Why Pisces man walked away after 2 yrs?!

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by JemJ on Friday, January 17, 2014 and has 8 replies.

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@JemJ
12 Years

We had a wonderful loving relationship and when we were considering moving in together, he simply vanished without reason nor explanation!! WHY?! I am an Aquarius and fell totally in love him and now I am simply devastated... Help!

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@LostinPhilly
12 Years

Maybe he just was not ready to commit just yet? Or he fell out of love?

Pisces would never leave a healthy/loving relationship unless they reached a point of no return.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

See, I told you in your other thread that you aren't going to learn anything from this ... because here you've made another thread, in where you have no clue what you did.

You still think he just upped and disappeared as if you did nothing wrong.

You spent two years trying to buy him. There was no love there ... just opportunity.

You cannot possibly believe you spent two trying to buy someone's love ... and now come in here and act like feelings were sincere.

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@ScorpioFish
15 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Look, I cannot speak for all Pisces men, but here's the deal.

I do NOT abandon a relationship unless the negatives outweigh the positives.

I am willing to suffer through some negative stuff with a person so long as the positives outweigh it. For example, I am willing to overlook the fact that she isn't a perfect 10 if she has the same political/government beliefs, can handle a kitchen and wants to have babies. But, if she doesn't like children, cannot handle the kitchen, hangs out with psychopaths, politically is a Stalinist and other stuff that just overwhelms me... Then yes, eventually I will abandon ship and just move on.

I am willing to stay in the relationship and see if things change for the better, since I often change for the better myself. However, there is only so much I am willing to do in terms of arguing and problems before I realize that it's just not worth it anymore and walk away.

There is probably more to the problem here than we are being told.