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would she try to ask an explanation? or try to figure out what happened?

would she try to ask an explanation? or try to figure out what happened?

"a week after, i go on the net and delete her as a friend and that website was our only way of communication"

Don't do that!!! You are making the same mistake as I did last time. I regret doing this to my ex-pisces crush the last time. It will hurt them. But lucky for me, I'm still able to pick up the pieces...and now we're still friends. I know he forgives me...but I myself can't forget my folly. It did affect our friendship somehow.

If you rationalise it, is it really a big deal she didn't wish you your birthday. I have a lot of friends who I wish them birthday but they didn't wish me back when my birthday comes...does it mean I have to stop being friends with them? Is it a little petty on your part?

The reason why you care so much about whether she did wish you happy birthday is because you gave (i.e. you wish her happy birthday) and you expect to have something back in return (i.e. she wish you happy birthday). And when you didn't get anything in return, you get insecure.

Unfortunately, love doesn't work this way. You don't always get back what you invest in. You need to be a little more understanding to your pisces friend...she may be busy, she may have forgotten etc.

"would she try to ask an explanation? or try to figure out what happened?"

I would think no. And not because she doesn't care. She may not even notice. You are having "expectation" again...by deleting her from your website...you expect her to find out the reason as to what happen. If you do have a need, why can't you be more direct. E.g "Today's my birthday...I would be happy if you celebrate with me?" This is direct and the pisces knows what you need and may just agree to it.

I'm not trying to reprimend you...but I'm just talking from my own experience.

guess im moving on then....thanx

Mutual interest and communication really is King, pettiness and pride the downfall. Better to say too much and over-explain than not enough and let the chips fall. Though it's only ever worth it if you really like someone and want to invest further. Both signs need to feel appreciated and given that quality time. It really does take two. Best of luck..