So, been with my Aries for about 4 years. We've had our rough spots, but all and all a pretty good pairing. We recently parted ways because I'm crazy 🙂 It basically boils down to me feeling "closed in" or "trapped" in the relationship. It sounds so lame and cliched but it really "was me", not him. He's really good at handling how emotional I am at times ;p , he super loves me, I could trust him like no other......and yet, something's missing or I wouldn't feel like I can't breath when I think about long term plans right?
lol, crazy is good 🙂 .. if a person can't be crazy once in a while, then they will likely go insane.
Trapped isn't an unusal feeling for a Pisces in a relationship ... our currents continue to run, no matter what, and what lies on another stream is curious.
I believe in the Aries/Pisces pairing, completely .... and have often said that these two are made for each other, they belong together. However, there are glitches, hurdles to overcome and it sounds like you are faced with one of these hurdles.
Aries display their love for you by being possessive of you, which you already know ... hence: you can't breathe. But, you know that this is how he loves, this is his trueness of feelings.
Sorry you are sad for having to part ways with your mate 😢 ... hopefully, a little distance will make the two of you closer to addressing, and comprimising why you feel so caged.
I hope so P-Angel. I actually just got off of the phone with him. He's so patient and understanding with me. It's just this hurdle keeps popping up. We pretty much handled the possessive thing right off the bat. This is more along the lines of my overwhelming desire to be free. I don't want to settle down. I'm a not very traditional. Don't want kids. Don't have a desire to get married. He is seemingly the same way. But then I wonder if he's just convincing himself that he wants the same things as I do for my benefit. Boy listen to me and my Piscean "problems"......
"My boyfriend is sooo amazing, and loves me so much, I just don't know if I can handle it....boo whooo!" 🙂
i'm so sorry you going though this....my pisces is trying to convince me that he wants to work things out....thing is that once i'm out of a relationship there's no need going back.he keeps callling and i'm on the verge of changing my phone#
I dated an Aries once. Lasted for six months...he was up my arse constantly...and I hate that. He was also very possessive and always trying to make me jealous, which didn't work. Finally, after six months of hearing how great his ex was, I said..."You know...I think you need to get back with her. You two must be soul mates."
HAHA! His protestations that this wasn't true fell on completely deaf ears. I was so glad to be rid of him! 😛
Exactly what SS said, I dated one once, briefly because he was so over the top possessive (and needy I have to say) that it drove me mad. He must have text me a couple dozen times a day asking what I was doing.
The clincher though was when he sent me a text saying I looked good that day because he'd seen me through my kitchen window.
Eh stalker alert anyone? Anyway he gave me the creeps, and I gave him the boot.
"A friend of nine who is a P (she) was married to an A (he) and it did not last."
Yeah, I heard not long ago my ex is on his third marriage now. GOSH! So sorry I missed that boat. To think I could have been miserable, long-suffering wife number one. *SIGH* 😛
"Is Pisces/Aries a crazy combo? I thought I read it was a more favorable one."
Hmmm...I've never read anything favorable about this pairing at all. I get along with Aries friends and family, just fine. Romantically though, it's a rough one. Not a whole lot in common as far as the way we see the world and process thought and emotion. Nothing's impossible, of course..some combos are just more challenging than others.
Okay, when we first started dating, it was a little too much "up my arse"(props to SS 🙂 ). We got to a point last year where it was really weighing on me that I was acting differently around him than with other people. I was "behaving". For example I had quit smoking for him and I started sneaking it behind his back. I would be a little bawdier when he wasn't around. (I'm not a ho, I just have a truckers mouth.) Blah Blah...So then the real me just came busting out. I basically told him "I gotta be me, and this is how I was when you met me.", and he's pretty good with it. I really don't have too many complaint. But right now I just have this overwhelming desire to be alone. I'm hibernating.
Don't get me wrong, dude does drive me bonkers some times. But he's also pretty good at mellowing my crazy moods.
SeaSiren >>>Not a whole lot in common as far as the way we see the world and process thought and emotion.
i am a pisces and i guess i find myself in love with an aries. hes got a cancer ascendent and lots of pisces in his chart. i love him but GOD, that aries attitude. my mother is an aries and she is so stupid so that makes her extra annoying, but she can be really sweet. i just dont trust it because the devil is inside her too. this aries guy sometimes he is completely in love with me and when he is, we never speak because we dont need to. he is not a good communicator and frankly, im not either. symbols are better for me. but other times, just as my mother has the devil inside her, he hates me. wants me to die or something because i cant understand him. (he has a scrambled soul and i can usually send out my fish to understand others and him fully, he really is scrambled and its hard for me to figure out how to exist at his side) we have a friendship that hasnt gone any further than that. id like to, because since we communicate so well silently imagine communicating physically!! but being who i am, i cannot give that best part of me away unless im certain im not going to be loved then hated, loved then hated. also, i really dont think anyone else will ever love this guys soul as tenderly as i do because everyone around here thinks he's totally insane. i guess he is, but i dont really think anyones insane- just different from me.
"Is Pisces/Aries a crazy combo? I thought I read it was a more favorable one."
It actually is a great combo.. What each one lacks the other can provide. The true, yin/Yang, Prince/princess, extreme masculine, extreme feminine, fairytale combo.. i have parents in this combo, and they love each other dearly..
I have dated an aries for a while. He was fun to play with but not someone I would take too seriously. Makes since for me with an Aries moon and Aries in my 5th house which is house of fun an pleasure. He was inticing on a sensual level but with a cap venus for romance I am looking for traditionalism.
I have heard of pisces and Aries marriages however they don't seem to make it for the long haul.
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