is it good to make a move on your bestfriend

i need as much advice as i could get... the thought has crossed my mind. and i don't know if she would look at me differently.

i do have feelings for her.

what do you mean by "make a move"? Physically or emotionally? Have you been with her before in any sense of the word?

emotionally, and yes, we were once a couple... but broke it off for reasons that persisted at the time. we just decided to become friends after the break up. it has been a year, and lately we have become the closest of friends, as if we were bestfrieds, she too admitted that.

i thought i was over her, but apparently my feelings are being swept away again...

i have no idea what i should do.

I don't think I'm in a position to give you advice about this, but I'm sure there are many unbiased people here who could. I guess I'll just tell you basically what you told me: follow your heart.

turns out my intuition is better than I thought

P.S.

Congratulations and good luck 🙂

well if the situation feels "right" again, and you feel as if there is some sort of mutual feelings in the current state you guys are in, then yeah i think you should make your "move". Tell her how you feel but the reaction back will either be equal or not. But its better to take the chance than just let her slip ne?

I really don't know if you should heed my advice or not so if you have any doubts about anything I say just erase this from your mind. Basically I have rarely become friends with a guy that I wasn't at some time or another attracted to. The closer a friend I become to one of them, the more attractive they are to me and vice versa. So ah I forgot what I was saying but I say go for it and tell her how you feel (the one thing I cannot stand is people hiding those sorts of feelings) and if you're friends now then if she doesn't feel the same way make sure that you stay friends.

thanks for your opinions guys, it happend last night...

its funny actually, cuz she said what i was thinking in my head before i even got the chance to let her know... but unfortunately she wasn't in the same mentality. we decided to remain as friends for now and see what happens in the future if our friendship becomes stronger.

i would rather keep her as a friend than let her slip away like gwen said...

thanks guys.

ps... BTW... phoenix... this just recently happend when you started not to answer any of my emails...

maybe its your intuition.

i don't know what you mean with that last line, but i haven't gotten a single email from you in forever

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