Be careful of drugs and drink Pisceans

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions I know you all know this, I'm venturing to guess that all of you are a little younger than me. I'm a shark with old battle scars,we eat ourselves when caught in fishing nets,we have voracious appetites for that which we think makes us feel good.Don't wake up and find yourself in middle age needing a 12 step program. I hate to be manacled and shackled and hooked, fish are forever moving and free. Addiction,dependence,reliance on chemicals is enslavement. The best high is an Orgasm God gave us the ability for that one,and man I've had some that no chemical or drink could match. I love you my fellow Pisceans good gentle fish with sharp teeth!!!!!

and yes haffo it does hurt so good.

Keef

I was asking your age because I was looking for information about experiences of life from older Pisces. I had some really interesting questions in the past but I couldn't find anyone to ask to.

HI KEEF!

Isn't addiction to the "orgasm" high bad too? Especially when you are getting it from multiple people...

CL/Cm2

Im 26 but scorp,an orgasm is the most intesne version of pain by the way.🙂

"Isn't addiction to the "orgasm" high bad too? Especially when you are getting it from multiple people..."

Surely there's nothing bad about getting orgasms from multple sources. All done in a safe and above board environment of course.

Sure beats Haffo's method anyway.

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions Hello Cancer Lady I missed you I thought maybe you were having contractions or something,how are the little moonbeams. I didn't mean to sound so heavy about the drug and drink thing,what I really mean to say is moderation is the best way. I've had my wars,I've lost some battles. I hate that more often than not theres a piece of urethane between me and my love of the moment,but these are the times we live in.I'm getting to a point where I don't want to sample all of the candy in the store anymore. I just want that piece that tastes better than any other. The soulmate freak piece of candy. That piece I would have all the time,if she's good and chewy and fun to lick and lasts a long long time I will stay out of the candy store. I would even give up menage a" trois bars having 2 pieces of candy at one time. Nah I don't think you can ever have enough orgasms but I think if you put a little space in between them days,hours,minutes each one is really special. I thought your masturbation topic was interesting.

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions Tiamat I agree babe.

2 sharks swimming in opposite direction branh0913 Submitting to any desire is the result of a weak mind! hmmmmmmmm come on man you're to young to be that prudent. You can submit to your desires but still be disciplined about it. Anyway thanx for the feedback,Bran.

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haffo I've been meaning to answer you bro. but I'm a little pressed for time right now. The reason I've been posting so much lately is that my job schedule has changed after the holidays and i've been around a computer(bosses office, shhhhhhh)But it's getting ready to change again and I probably won't be on here as often. I do enjoy this sight and I find all of you to be very interesting people. We're Pisceans we're stronger than we get credit for,....we're sharks. I'm no wise sage or anything haffo I just been around the block a few times. Prayer works,it works for me. God is the greatest counselor I know, I see where your location is in the world. You're a tough guy have to be. Any way whats up? Maybe I can give you my 2 cents worth.

Okay. I understand you since I am in the same situation many times here. But it's good to know at least which is important.

i find you guys to be great reading...all this talk about addiction, orgasms, etc, i'll have to agree that we pisceans are very prone to addiction, at least in my experience. i have been through that grind and thank god came through alive to speak and write about it. anything to escape reality right? and I am, i guess you'd like to call it, an older pisces, i prefer wiser, but am also a woman, hence my moniker. and yes, i also agree we are very strong people, much stronger than people realize because of our sentimentality and sensitivity. But, that said, survivors i believe. at least i am, however, that is part of the problem, I'd prefer not to be "just a survivor" would like to live life to the fullest so to speak, just have to know my limits. and the problem with the sleeping around thing, (maybe it's different for pisces women) is the emotional angle of it, I am not capable of separating the two. I must feel something for the other person, although we/I are very sexual, sensual people, that leaves me at least very vulnerable to immense hurt and pain. soooooo, all that said, "Loving oneself" or "self gratification" or just plain old masturbation is great, albeit very lonely sometimes. but again, i do just love hearing the male perspective on all this. I've known a couple male pisces who are total shits, that's the only word i can use, and it has puzzled me because i have tried to relate them to myself, and find their actions and views so very different. any input guys?

2 sharks swimming in opposite directions To my friend Anotherpisceswoman I'm glad you came out on the other side of that battle. Another survivor. I don't ever want to be weak for a substance or human again(Although my daughter,Mom,or that soulmate lover friend may be the exception)Typical of Pisceans I've always liked to go outside of myself if it feels this good maybe I can make it feel even better.In the end I'd went to far,what started out as harmless fun became very damaging over many years.I'm not down on having a drink or a smoke every now and then (lord knows sometimes at the end of the day in this world you need a drink)But please don't rely on it for your happiness and well being,moderation, theres a time and place for every thing.And really I've goten to the point where I don't need it at all. We swim in two directions upstream and down stream I know a lot of down stream swimming Pisceans If they'd just use common sense,if they'd just stop being so lazy in their thinking,if they'd just stop saying to hell with it and apply themselves they'd reverse their course. I know a lot of upstream swimmers serious and gregarious,quiet loners,artistic,writers,musicians,SOCIAL WORKERS,truck drivers(it's a solitary profession lots of traveling for restless fish)We're basically good,we're basically spiritual people. It's been said that Jesus was a pisces,In ancient Rome the early christians used the sign of the 2 fish to denote where they were having meetings.

oh my new friend Keef, how well you put it. yes up or downstream, always the danger of which way to go, and too often it's so much easier to just wallow in the muck and mire of the quicksand we sometimes find ourselves drowning in. But yes, for me it came down to truly "do I want to live or die" and fortunately i chose life, and no, swimming upstream has not been any easy path, sometimes quite grueling in fact, and i agree as far as giving my all for truly loved ones, it's discerning who is deserving of that which can be the difficult process. I can only speak for myself, but I've made far too many mistakes believing or rather, wanting to believe, that some people were who they truly weren't(did that make any sense?) and been hurt by it of course, mostly disallusioned really, and then asking myself "Why am I so surprised that this person is a liar, cheat etc" when they've given every indication of being that. Alas, the reluctance to really look at reality is a problem for me. I much prefer my fantasies.

It's the sensitivity thing Anotherpisceswoman,you know what it is we're over sensitive. We're like bare wires plugged into the wall socket of the world. God had to have some of his people this way and we're the ones. I have a tough guy facade I don't let any one get to close I'm a loner by choice people like me because I'm a nice guy and sort of wild and sort of eccentric.but I keep em at arms length,I'm standoffish. I've been hurt before,we all have. I ain't gonna let you get to close to hurt me anymore. My lady friends say I have issues.Well I guess I do. I like people, I like to laugh,especially if it's genuinely funny.But I'm more of an observer. Quiet, with a raging fire inside, it comes out in my passion. Self loving yourself physically and emotionally iis important to ones well being. I also love to masturbate my mind is a fertile playground (smile)but I also like a warm body next to me from time to time. Making love is exquisite,especially if it's someone you trust.I'm not ready to be in one place in my life right now. But I look forward to meeting my soul freak mate and being with her in some capacity the rest of my life. Be happy babe you're doing good!

Thanks Keef, needed that, I put myself in another vulnerable masochistic position again, and predictably enough, i'm doing the self hatred thing right now, not self loving. why was i so stupid? why was i so hopeful? why did i think it'd be different this time? yes the sensitivity thing is a bitch sometimes. want to just crawl in a hole and hide, but crave connection with people at the same time, yes self loving is great but a warm body to connect with is so much nicer. it's the trust thing, i fall too fast and as i said, believe my romantic fantasies so much more easily than reality too often. I so admire people and Iknow quite a few, who can just say, "Hey he/she is really not good for me, goodbye" and just walk away with no self-recrimination or self loathing for being such a sap.
Need these pep talks you guys, i guess it's true that if you have the capacity to truly love you have the capacity to truly hurt.
Good and bad, ying and yang

I hear you loud & clear,Keef.
I've been down the addictyion road & am coming out of it now.
Us fish can be so over sensitive,the drugs helped isolate me from the things/people who traumatized me.

I hear you loud & clear,Keef.
I've been down the addiction road & am coming out of it now.
Us fish can be so over sensitive,the drugs helped isolate me from the things/people who traumatized me.