AdrianaCrabTor
@AdrianaCrabTor
9 YearsCancer
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Posted by JayceonSo... Is it over? Is he going away because he doesn't want to see me anymore? ... I can deal with it... I can understand it... I respect it... It hurts a lot, but I respect it... I just wonder why... Why he dooesn't want to see me anymore if he was the one who asked me not to go away...
As a Pisces man once we cut ties that it means it's done deal.
Posted by matrixyodaWhat process? I don't get that part... could you clarify it please?
PS I forgot to mention the "Playing the Victim" card. It's an extensive routine they put you and themselves through to make you prove your loyalty and devotion to them. It's an endless wheel of "VictimHood". Please be aware that once you start the process with them it never ends. #BEWarned
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This boy and I had a one month relationship and then I dumped him because I felt unsure about the contact he kept with his ex-girlfriend, who lives in a city two hours far from here and to whom as far as I know he doesn’t see that much, but they text each other constantly.
Anyways, We kept in touch and kept on going out. There was nothing between us, only a “friendship” (I quote it because I don’t really see him as a friend), but no kisses, no sex, no-thing at all.
I have told him many times I don’t want to see him because it hurts and then I keep on seeing him, and so on. He has always told me: “Don’t get far from me” “I would like to keep on sharing time and experiences with you”, but he has also told me: “I know what you feel for me and I am really thankful” “I wouldn’t like to hurt you”
I know his family and friends, and we have shared good times. But now I feel he is getting really far from me and I don’t understand anything. He has stopped contacting me. It’s been a week he doesn’t text anymore, but before this week there was another week he didn’t text and when I would send a message, he was always polite, but I felt like he didn’t really want to be in touch with me.
When we see each other, he doesn’t try to hug me anymore… He is like cold, which he was not before. I haven’t sent any message because I don’t want to bother him… I don’t want him to feel pressure… But I feel sad… I miss him a lot and I haven’t been able to cut off our contact because I still have my hopes… Maybe I am wrong, but I love this boy and I know as a cancer I will only go when I’m sure there’s nothing there for me… Maybe it’s crystal clear, but you know I hang on to what I love… Time ago he told me he didn’t want to lose me, he didn’t want me to go away of his life, but I feel he is getting far, far away every time… And I don’t understand… Can you guys tell me anything you think might be happening?
Background about him: he doesn’t have much experience… he is a good boy… I have seen him in his environment and he is a great boy with everyone. He’s 26 years old. He is funny, sensible... That’s all I can say about… Please, somebody give some piece of advice. I really need to know what I can do, or if there’s even something I can do.