Listen to Archer and what she says...it is very very true........one little thing that I found helped me personally to over-come alot what I used to fret and worry about what others thought of me blah blah....I thought to myself - what they are thinking is only a "thought in their head" - big swing!!! (they may choose to keep it to themselves or they may choose to share that thought with others - but it still remains a thought in their own head!...but not my reality! what I think is paramount:-)....let their thought of me swirl round and round in their head!!! - be it negative or whatever........I am bigger than anyone's "thoughts":-) Every action or non-action evokes a certain reaction or thought in each person.....it is good to care, it is good to love......without emotions we become human dummies or robots......with too much emotion, we become drama-queens/kings......bes to find a middle of the road scenario.....and I've yet to meet a middle of the road person in my life:-)
Ok, this question is because I wondered why do "we" (people) care about what others say or do?
Is it for the sake of loving? Does loving come hand in hand with caring?
Wouldnt it be nice if we just felt non-chalant about what other people had to say or do?
Please answer!! I need help!