emotionally difficult and all about growth. They involve an enormous amount of pain and frustration.

Also, the mirror image thing is key.

With a soul mate, there are a lot of conjunctions.

With a twin soul, it's ying and yang - full of oppositions and mirror images.

dont wish it up on you lol. i am serious. doomed for life lol

No it is not just something I read about, I experienced it and still am.

What can I say. The idea seems very good and wanting the love, but the love is beyond strong, the connection is telephatic, you can feel his present even when he is not with you. Its intense and sometimes it is so intense I cant function. It is deep soul love, and I love that about it but the thing is, it is so painful. All your inner problems arise, everything.. the fear of losing the other half is strong, it makes you insane, literally. I have lost my mind because I didnt understand what this is and still dont quite get it. Its pain and love at the same time. When you have experienced this love, nooone else compares to this but what happens when he is not there anymore, in the end? Its like you have lost something in you that dont have replacement, ever. I dont wanna imagine the time when we are both old and sick. I dont wanna think about the pain, because I know that it would feel like my heart is ripped out. He is home, he is me, he is the divine place to be. But it hurt a lot in the past, all the rejection, all my inner pain and fears, it all hurt me. And even though we are together, and the love is strong, it still is intense and wishing it on to someone is not good but I would want everybody to feel this love to someone, but the process is painful. Heart felt pain. Deep. Hurting. All the time. And the person dont leave your mind once during this time. Even when really want to.

You asked in another thread that if this just really a cat lady obsessing about a man. No it isnt. I thought about it butI got my guide and people with TFs (real ones) are not obsessing. The mans view is the same. Even stronger because his fear of loss was stronger than mine and to bear with it, he let me go. If you dont have it, then the loss of me is lower and not so painful. But he came back, with a lot of time for healing.. gosh. this is intense relationship.

What's his sign taurusinsane? How long were u separated for after the initial meeting?

My TF runners perspective from his point of view. An unawakened one. "I just didn't see that it could go anywhere". We were both in committed relationships at the time despite the connection. He just cut our tie completely out of the blue and stopped communicating. I was destroyed. We reconnected a year ago. He said then that he thought of me all the time and looked me up all the time over the seven years of separation. He said he'd never break the contact again. We still are both in committed relationships. Just friends and are entering a separation phase again. But on good terms :-) I've learned that if he perceives that I'm upset... He bolts. We both have work and healing to do.

Aren't all these just normal happenings in love? don't mean to be a vibe killer. Tbh I met this girl when I was about 17 and our connection is sooo intense I cant handle it its like shes brings out the best in me but at the same time she makes me see my faults.. the only girl ive met that just reflects my actions/words back to me in weird way everytime I talk to her I feel like Ive got loads to learn and its the reason I broke the relationship off. Ive kept my distance for about 3/4 years in that time she fell in love again but split up with dude but what got me was that she is completely over this guy as with me she chased me for years after we split but I just had to find myself. As of now im starting to doubt that shes my twin since talking to her recently.

Rejection hurts. 🙂

Posted by SagSunGemMoon89
Aren't all these just normal happenings in love? don't mean to be a vibe killer. Tbh I met this girl when I was about 17 and our connection is sooo intense I cant handle it its like shes brings out the best in me but at the same time she makes me see my faults.. the only girl ive met that just reflects my actions/words back to me in weird way everytime I talk to her I feel like Ive got loads to learn and its the reason I broke the relationship off. Ive kept my distance for about 3/4 years in that time she fell in love again but split up with dude but what got me was that she is completely over this guy as with me she chased me for years after we split but I just had to find myself. As of now im starting to doubt that shes my twin since talking to her recently.

Rejection hurts. 🙂

I do believe ive had an massive awakening though, while she just happy chilling in the mundane. makes me feel crazy.

What's her sign sagsun

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
What's her sign sagsun

pisces, virgo moon

yeah sag and pisces can be difficult