Do i apologize to this Aries mooner?

or do i just send her a birthday gift without just a simply happy birthday

she ghosted me after i hurt her and never got the chance to apologize because well she ghosted me.

it feels weird to try to explain and apologize now

i also feel like it night spoil her present

Posted by ellesbelles
Don't say anything....just send the gift and wait.

As an Aries mooner....if time has passed (like I've taken a nap since...lol)....I don't want to know why or an explanation...that bores me and sounds like excuses.

If you were important....I just want my friend back.

ok that was helpful

i'm getting her this

Posted by Lioness18881
Depends what you did. An Aries sun gave me $ 500 and a bottle of johnny walker blue for easter 2 years ago. I still keep my distance and only speak to her at functions. She took way too much advantage of my forgiveness and i ran out of patience after 2 decades of her toxic shit.

It depends what you did wrong and how many times you wronged her. But i think acknowledging what you did wrong and how you hurt her might be better than a gift.

i wrote a story in another language ( it was a class assignment) about a time we hung out and posted in my notes section on fb

i changed the ending though



she read it ,( left a comment saying that some of it made her smile and part of it stung a little)

then she stopped talking to me after that



she didn't delete or block me though on social media

maybe she just blocked my phone number so she doesn't get texts from me

idk ....

Posted by Lioness18881
Depends what you did. An Aries sun gave me $ 500 and a bottle of johnny walker blue for easter 2 years ago. I still keep my distance and only speak to her at functions. She took way too much advantage of my forgiveness and i ran out of patience after 2 decades of her toxic shit.

It depends what you did wrong and how many times you wronged her. But i think acknowledging what you did wrong and how you hurt her might be better than a gift.

she loves tequila

like really loves tequila

and introduced me to don julio.

i thought this present would be very fitting for her 30th.

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Lioness18881
Depends what you did. An Aries sun gave me $ 500 and a bottle of johnny walker blue for easter 2 years ago. I still keep my distance and only speak to her at functions. She took way too much advantage of my forgiveness and i ran out of patience after 2 decades of her toxic shit.

It depends what you did wrong and how many times you wronged her. But i think acknowledging what you did wrong and how you hurt her might be better than a gift.

i wrote a story in another language ( it was a class assignment) about a time we hung out and posted in my notes section on fb

i changed the ending though



she read it ,( left a comment saying that some of it made her smile and part of it stung a little)

then she stopped talking to me after that



she didn't delete or block me though on social media

maybe she just blocked my phone number so she doesn't get texts from me

idk ....

When you block someones number you can still get texts but they can't call you. Maybe she has a new number?

What you did doesn't sound so bad. I think that's forgivable if you are sincere about not meaning to hurt her.

I litterally had the life sucked out of me. Always needing money for diapers or baby formula or something. Always a mess and aggressive and a violent drunk and drugs. She was so manipulative and tied to make me feel guilty for not being around as much when i was depressed by saying i was there for you when your brother died like i owed her something. This was after i gave her $ 500 a new toaster, kettle, pots, pans, dinnerware, kitchen utensils, blankets and basically a shit load of stuff because her house that they were going to demolish conveniently burned down. That's what made me cut her off in the end. That she acted like i owed her something after everything i did and leo me, doesn't owe shit to no one. Then she tried to give me a present which i didn't want to accept. I still love her but from very far away. But if you haven't taken this person for granted and taken advantage of her like that, reach out with a phone call and ask her if you can come see her or something that involves effort. Gifts are nice if they are sincere but effort for someone is nicer. Aries moon is very forgiving and terrible at holding grudges

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no just a lot of awkward texts

and miscommunication

i made things weird

but that's about it.

i was always kind respectful and above all honest.



i'm not sure if me springing up at her doorstep after a year of not seeing each other / almost a year of not talking is a good idea.

though it's funny those were the exact terms i saw her last.

i drove 5 hours on Saturday March 18, 2017 and surprised her just before midnight at her birthday party

then i got friendzoned so hard lol

though i think she appreciated the effort

that's what the story was about......

if i hadn't drove up there and just sent her birthday flowers i know we would still be on good terms

Posted by Lioness18881

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Lioness18881
Depends what you did. An Aries sun gave me $ 500 and a bottle of johnny walker blue for easter 2 years ago. I still keep my distance and only speak to her at functions. She took way too much advantage of my forgiveness and i ran out of patience after 2 decades of her toxic shit.

It depends what you did wrong and how many times you wronged her. But i think acknowledging what you did wrong and how you hurt her might be better than a gift.

i wrote a story in another language ( it was a class assignment) about a time we hung out and posted in my notes section on fb

i changed the ending though



she read it ,( left a comment saying that some of it made her smile and part of it stung a little)

then she stopped talking to me after that



she didn't delete or block me though on social media

maybe she just blocked my phone number so she doesn't get texts from me

idk ....

When you block someones number you can still get texts but they can't call you. Maybe she has a new number?

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i never tried calling

just sent her a couple of texts in which she never replied

Posted by Lioness18881

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Lioness18881

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Lioness18881
Depends what you did. An Aries sun gave me $ 500 and a bottle of johnny walker blue for easter 2 years ago. I still keep my distance and only speak to her at functions. She took way too much advantage of my forgiveness and i ran out of patience after 2 decades of her toxic shit.

It depends what you did wrong and how many times you wronged her. But i think acknowledging what you did wrong and how you hurt her might be better than a gift.

i wrote a story in another language ( it was a class assignment) about a time we hung out and posted in my notes section on fb

i changed the ending though



she read it ,( left a comment saying that some of it made her smile and part of it stung a little)

then she stopped talking to me after that



she didn't delete or block me though on social media

maybe she just blocked my phone number so she doesn't get texts from me

idk ....

When you block someones number you can still get texts but they can't call you. Maybe she has a new number?

What you did doesn't sound so bad. I think that's forgivable if you are sincere about not meaning to hurt her.

I litterally had the life sucked out of me. Always needing money for diapers or baby formula or something. Always a mess and aggressive and a violent drunk and drugs. She was so manipulative and tied to make me feel guilty for not being around as much when i was depressed by saying i was there for you when your brother died like i owed her something. This was after i gave her $ 500 a new toaster, kettle, pots, pans, dinnerware, kitchen utensils, blankets and basically a shit load of stuff because her house that they were going to demolish conveniently burned down. That's what made me cut her off in the end. That she acted like i owed her something after everything i did and leo me, doesn't owe shit to no one. Then she tried to give me a present which i didn't want to accept. I still love her but from very far away. But if you haven't taken this person for granted and taken advantage of her like that, reach out with a phone call and ask her if you can come see her or something that involves effort. Gifts are nice if they are sincere but effort for someone is nicer. Aries moon is very forgiving and terrible at holding grudges

no just a lot of awkward texts

and miscommunication

i made things weird

but that's about it.

i was always kind respectful and above all honest.



i'm not sure if me springing up at her doorstep after a year of not seeing each other / almost a year of not talking is a good idea.

though it's funny those were the exact terms i saw her last.

i drove 5 hours on Saturday March 18, 2017 and surprised her just before midnight at her birthday party

then i got friendzoned so hard lol

though i think she appreciated the effort

that's what the story was about......

if i hadn't drove up there and just sent her birthday flowers i know we would still be on good terms

It doesn't matter how much time lapses. Some friends are forever ones even if there's breaks in between. I hope it works out for you xx

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Thank you lioness

i care about her a lot

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Posted by Lioness18881
Depends what you did. An Aries sun gave me $ 500 and a bottle of johnny walker blue for easter 2 years ago. I still keep my distance and only speak to her at functions. She took way too much advantage of my forgiveness and i ran out of patience after 2 decades of her toxic shit.

It depends what you did wrong and how many times you wronged her. But i think acknowledging what you did wrong and how you hurt her might be better than a gift.

i wrote a story in another language ( it was a class assignment) about a time we hung out and posted in my notes section on fb

i changed the ending though



she read it ,( left a comment saying that some of it made her smile and part of it stung a little)

then she stopped talking to me after that



she didn't delete or block me though on social media

maybe she just blocked my phone number so she doesn't get texts from me

idk ....

Whats her sun sign?

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pisces

her birthday is on sunday

update - she sent me a text today

thanking me for the gift

and i finally got my chance to explain / apologize

hooray!