Angry at people not letting you care.

So well this is a strange disagreement! All this on christmas too! It was like a neverending argument about how I won't let the fish care about me and I argue back she won't let me take care of her.

How it all started? Offering her a lift home? From a dodgey street and while it's raining. "don't care for me think of it as my 20 minutes alone time walking home!", "Totally get that, fine I'll leave you. Get home safe", "You know I will let you know! Stop worrying but what about you?!", "I'll be fine as usual, if I can't drive I'll just crash somewhere again." "No you can't do this I can't leave you", "okay so I take you home prove to you I can drive while making sure you are safe", "No you can't!"

Yep, some awesome frustrations right there.

p.s. by crash I mean stay over at someones, such a bad word to use when put into that context in retrospect.

Sorry forgot to ask, is this a normal behaviour? because HONESTLY, let people care!

Posted by Poisson
pretty much. I'm more or less the same way sometimes... I don't like "inconveniencing" people, but I still look out for them. I know it makes zero sense, but if you plan on hanging around her better get used to it and not take it personally.

And what did I say about not over analyzing things with this girl??! *scold*

no no you are right! I need to change 😛 Just stopping the contact at the moment even I can see it's not good for either of us. It's like two people being overly caring and not caring enough for themselves. Never thought I'd ever experience this at all, too weird.

Though it's only the fishies that make me think that way and even in frustration I can appreciate it 😉 So a big hug to you all and the warmest of christmas!