Advice from the dark-side pisces

My Aries venus fucked me up.
I loved this guy...i chased him for months, and he was so scared of getting hurt tht he told me it would NEVER HAPPEN.. He wa mean to me and evey time id threaten to stop all ontact with him he would flip out nd cry. Finally one day i ddnt say a word to himand he realised he was treatin me horibly while i showed him actual lve...He became my boyfriend, and now for almst a year we are STILL together.

But this whole time ive bee unhppy. I always can tell when hes upset, and i know how to cheer him up, an i o cute thingsfor him all the time....but he ould never do ANYTHING on his own. i lways had to take th lead. I do omehing sweet, he does the exact sme thing after...He also put his fears once again before sacrafice for my sake. He used to never cll me becaus he would get "too nervous" and he kne how badly that hurt me. He wouldnt be sexual for a random momnt because he gets to insecure or scare he'll ge "addicfed"
if he gets hurt one dyand turns ff his emotions....it doen matter if i get hurt, he wont evn care.

ANYWAYS

We swore to one anoher no matter whatprobems we face...we will fight it together. we truy are twin fire and i do love him, but habent reallytaled to him for a couple months becas of shit hapening and also i need to figure this out...he still always writes on fvbbokk about me....but imso mad at him. I feel like i put im allthe efort nd ive told him. his best friend have too. he wontget t nd its hurtin me. I want to love him the sm but it just upsets me....and lately I think im starting to really fal fo his best friend. honestly for about half a year. I realy dont know nhmore ht todo, i do beom devoted bbut...he jus isnt putting effort.

someone plz help

You're 16 you have enough time to be love. Giving ultimatum to anyone isn't nice, so yeah he's insecure.. Plus I assume he's young too. Skip the drama and work on yourself... The right person will come along at the right time.

Yes. he only 18, but i did promise him. I work on myself an if he tags alog great. thts how i am with guys, but thinkin "the right peron will come along" wont exactly fix my situation. I hate to see how he gets when i consider breaking up. He literally wakes up cllinmme crying bexuse of dreams where i do. He is very attached and im his first girlfriend, but he relly pisses me off really badly.

Smh

strike him down, kill him.
Even if you fail, he will still come to fear your resolve and you might acertain your power over him for the future. and if you succeed, the journey will have just begun.

Posted by hydorah
strike him down, kill him.
Even if you fail, he will still come to fear your resolve and you might acertain your power over him for the future. and if you succeed, the journey will have just begun.

Lol he is my dog. i trained him and he listens to me. but hes an asshole and sometimes decides to disobey

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Posted by SuperMissMan
Yes. he only 18, but i did promise him. I work on myself an if he tags alog great. thts how i am with guys, but thinkin "the right peron will come along" wont exactly fix my situation. I hate to see how he gets when i consider breaking up. He literally wakes up cllinmme crying bexuse of dreams where i do. He is very attached and im his first girlfriend, but he relly pisses me off really badly.

You guys are so young and still learning. Be sweet and learn to pull back when it is necessary. That venus in aries needs to be tammed.

My only advice to you is that you need to keep that venus in aries in check.
It will be tough but you can master it. The sooner you do it the better it will be for you. I didn't know how to handle mine till a few years back. Having a venus in aries can be a pain.. It can back fire in so many ways. You know what I am saying. 🙂

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Oh i relly do. PM me! I need to learn.

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Posted by hydorah
strike him down, kill him.
Even if you fail, he will still come to fear your resolve and you might acertain your power over him for the future. and if you succeed, the journey will have just begun.

Lol he is my dog. i trained him and he listens to me. but hes an asshole and sometimes decides to disobey

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it might be time to teach him to DIE

Posted by hydorah

Posted by SuperMissMan

Posted by hydorah
strike him down, kill him.
Even if you fail, he will still come to fear your resolve and you might acertain your power over him for the future. and if you succeed, the journey will have just begun.

Lol he is my dog. i trained him and he listens to me. but hes an asshole and sometimes decides to disobey

it might be time to teach him to DIE

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Ah yes. The bang trick comes in handy....