Advice For Pisces

Hey everyone. My first post here after many months of being a user on this site (patience is needed for backstory). It's given me useful guidance in understanding myself and other people. Recently, I'm just kinda asking for opinions about a situation I'm in.
I'm a Pisces, born 03/08 (22 yrs). My recent ex GF is an Aquarius born 01/26 (20 yrs). We knew each other for about 10 months until I pulled the plug last week; I was tired of being treated like crap, being hung up on, getting the silent treatment and MANY times being put after friends and daily routines. To start, it was a long distance relationship, a 2 hour drive. She was very good looking, getting hit on almost every day (or so she told me). She's had a pretty awful history of guys using her for their desires and not too many good men wanting to build a solid relationship with her. I'm no prude, but I didn't really WANT sex from her, many times even when she was very alluring (crazy right?). Anyway, I committed myself to a strong friendship when I met her, many times the both of us were there for each other, I for when she learned her previous BF was cheating on her, and she when the same happened to me. We fell for each other pretty hard, even her friends knew of me and told me that I was perfect for her. Everything seemed awesome at school when we officially got together as boyfriend/girlfriend about a month before summer, and so by that time we were literally attached to each-others?? hips. She was amazing, and made me feel like a king; random —I miss you?? texts, skype calls when I went home, etc. I left for OCS and received loving letters from her. Six of them in fact over the six weeks I was there. I heard that her face book was crammed with stuff about us while I was gone. Even when I returned home, she surprised me at my hometown??s airport, but left that same night, which I though was odd. When I visited her days later, we broke up. Why? I have no idea. I was only gone for six weeks, and I thought the intimacy would have grown, yet she couldn't give me a straight answer. We ended up getting back together, but her attitude was different. She wasn't ever initiating conversations with me anymore, nor did she want to skype like she used to, although she returned affection over text maybe 1 / 4 of the time, sometimes not at all. MANY times I called her only to be put on hold for her friends. Even texts would go unanswered until late or early in the morning with —sorry

—sorry I was with friends / fell asleep??. Her texts came later and seemed distant. When I confronted her about her friends, she didn't want to talk, and none of our mutual friends knew what she was doing. This drove me insane. Even after my visits were perfect EVERY week (400-mile round-trip, mind you) She continued to hang up on me without wanting to solve anything if there was something wrong. I thought she was overwhelmed so I left her alone for 3 days, until I called her up on our 3-month anniversary (something SHE wanted to celebrate, I was waiting until we saw each other in the fall.) and tried to talk to her. She did have a test the next day so I wanted to keep it short. We flirted back and forth for a bit but still she seemed distant, and I even said I haven't been able to joke with her like that in a while. She asked me whose fault it was, and I told her it was hers, that she NEVER answers my texts back anymore. She said she barely texts anyone, but I argued it wasn't true and that it takes less than 2 minutes. She told me it was a —distraction?? to her tests. I moved on, asking her if we were still good for me to see her again following her test for the next few nights, and she asked if I could stay at a friend??s house instead, saying again that I get in the way of her preparation for work/class. I hadn't really heard from/seen her in two weeks I knew something was up, so I asked. She told me she didn't want to fight, so I can either —visit [her] or stay, either way [she doesn't] really give a fuck anymore?? and hung up on me. Fast forward a few hours and I broke up with her by text; the ONLY dirt she could possibly even have on me. I was perfect. Surprises, Generous favors, I even gave her space (longest was a day at a time).


What happened?? Is this how aqua females are? I'm SO SORRY for this long post. I??ve been in shambles over this because I loved her and she knew it. Abusive relationship I know, but I feel so awful for doing that to her, and I am really regretting my decision. I freaking miss her.

too long....sorry...

Posted by Curiousram
Why is it i always hear Pisces and Aquarius pairings? Hmmmm Aquarius must be secretly a water sign 😛

Statistics show that neighbouring and same sign couple are very frequent. Not just Aqua and Pisces. Even strange combinations like Taurus and Gemini.

One could attribute this to Venus and Mercury being often in the sign adjacent to the sun's sign. For example, I have these in Aqua and I dated several Aquas throughout my life. I do believe we are better as friends, though!

Another idea would be that there are no sharp limits between star signs, for example the first Pisces decan would be more similar to the last Aqua decan than to the last Pisces decan.

Posted by Scorsagian21
Obviously i'am not a pisces...But you think she's returning what you gave her? You were gone for a bit and maybe in her mind you didnt care about the relationship so basically she's fed up and doesn't want to try anymore.

I have no Idea, because I had already let her go last week. Why anyone would do that really hurts to know. That doesn't make any sense (to me at least). none of it does, aside from the fact that Narcissism could have been at play this whole time. It would explain the coldness she gave me when she broke up with me two days after training, and also the constant need for attention?

Posted by sonofthunder
I've never even tried to understand aquas..but it sounds like she may have met someone else? Would anyone in your circle know if she did? And would they tell you?

I've asked those that I know and it doesn't seem like this was the case. Even if it was, I doubt she would have told anyone.