Are Pisces men forgiving?

Are Pisces men forgiving?

Aside from telling the man he annoyed me and I was done chasing him ... not much.

Yes, very forgiving if they love you.

Posted by djbuck1

Posted by LostinPhilly
Aside from telling the man he annoyed me and I was done chasing him ... not much.

Sounds to me like he's the one who should be asking pardon-- if he's had a change of heart. Chasing men is pretty fruitless IMO. We're supposed to be the pursuers. A "go ahead" signal is always welcome (and wise with a fish), but have you ever tried to catch a real fish with your bare hands? There's a lesson to be had in that.

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I agree. I game him many hints I was interested but he kept playing me until the very last day. Very very quick to respond to texts but insanely lazy when it came to planning dates. One day he'd asked me to meet up and three hours later he'd cancel. I'm not sure why. He had me playing a fool. Real roller coaster ride.

Are you being sarcastic?

This one doesn't seem to be forgiving.

For telling him he annoyed me but if you guys say he's playing dumb because he's not interested ...

Yes, it is about him. I tried to get in touch with him last night and apologized for disappearing but he did not seem to care much since he never responded to my message. He always responded to my messages immediately, so I am assuming he does not want to speak to me.

There were no games. I never played a single game with him. He, on the other hand, was playing stupid games by cancelling our dates several times and coming up with the most random excuses. I never reject people if I don't have a valid reason to.

It's Venus retrograde you know...

many Scorpios with that heavy Saturn are feeling nostalgic and picking at "what could of beens" more out of curiosity and an ego boost than anything else.

you've called this guy boring, self absorbed and a game player. Pisces can pick up on stuff like that you know, no matter how well you think you hide it.

you've said in a previous post that you let friends and your inexperience being in the work force cloud your judgement.... but then you turn around and get defensive again.

If you are not sincere in your apologies and have more negatives to express than positives.... don't bother. it's not real

No I was sincere when I apologized. Yes, I found him a little boring and self-absorbed, but it does not mean I did not like him. We all have flaws and I did not cut him off because of these two characteristics of his. I started thinking of him before Venus went retrograde.

In my experience they have been, as long as you give a SINCERE apology. My friend's dad has not spoken to someone in over 30 years (this guy who still lives locally and back in the day was a neighborhood kid who cursed out his wife at the time). Back then, the kid ran over his then-wife's flowerbeds and when she confronted him he cursed her out real bad. Well, an apology was demanded and never given. My friend's dad had words with him. To this day, if my friend's dad sees him about town he turns his back. Even though that's his ex-wife now, he has never, ever, ever spoken to this fellow again! I think it's justified. That guy never apologized and he should have!!

I never told him he was boring though.

It's just I thought his routine was "boring" but I found his personality and his interests very interesting. If he didn't cancel our first date three times in a row, none of this would have happened, that's a fact. He's partly responsible for what happened. I don't understand why you people are blaming me. But after all, it is a Pisces thing to play victim.

I don't see how. Yes, I found him boring but it's not incompatible with the fact that I STILL wanted to get to know him better.

Had I not mentioned how "boring" he was in the other thread, I'm sure you people would have said "He wasn't interested, that's why he cancelled many times and you should not seek his forgiveness". You can still see flaws in people without making a big deal out of those. I said he was boring in the other thread, but it's got nothing to do with this situation. Please, don't mix comments I made on a completely different thread which by the way was not mine!

You people are focusing on the wrong element which is not mentioned in this thread. I clearly mentioned how he cancelled and you people are taking some unrelated post out of context to use it as an argument against me. Stop taking things out of context and please stick to what is provided to you on this thread. What I said on someone else's thread is irrelevant.

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Posted by LostinPhilly
There were no games. I never played a single game with him. He, on the other hand, was playing stupid games by cancelling our dates several times and coming up with the most random excuses. I never reject people if I don't have a valid reason to.

nobody is blaming you - it always takes two to tango - but you are very incosistent. remember our conversation the other day in that other thread - you said you played many games and were immature at the time ....

at the end of the day however - what counts is: what do you want?

why is this nagging at you? will it matter in a year from now? is it your pride/ego that is hurt?

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It is true, I started playing games right when he started cancelling plans on me. Yes, I was immature in that aspect and I could have handled the situation a bit better by just communicating with him, but communication with this man was a bit complicated. However, I never played any game before the "cancelling plans" started for the sole reason that I actually liked him. Yes, I mentioned the word boring and self-absorbed (mainly because most of his texts revolved around his life) but I still wanted to get to know him better because I believed he had something.

Calling someone "boring" is not necessarily a bad thing, it is just a statement. He was a player in my opinion because he kept cancelling plans on me, which I found absolutely annoying. Never did he apologize for one date he cancelled. He went with the flow and texted me in the middle of the night to cancel every single time. I just had no clue how to deal with this person after a while and went off on him.

I probably sound slightly inconsistent but at the end of the day, I liked him. If I didn't like him, I would be over him by now. It's been months and I usually don't "mourn" something that didn't work out.