Aquarius In Dilemma over Pisces Guy

Hello there

i am in a dilemma right now..
my pisces bf has decided to break up and he never going to answer my call or text at all.
im so disappointed with myself, really.

i hv never really moved on with my ex (12 years we hv been together until now).
my ex and me still act like as a friend but we're having sex quite some time.
my Pisces guy know that cuz im being totally honest and transparent with him.

but after awhile, maybe because he thought that im being playful and flirty and still clinging tightly at my ex,
then i guess he decided to leave.

how can i get him back? cuz after all i realize that i love him.
my ex was stay at the past and my feelings too.

i was confused before and now im certain that i want my pisces guy back.

any tips anyone?


oh ya... before that i wanna clear things up.. me and my pisces guys go on and off.
i never try to text him first because im not a type of girl that texting a lot of guys at the same time.
but when he text me out of sudden, i just try to open up myself because at that time i was thinking,
its better for me to looking up for someone new because i think the relationship btwn me and my ex will never work.
its been more than 12 years but my ex still confusing me.

but then because i was in a state of confusion n terrified that i will be hurt again,
i show my demon side at my pisces guy. i just wanna give a test to him but its turn out to be a nightmare.
i was just want to make sure that he can accept me , my past and all that matters.
i keep on telling him bout my ex (how long i've waited and sacrifice for my ex)
because i wanna give a hint that im a serious person when it comes to love and i dont want to be taken for granted, again.

but now, im losing him because i was so terrified of nothing. i dont know and im clueless.

help me out guys...

that's not a "dilemma"

Stop messing with the poor little Pisces. Jut let go off him. That was one of the factors why my (Pisces) relationship didn't work out with my ex (Aquarius). She could just never let go of her ex's (Cancer, Taurus). But mind you she was completely loyal and transparent to me, always. She would share just about everything with me. Even the conversations she had with her ex. But in the later stages I found it difficult to handle it all. I found it difficult to hear her talk about her ex's . It was one of the factors that led us to end it eventually.

On a side note, both signs express their love in different way.

When an Aquarius loves you, for them you are priority number one, no matter what. Their loves comes out in the way they talk to you. There is 100% transparency, loyalty. There will share just about every thing about themselves, their past, present, ambitions. They won't hold back anything. In return, all they want is freedom, 100 % trust from their partners. Cause once an Aquarius has committed to you, no matter how much they talk to their ex's, their hearts would always beat just for you!

When a Pisces is in love, they open up as well. They share their deepest fears, dreams, ambitions. However, there would be times when they need a lot a space (escapist tendencies) to spend time with themselves. They like partners where they know that after having a really hard day at work, they can go back home to a partner who would love them like no one else. These escape periods are more of a way to recharge them selves after getting drained in the real world.


In the long run, Aquarius gets fed up of these constant escape periods of Pisces. They need constant communication and contact. Too much space from Pisces and that gives enough time for a Aquarius mind to wander to other greener pastures.
Also Pisces may also have esteem issues, and would want constant re assurance from their partners. Aquarius are lovey-lovey only initially, later are quite sharp in their opinions which may end up hurting watery Pisces.

There is just too much in compatibility in this pair. Let go.

Posted by lilgemfish
Stop messing with the poor little Pisces. Jut let go off him. That was one of the factors why my (Pisces) relationship didn't work out with my ex (Aquarius). She could just never let go of her ex's (Cancer, Taurus). But mind you she was completely loyal and transparent to me, always. She would share just about everything with me. Even the conversations she had with her ex. But in the later stages I found it difficult to handle it all. I found it difficult to hear her talk about her ex's . It was one of the factors that led us to end it eventually.

On a side note, both signs express their love in different way.

When an Aquarius loves you, for them you are priority number one, no matter what. Their loves comes out in the way they talk to you. There is 100% transparency, loyalty. There will share just about every thing about themselves, their past, present, ambitions. They won't hold back anything. In return, all they want is freedom, 100 % trust from their partners. Cause once an Aquarius has committed to you, no matter how much they talk to their ex's, their hearts would always beat just for you!

When a Pisces is in love, they open up as well. They share their deepest fears, dreams, ambitions. However, there would be times when they need a lot a space (escapist tendencies) to spend time with themselves. They like partners where they know that after having a really hard day at work, they can go back home to a partner who would love them like no one else. These escape periods are more of a way to recharge them selves after getting drained in the real world.


In the long run, Aquarius gets fed up of these constant escape periods of Pisces. They need constant communication and contact. Too much space from Pisces and that gives enough time for a Aquarius mind to wander to other greener pastures.
Also Pisces may also have esteem issues, and would want constant re assurance from their partners. Aquarius are lovey-lovey only initially, later are quite sharp in their opinions which may end up hurting watery Pisces.

aw that's how i love too,

OP, you are one of those types that keeps ex's as friends, that is really gonna make someone very very insecure, infact i'd be insecure as hell. You can't even see or get that?? if you can't i dont think anyone will do for you. unless they are they type that dont care as long as you are there.

thanks guys for your replies.. really appreciate it a lot.

i guess its time to really move on. yesterday i found out he met a girl which i think he never told me before.

and i guess, he moved on real fast. luls.

it's ok then.. maybe pisces not a kind of guy that clinging to the past relationship and easy to find another girl to replace the old one.

it's good then cuz im worry much if i hurt him badly that he's not gonna trust or love anyone anymore like what he said to me.

luls . i shouldnt believe that though.

anyway, maybe its a hint that no matter how many guy i met , that cancer guy will always sticking to my butt no matter what i do or if im going through hell.

its a wake up call for me.

Okay if your sleeping with someone else the merman will step off. I was seeing a bull and he mentioned that is ex contacted him and made him confused. I immediately told him we should stop dating. Pieces don't play that game. Some may stick around but are cautious just to see how it plays out, but we will never fully trust you again.

Yeah, usually when a fish says their done to the other person that is usually it. He most likely was going back and forth about what to do in his mind before he said that.

I noticed something though, you can't wish or say that the merman was for you while your sleeping with someone else.

Also you're being hypocritical when you say that you want your freedom but it upsets you when fish do that. Hun, you MUST realize something about fish, we will mirror your actions.

Hell I wouldn't be surprised if he was getting a side piece when you were shagging the crab.