Pisces man likes me and now he back off

Hello, so i know him for 7 years but we don't really talk til one day, Golf got us talked again after 7 years so we've been talking and whatsapp everyday. 2 weeks later, he told me he liked me 7 years ago but he wouldn't dare to tell me because he's afraid I might reject him and he liked me again me again after 7 years so from that day onwards, we get even closer because I do like him as well.. but things don't last, he start to distance a little and he read my text msg but he don't reply. When I question him, he said because he is too busy at work and he also explain to me some of his friends got angry with him because he don't have time for them as well. This thing happened very often until one day I told him again "I feel uncomfortable about it and it's kinda rude for not reply msg after so many hours?" He apologise to me so I accepted his apology. The next day he told me "I thought about it, I think we shouldn't push forward on this, I do like you but I don't want to see you frustrated. It is a crucial year for me and I cannot afford any instability and dramas. Unfortunate that I am in a position where I really don't seem to have the capacity for this word we create, I think should stop proceed any further.. I really want to concentrate on my work and what is already overflow on my plates". So from that day onwards, we don't talk for a week but he did look at my Insta story Everyday. Recently I've start talking to him again but his reply was kinda ignoring me.. i asked "how's everything" and his replied was "hey, I'm good." Without asking me how is my day. To be honest, I'm still trying to get him back but I don't wanna look desperate.. what should I do?

This happens a lot.

It is best to do your own thing and not put any energy into him. I know this is said ad nauseam, but no matter what their sign is or personality type, they will make time for you if they care and true feelings are there. If you stick around and wait, you will just be more confused/sad/disappointed

Go hang with friends, play a game, go to an event, live your life. Chances are, he may see you having fun without him and probably change his mind. Even better, you may attract someone who is more forthright and consistent.

Classic Pisces move, you'll be waiting forever more than likely, he will come back they usually do but god knows when that'll happen!!!

Posted by Sunmi
This thing happened very often until one day I told him again "I feel uncomfortable about it and it's kinda rude for not reply msg after so many hours?" He apologise to me so I accepted his apology. The next day he told me "I thought about it, I think we shouldn't push forward on this, I do like you but I don't want to see you frustrated. It is a crucial year for me and I cannot afford any instability and dramas. Unfortunate that I am in a position where I really don't seem to have the capacity for this word we create, I think should stop proceed any further.. I really want to concentrate on my work and what is already overflow on my plates".

Just a couple more things

Good on you for calling him out for leaving your texts unread.

Something I have noticed with Pisces people is that their actions mean a lot more than what they are saying when it comes to feelings for another person, but when they tell you about themselves, esp as he did here, take extra note and separate it from the flowery stuff (ie "I do like you BUT..."). Basically he is turning you away without being "mean" (which is ACTUALLY directness).

Finally, does he have any Aquarius planets? Just wondering.

This is kinda funny, I'm dealing with a very similar situation with a Pisces girl!

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/how-much-space-to-give-pisces-girl--8924356/

Like your man, she's been distant for the last 2 weeks, but when I message she replies immediately, she watches my Snapchat Stories immediately, etc.

Makes me wonder if there's something in the sign for this month making Pisces go distant?

You're not a Leo/Virgo, by chance, are you?

Like the others said, though, from a general romantic point of view and not astrological... I don't know about you, but when I like somebody I get excited to talk to them, I make an effort to see them, I get excited when I see their name pop up on my phone, etc. So when someone else is doing the opposite of that, I have to believe it's because they do NOT feel that way about me.

It has to be 50/50, so if you're doing all the giving and they're doing all the taking, that's not going to make for a happy relationship.

Believe me, that's a hard pill for me to swallow, and a lesson I keep telling myself over and over and over and over and over.

I'm Aquarius.. now I'm trying NC (no contact) with him.. I just know he's been looking at my fb but still no contact from him..

Csdude55, yes ur issue is kinda similiar like mine.. so any updates from her?

Nope, nothing at all, really. I sent her a message yesterday afternoon and she replied immediately, but again being super vague and distant. After that, no more replies.

But I posted a Snapchat Story, and she was the first person to see it (within less than 5 minutes). So like your guy, she either lives on Snapchat religiously or she's keeping tabs on me.

I read Tarot as a hobby, and they told me to chill out this week, think long-term, and not over-analyze things. Which is hard for a Virgo! But I'm trying to keep that in mind...

Omg! Yes!!!! Sounds like him but female version!!!! Mine did the same when I start to contact him again, like kinda distant as well but yet, he viewed my fb and ig so really don't know what they thinking.. they change too quickly! ;(

Brittnie, quite true.. he said he liked me 7 years ago and he liked me again 3-4 weeks ago

I'm dating a Pisces guy...and I'm a Saggie..Stay busy..Carry on with life. Trust me, if you don't sweat him and if he cares for you..he'll be back like a new man...

Posted by Sunmi
Hello, so i know him for 7 years but we don't really talk til one day, Golf got us talked again after 7 years so we've been talking and whatsapp everyday. 2 weeks later, he told me he liked me 7 years ago but he wouldn't dare to tell me because he's afraid I might reject him and he liked me again me again after 7 years so from that day onwards, we get even closer because I do like him as well.. but things don't last, he start to distance a little and he read my text msg but he don't reply. When I question him, he said because he is too busy at work and he also explain to me some of his friends got angry with him because he don't have time for them as well. This thing happened very often until one day I told him again "I feel uncomfortable about it and it's kinda rude for not reply msg after so many hours?" He apologise to me so I accepted his apology. The next day he told me "I thought about it, I think we shouldn't push forward on this, I do like you but I don't want to see you frustrated. It is a crucial year for me and I cannot afford any instability and dramas. Unfortunate that I am in a position where I really don't seem to have the capacity for this word we create, I think should stop proceed any further.. I really want to concentrate on my work and what is already overflow on my plates". So from that day onwards, we don't talk for a week but he did look at my Insta story Everyday. Recently I've start talking to him again but his reply was kinda ignoring me.. i asked "how's everything" and his replied was "hey, I'm good." Without asking me how is my day. To be honest, I'm still trying to get him back but I don't wanna look desperate.. what should I do?

move on with your life and forget about him - if he wanted to honestly pursue you he would make time available for you

Its so funny that all these Pisceseans do the same thing to all of us. Sucks ass though =/