are you negative?

my frame of mind is always anticipating the worst .. do you fish feel the same?

no

I use to be like that. But you can't blame me after living 18 years with a Dad that likes to feed me anxiety filled advice and a mom that always put me down and attempted to control me through guilt and anger. It took me like...oh...7 years to finally get over that. Better late than never, eh? 🙂

I do slip every now and then and get negative at times, but I try to correct myself now and keep positive thoughts in my mind.

double post, my bad.

To be negative, and always anticipating the worse ... isnt' the same thing.


Virgo's and Pisces are different in this.

A Virgo will indeed anticipate the worse to happen, they will hold onto this negative energy internally .. yet, they will project outwards no indication that this negativity exists, and that it drives them. So, from an outsider looking in, this might not be apparant because they are telling a person something positive, eventhough inside they are thinking and being driven by a negative energy.

Whereas a Pisces person is driven by whatever the energy is, either/or/both at same time, even. And they will project outwards either/or/both at same time, even. If something is negative, we internalize the negative, if something is positive, we internalize the positive .... and both of these will we project, accordingly.

However, we don't "anticipate" the worse to happen. We anticipate the best to happen. Whichever happens worse/best ... this is what we internalize/project.

Thats actually true. I noticed if other people are calm, so am I. As soon as there is tension, I get tense as well.

I don't usually try to dwell on the downside of things if I can help it. I tend to act like a weather vane to other peoples emotions around me though.

That's pretty funny, in really tense situations i remain very calm. I've always been the one to stay calm and think things out before they go further while everyone else jumps off the handle. I dunno where it comes from, but i'm glad I have it 🙂

Oh, but as far as being negative, I remove negativity the minute i sense it from my life. I really don't have time for it, and won't entertain it 🙂