Aries man & Cancer woman advise...

Posted by scc89
I met this Aries guy at my new job, and from the beginning he showed a lot of interest.

Eventually we started hanging out. On one of those, he told me he was in a relationship and that he was living with her. Couple of weeks later, we where hanging out with a group of our colleagues and drinks got out of hand....We slept that night and from then we keep on doing it almost 3 times a week. What started to be just sex, ended up in something more. And yes, We talked about it, I insisted that this was just sex but he kept on telling me that he’s developing feelings for me. He even gets jealous when i dance or talk with other guys.

I know this is not the best question but, i asked him why is he being unfaithful to his girlfriend. His response was that

the 6 years they’ve been together, the last two of them which is the time they have been living together, she started telling him she wanted a child with him and asked him to reverse his vasectomy.

He told me that at the begging of their relationship he told his girlfriend he didn’t wanted kids since he has a daughter with his ex wife and didn’t wanted more. He told me this is the “every day fight”.

Same stuff when she bought the house they’re living right now, she asked him if he wanted to get married and he said he wasn’t getting married just to buy a house.

I don’t know, He keeps telling he has done a lot of stuff so she dumps him, he doesn’t enjoy sex with her cause they’re always fighting, but that he doesn’t want to hurt her since she doesn’t want to end the relationship and right know he cant make any big decisions like moving out because he doesn’t have the money.

I don’t know what to think honestly, He keeps telling me that he loves me, but im just trying to avoid any feelings since he’s with someone else...

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by scc89
I met this Aries guy at my new job, and from the beginning he showed a lot of interest.

Eventually we started hanging out. On one of those, he told me he was in a relationship and that he was living with her. Couple of weeks later, we where hanging out with a group of our colleagues and drinks got out of hand....We slept that night and from then we keep on doing it almost 3 times a week. What started to be just sex, ended up in something more. And yes, We talked about it, I insisted that this was just sex but he kept on telling me that he’s developing feelings for me. He even gets jealous when i dance or talk with other guys.

I know this is not the best question but, i asked him why is he being unfaithful to his girlfriend. His response was that

the 6 years they’ve been together, the last two of them which is the time they have been living together, she started telling him she wanted a child with him and asked him to reverse his vasectomy.

He told me that at the begging of their relationship he told his girlfriend he didn’t wanted kids since he has a daughter with his ex wife and didn’t wanted more. He told me this is the “every day fight”.

Same stuff when she bought the house they’re living right now, she asked him if he wanted to get married and he said he wasn’t getting married just to buy a house.

I don’t know, He keeps telling he has done a lot of stuff so she dumps him, he doesn’t enjoy sex with her cause they’re always fighting, but that he doesn’t want to hurt her since she doesn’t want to end the relationship and right know he cant make any big decisions like moving out because he doesn’t have the money.

I don’t know what to think honestly, He keeps telling me that he loves me, but im just trying to avoid any feelings since he’s with someone else...

so, he is a cheater, he doesnt want children and has no money to move out and lives with the girlfriend in her house - are you okey with all this?

what are his good qualities?

where do you have sex 3 times a week? at your place?

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