Capricorn Moon?

i like this guy who has a capricorn moon but i'm not sure how he feels about me. he's really outgoing but when it comes to girls he doesn't really show interest, except for teasing them. but i don't consider that flirting all that much.

are cappy moons shy to express themselves? how will they act if they do like someone? oh and how can i make one comfortable?

Posted by MzSag
When it comes to feelings, Lunar Caps are SO insecure. We rarely ever show them. If you get us to express emotion, you know that you've broken through some of our layers and we trust you... somewhat.

You might want to read up on his Venus sign to know how he expresses his affection. I will say, the chances of him flat out expressing his DYING LOVE for you is slim to none. Uh-Uh. We don't roll like that. If he's not flirting, that can go one of two ways, he probably doesn't like you. Again, check his Venus sign. On the flip side, he could be very fond of you but isn't quite sure how he feels... or how to express it.

To make us comfortable, don't be pushy. You can't make heavy emotional demands. I don't know about my Cap fellas, but I know that I don't like tears. It doesn't work. The best way to approach us is logically and rationally. That boo-hoo crying shit will get you shut. down. 😛 If you want him to trust you, you MUST be there. SisTip #1: When a Lunar Cap wants to tell you anything that has an emotional quality to it, you listen. 😛

The most important things to a Lunar Capricorn is stability and security. Don't play petty ass mind games, don't beat around the bush, and don't force him into things he hasn't tested yet. Straightforward is key. When you start messing with our stable little worlds we've carefully constructed, OR you start messing with our security, you're done.

If he likes you, give him plenty of time, have a lot of patience, and a TON of stability.

😄

WOW Well put! I agree totally... ESPECIALLY the crying bull.. and the pushy stuff

Cap moon is also guarded because of the insecurity. We kinda need the go ahead (rejection is feared) to proceed. Hint around (carefully) that you like him too. But don't be extremely obvious - we like subtle.

Im a cap moon and I feel like when I epress my feelings I end up voiding those feelings. I get frustrated and if I dont get a quick response about it I give up. I am a rock and feel like I dont know what real love is. Or Ill be humiliated by the response. Extremely hard on myself.

Sun in Scorp
Moon in Cap
Rising in Aqua
Venus in Libra
Mars in Virgo

As a Cap Moon/Scorpio Sun, I am SO hard on myself. A problem for me is that people seem to think that I don't give a flying shit about anything, when really I take nearly everything in, from the largest to smallest of details, and analyze them repeatedly. I've mastered empathy to a great extent, but don't know how to sympathize. My ways of being there for a person is different from the regular 'I'm sorry' and a hug being given. I try to give advice even if they don't want to hear it. It will take so, so, SO much time for me to be emotionally open to people. If I do open up (to the people I care about), I regret it later, even if no harm was done in the process of conveying my feelings...but I'm a hypocrite, y'see, because I want everyone I care about to be emotionally available...damn it all.
Cappy Moons have a hard time with their emotions, so don't take it too hard if this guy isn't an open book to you. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about people. It'll be difficult to deal with, I'm sure...but it's hard for a Cappy to change.

Posted by ScorpTorch
Sun in Scorp
Moon in Cap
Rising in Aqua
Venus in Libra
Mars in Virgo

As a Cap Moon/Scorpio Sun, I am SO hard on myself. A problem for me is that people seem to think that I don't give a flying shit about anything, when really I take nearly everything in, from the largest to smallest of details, and analyze them repeatedly. I've mastered empathy to a great extent, but don't know how to sympathize. My ways of being there for a person is different from the regular 'I'm sorry' and a hug being given. I try to give advice even if they don't want to hear it. It will take so, so, SO much time for me to be emotionally open to people. If I do open up (to the people I care about), I regret it later, even if no harm was done in the process of conveying my feelings...but I'm a hypocrite, y'see, because I want everyone I care about to be emotionally available...damn it all.
Cappy Moons have a hard time with their emotions, so don't take it too hard if this guy isn't an open book to you. It doesn't mean he doesn't care about people. It'll be difficult to deal with, I'm sure...but it's hard for a Cappy to change.

Question. So why do you regret it anyways? Opening up even if no harm was done. I don't get it either. Because it's like you want people to be open with you but not the other way around.

Posted by TsarinaRose
i like this guy who has a capricorn moon but i'm not sure how he feels about me. he's really outgoing but when it comes to girls he doesn't really show interest, except for teasing them. but i don't consider that flirting all that much.

are cappy moons shy to express themselves? how will they act if they do like someone? oh and how can i make one comfortable?

Oh damn I have the same problem with a taurus/cap moon.


hm patience? what is that?

lol

I sense that cap moons are terrified of rejection, as most people are. So what if a cap moon with Scorpio Venus flirts/teases non-stop. What does that say about him?

Posted by exoskeleton
^he sees something worth taking the risk on.

+ mzsag covered it beautifully. 🙂

Thanks. I read all that. But what I don't get is why flirt hardcore non-stop in school but outside no contact?

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by exoskeleton
^he sees something worth taking the risk on.

+ mzsag covered it beautifully. 🙂

Thanks. I read all that. But what I don't get is why flirt hardcore non-stop in school but outside no contact?

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School is his element. He's comfortable there. Outside of school is not such of a common ground. Makes him a little shy. I can only speak for myself, but I have to feel comfortable in my surroundings to feel comfortable flirting with someone.

I have Cap moon and Scorp venus, like him.

Posted by truecap

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by exoskeleton
^he sees something worth taking the risk on.

+ mzsag covered it beautifully. 🙂

Thanks. I read all that. But what I don't get is why flirt hardcore non-stop in school but outside no contact?

School is his element. He's comfortable there. Outside of school is not such of a common ground. Makes him a little shy. I can only speak for myself, but I have to feel comfortable in my surroundings to feel comfortable flirting with someone.

I have Cap moon and Scorp venus, like him.

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Thanks trucap. He turned out to be a lying piece of crap. He lied to everyone in school about his relationship status while outside of shool, he's still with his ex gf.

Oh, so sorry. You can do better!

Where does he live? Want us to go pay him a visit?
heh, heh, heh!

Posted by truecap
Oh, so sorry. You can do better!

Where does he live? Want us to go pay him a visit?
heh, heh, heh!

LOL. I love you guys!! Who needs real life friends when you've got dxp friends to cheer you up.

LOL my boyfriend has a capricorn moon and for the LONGEST time i thought he had no interest in me because he is so not pervy like many other guys....he is actually respectful and really didn't even show an interest for quite some time!! His sun is gemini so i was confused bc publicly he is quite outgoing and talkative...Well i guess thats just how cap moons are....reserved....but once they do open up they are super loyal and loving and will do anything for you! Stick with it.

Oh sorry i didnt see that he ended up lying.....sorry!! Dont judge cap moons based on him though....They can be awesome

Posted by IslandMoonGoddess
Oh sorry i didnt see that he ended up lying.....sorry!! Dont judge cap moons based on him though....They can be awesome

Yea I won't. From what I've read about cap moons, they are pretty awesome. This guy is a yucky two timer because of his libra sun

I torment boys I like.

Posted by luckystar
Does anyone else that has this moon just ever feel so detached and withdrawn from people/things? Sometimes i feel like an evil person when i think about how much i dont care about things. My mom thinks i am mean and my dad calls me cold...

Am i alone in this?

Yeup feel that everyday, it's exhausting, but I think the Capricorn moon is only partial to blame for that. I keep to myself a way lot and don't always know how to react to certain emotional situations. Maybe we just sorta lack empathy, just another negative side effect to having this placement :/

Posted by TsarinaRose
i like this guy who has a capricorn moon but i'm not sure how he feels about me. he's really outgoing but when it comes to girls he doesn't really show interest, except for teasing them. but i don't consider that flirting all that much.

are cappy moons shy to express themselves? how will they act if they do like someone? oh and how can i make one comfortable?

Yes guys with Cap moons I think are not very flirty or too willing to show their affection for someone they like. They take it slow and will make sure you can be trusted first! They're VERY shy about love. Like MzSag said check his venus, this part of him will come out first before you see his moon side. It's probably not best to pressure him into finding out his feelings for you.

I have a cap moon and am also drawn to someone with a cap moon too!

Someone asked earlier why we regret opening up after we do it. For me, I feel that once I open up to you on a deep level, I feel very vulnerable. You now know something about me that few people do and I'm not sure how you're going to use that information. If that person uses it wisely and keeps it to themselves, then it's all good and I will trust them with more later. But, if that person uses the information against me, I will obviously never trust that person again and will be less likely to open up to someone else. I think this is human nature, but for us cap moons, opening up is a big risk that we're not sure we want to take.

@ solarflare - I think cap moons are very empathetic over a lot of things. We have empathy. But, we are not empathetic to someone who plays the victim and isn't willing to help themselves. Someone that gets done wrong and it wasn't their doing, we are very empathetic. Someone who's house burns down, or has an accident, etc., yes, there is a lot of empathy there. But if they can't pay their electric bill or rent because they spent too much money at the club or shopping or on doing their nails, then no, no empathy for them.

Posted by luckystar
Does anyone else that has this moon just ever feel so detached and withdrawn from people/things? Sometimes i feel like an evil person when i think about how much i dont care about things. My mom thinks i am mean and my dad calls me cold...

Am i alone in this?

Boom.