First time dating a cancer man

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Texascutiepie on Tuesday, March 21, 2017 and has 15 replies.

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@Texascutiepie
9 Years

Hello,

I'm an Aries woman who is 29 and recently dating a cancer man. He is 31 with 2 kids from a previous relationship. I do not have kids but I really care for him and can see myself being with for the long haul. We are currently long distance, but we talk about me moving to be closer to him and his kids(no set date), but crazy part is that I have not met his family or kids yet. We have only been dating for 2 months and we act like we been together for years. He is so sweet and loving towards me and he acts like he really cares.

Here is the twist and turns...

I'm getting the impression that he is doing a lot of talking, not saying his actions are not matching up. I mean I think I should give more time for all these promises he is making some time. For example, he always ask me do you love me? Do you want to marry me? Do you want to have a baby? (But still wants to wears a condom) he also, tells me how good his family is and that I'll meet them one day and that they will love me. But he hasn't made any plans for me to fly out to meet his family. FYI..... he pursued me, followed me on IG, stalked me on YouTube, and when I was single, he came full force and within 2 weeks of knowing each other we were in a relationship. He said he has been watching me for 2 years on social media and always wanted me. So, when he got the chance he jump straight in, head first.

So, my question is do cancer men tend to do a lot of talking, but really don't mean what they say?

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@TeddyBearMD
9 Years

He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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@TeddyBearMD
9 Years

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Lol!

Not surprising, and that's why most of you are always searching for the "right one" with ridiculous expectations that you can't even meet yourself.

but have fun with that.

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@nikkistar
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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by TeddyBearMD

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol!

Not surprising, and that's why most of you are always searching for the "right one" with ridiculous expectations that you can't even meet yourself.

but have fun with that.

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OH, GEEZ, thank you for your PERMISSION!!!! "Mother may I?" 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: "That's my prerogative"

PPS: Eva looks left, right, front, back, up, and down. SWEARS when she woke up this morning and her feet touched her bedroom floor it wasn't on RUSSIAN soil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😡

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@TeddyBearMD
9 Years

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol!

Not surprising, and that's why most of you are always searching for the "right one" with ridiculous expectations that you can't even meet yourself.

but have fun with that.

OH, GEEZ, thank you for your PERMISSION!!!! "Mother may I?" 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: "That's my prerogative"

PPS: Eva looks left, right, front, back, up, and down. SWEARS when she woke up this morning and her feet touched her bedroom floor it wasn't on RUSSIAN soil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😡

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Do whatever the fuck you want. You're 50+ and probably can't find a man. It's no secret as to why. Daddy probably told you growing up that you deserve the "best" and that you can "have whatever you want" right?

Geezus Christ! And they say Cancers & Pisces are the "dream couple"... I don't get along with them. Annoying as fuck.

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@EvatheDiva
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Posted by TeddyBearMD

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol!

Not surprising, and that's why most of you are always searching for the "right one" with ridiculous expectations that you can't even meet yourself.

but have fun with that.

OH, GEEZ, thank you for your PERMISSION!!!! "Mother may I?" 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: "That's my prerogative"

PPS: Eva looks left, right, front, back, up, and down. SWEARS when she woke up this morning and her feet touched her bedroom floor it wasn't on RUSSIAN soil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😡

Do whatever the fuck you want. You're 50+ and probably can't find a man. It's no secret as to why. Daddy probably told you growing up that you deserve the "best" and that you can "have whatever you want" right?

Geezus Christ! And they say Cancers & Pisces are the "dream couple"... I don't get along with them. Annoying as fuck.

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Eva lies on couch and hears the Bear "yak, yak, yak" and wonders, "Hmmm, and he charges $ 150.00 an hour? Guess he went to the School of Hard Knocks!" Eva watches degree on his wall...from Wally-Mart!

😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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@TeddyBearMD
9 Years

Posted by EvatheDiva

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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol!

Not surprising, and that's why most of you are always searching for the "right one" with ridiculous expectations that you can't even meet yourself.

but have fun with that.

OH, GEEZ, thank you for your PERMISSION!!!! "Mother may I?" 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: "That's my prerogative"

PPS: Eva looks left, right, front, back, up, and down. SWEARS when she woke up this morning and her feet touched her bedroom floor it wasn't on RUSSIAN soil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😡

Do whatever the fuck you want. You're 50+ and probably can't find a man. It's no secret as to why. Daddy probably told you growing up that you deserve the "best" and that you can "have whatever you want" right?

Geezus Christ! And they say Cancers & Pisces are the "dream couple"... I don't get along with them. Annoying as fuck.

Eva lies on couch and hears the Bear "yak, yak, yak" and wonders, "Hmmm, and he charges $ 150.00 an hour? Guess he went to the School of Hard Knocks!" Eva watches degree on his wall...from Wally-Mart!

😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Lol, k.

Keep deflecting.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by Texascutiepie
I mean I think I should give more time for all these promises he is making some time. For example, he always ask me do you love me? Do you want to marry me? Do you want to have a baby?

So, my question is do cancer men tend to do a lot of talking, but really don't mean what they say?

Cancer men are notorious for coming on strong and then fading away, similar to Libra males. 2 months, 8 weeks, is not long enough to know this man and if his words have integrity and honesty behind them. For all you know he has 6 other long distance relationships with other randoms he pursued through social media.

Make steps to have more face to face time and be around each other physically. Don't travel to him unless he books your plane ticket. Pull back emotionally until you have some actions from him to back up all his lovely words.

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@ConfusedinLove
9 Years

Yes they do. They tell you what they think you want to hear to make you fall in love with them. Dont take their words for real, you can play back- but until the actions are done. A dream not actualized is just that and you want real. Then once you are in love with them they pull back to see if they really want you. Fair? Absolutely not.

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@EvatheDiva
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Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by TeddyBearMD
He still doesn't know or trust you enough to meet his family. But wants to keep you invested in the relationship by dangling the carrot in front of you. Don't trip, it's only been 2 months right? WTF do you expect for a 2 month old relationship.

And as picky as you fuckin Texan girls are, if you find something that meets your "standards", you should probably stick with it and not cry on the internet about simple shit.

Yeah, we "Fuckin Texas girls ARE picky" because we DO NOT SETTLE for less than the best!!! 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol!

Not surprising, and that's why most of you are always searching for the "right one" with ridiculous expectations that you can't even meet yourself.

but have fun with that.

OH, GEEZ, thank you for your PERMISSION!!!! "Mother may I?" 😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: "That's my prerogative"

PPS: Eva looks left, right, front, back, up, and down. SWEARS when she woke up this morning and her feet touched her bedroom floor it wasn't on RUSSIAN soil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😡

Do whatever the fuck you want. You're 50+ and probably can't find a man. It's no secret as to why. Daddy probably told you growing up that you deserve the "best" and that you can "have whatever you want" right?

Geezus Christ! And they say Cancers & Pisces are the "dream couple"... I don't get along with them. Annoying as fuck.

Eva lies on couch and hears the Bear "yak, yak, yak" and wonders, "Hmmm, and he charges $ 150.00 an hour? Guess he went to the School of Hard Knocks!" Eva watches degree on his wall...from Wally-Mart!

😄

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Lol, k.

Keep deflecting.

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"Keep being a sarcastic woman" 😉

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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@VampScorp
9 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Texascutiepie
I mean I think I should give more time for all these promises he is making some time. For example, he always ask me do you love me? Do you want to marry me? Do you want to have a baby?

So, my question is do cancer men tend to do a lot of talking, but really don't mean what they say?

Cancer men are notorious for coming on strong and then fading away, similar to Libra males. 2 months, 8 weeks, is not long enough to know this man and if his words have integrity and honesty behind them. For all you know he has 6 other long distance relationships with other randoms he pursued through social media.

Make steps to have more face to face time and be around each other physically. Don't travel to him unless he books your plane ticket. Pull back emotionally until you have some actions from him to back up all his lovely words.

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☝️This, if you're still reading OP.

You sound overly invested in someone who hasn't demonstrated with actions. However, to be fair to the crab it's only been two months!!!