Advise please

Okay

Today I was pissed off badly. It is related with my English class. I am taking special courses and my class times are changable. I couldn't go today, because I had a business that I had to finish and called the office in the morning and told them that I could not come today. Since my class times are changable, we decide class time of the next class with my teacher at the end of every current class. So I called office again and asked for my teacher. She was at another class at that time, therefore I couldn't talk with her again personally. The office manager (it's a small office, therefore talking with manager is normal) told me that he will ask my teacher about time of the next lesson and inform me within this day. Almost half of the day has passed since my last call, therefore I called office again to make sure that they not forgot what I asked them. Simple reminder. Damnit! They still didn't called me today. I am soo pissed off. I called them today to remind about my situation and even thought that office manager assured me that he will call me back and haven't forgot about my situation, he still did't call me. Damn asshole. I am 100% sure that something is going on here and the stuff is nasty. I don't think he really forgot about my situation, I'm % 100 sure that he deliberately didn't call. I want a revenge. I really want it. What do you guys think I could do for revenge? He is manager there, so is this situation somehow "binds" him with my situation and makes him somehow obligated in answering my requests? What can I do?

I really want that man buried in the ground! I don't really have anything "practical" in my mind for this situation, and I planning for nasty strategy, with some bitter words to tell him tomorrow. But I also want to base my speech over things that binds him in this situation, which I dont know what.

Thank you in advance.

Heh

I talked with them today. Not with manager, but with my teacher (luckily she was there instead manager). She said that they even thought they put my phone number on agreement paper when signed me up, their computer didn't printed it out with agrrement paper. She showed me and yes I am convinced about their rightness. However, my yesterday's reaction was really bad. Not because I was wrong, but because I felt very "unarmed" in this situation. This frusturated the hell out of me when something like that happens and I see no way where I can defend my point.

For that reason, I still ask for advise as if this situation were actually real. I want to know the dynamics of this situation so I can feel more secure next time.

Thanks in advance

Quote is made possible by Tom Robbins belief, as stated in his book
*Jitterbug Perfume,* that "The unhappy person resents it when you try
to cheer him up, because that means he has to stop dwelling on himself
and start paying attention to the universe. Unhappiness is the ultimate
form of self-indulgence. When you're unhappy, you get to pay a lot of
attention to yourself. And you get to take yourself oh so very
seriously."

FYI - Haffo, this is not directed to you personally. I only found it to be a very interesting quote -

Just know that everything will work out fine - just as it is to be 😉

peace

Unhappiness is the ultimate
form of self-indulgence. When you're unhappy, you get to pay a lot of
attention to yourself. And you get to take yourself oh so very
seriously."



genius.

Unhappiness is power for me right now. It makes me make actions to become more happy.

So I think if I knew how to deal with situation, it wouldn't make me unhappy at all.

FREEBIRD!

I mean are you SERIOUS!!! Where have you been keeping that quote all this time...Very profound and insightful. Not only for the person whom I WISH you HAD directed to but also for me. I read or heard another good one today...

Don't whine about the things you don't have...Smile about the things you do.

I needed to hear that.

Hi CL!!!!!!

I suppose it just POPPED out 😉 (no pun intended) at the right moment. Sooooo glad that you enjoyed it. I love it too and it makes so much darn sense!

Hope you are enjoying your 🙂 🙂 🙂 day!

How are the girls coming along and most importantly...how are YOU feeling? Love your "creation in progress" pics - wonderful!
Thanks for sharing!

LOL

We are all great. I am back in Indiana with my family so things are a WHOLE lot easier and a WHOLE LOT less lonely. I haven't hit my grouchy annoyed all the time stage yet, but I have gotten EVEN BIGGER than the last picture. As a matter of fact I should post my latest from last week. I have officially become a hippo, but I am so excited! Miesha and Kioni...ME a MOTHER!

Somebody SLAP ME! LOL

Ignore the random guy, I was the MC at our Christmas Party and he just won a raffle...Notice the swelling in the belly!

Actually...Here is a better picture of my size. A side view!

I wish we had a moderator who would control the content of the topic and delete off topics.

Ummm

I thought we did...The DXP Gods? I know they have deleted many of your messages in the past right? I know you didn't forget so soon...

I know that part Primegen. But I am talking about people who are not content and wont change for better ever.

Yes exactly.

I also never show them mercy and listen to them. But there is another dimention to that. And it does not related financially. Some people use this same way to whine on emotional things and complains which is extremly difficult for me to catch. I approach people with understanding. Especially when it comes to life things, there are tonns of things that could happen which makes me very understanding. But despite the fact that life is not something to be whined about in my vocabulary, it appears like people also use it for complains only. I am starting to limit my understanding in that part too, because as I stated before life is very complex and there are many possibilities that prevent me jumping on people with bitter comments.