Cheating

I am a 25yrs pisces female, i had been going out with a leo who is 15yrs older than me. he cheated on me, i finished with him for 2 months, he now wants me back, i agreed to go back with him, hoping that i could forgive him, but the problem is i do not beleive anything he tells me and i am so scared of him hurting me again, because i am not strong enough to go through all that again. he promises me he will never do it again, and i must admit he is trying, but i do not know what to do, somebody please give me some homest advice.

Emma

HI IM A PICESE ALSO AND YOU KNOW AND I KNOW THAT ONCE THE TRUST IS GONE IN THE RELATIONSHIP THERE WILL BE NO PEACE.
SO, I'M NOT TRYIN TO BE HARSH OR ANYTHING BUT YOU NEED TO BE STRONG AND MOVE ON,BECAUSE RIGHT NOW YOUR LIKE A FISH OUT OF WATER.YOU KNOW YOU CAN'T LIVE WITH OUT WATER(TRUST)BUT YOUR TOO SCARED TO GET BACK IN(TOO SCARED TO MOVE ON). EVERYONE KNOWS YOU CAN DO IT SO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS,THEY WILL NOT STEER YOU WRONG. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR JOURNEY

Hi Emma, I too am a girl fish and all i will say is most leo males tend to stray at some point or another. They are lions, kings of the jungle and by nature will rome. Now, not all are this way but, i come from a family of lions and the proof is in the pudding. Be a whale pisces and move on with high hopes. Good luck :-)

I agree with the above, once openess and trust is lost between a lion and fish I do not believe the lion can come all the way back (and it may be too painful for the fish) I say move forward and good luck!

Thank you all for your advice, i know i should move on, i just feel so lonely. i have plenty of friends, but i could be in a room full of a thousand people and i would still feel lonely. i know that time is the best healer, i have just got to be strong and get through this. once again thank for replying.

Emma

Awww Emma...If you are anything like the many fish ladies that I know and have known, you will get past your lonliness and begin to swim freely and enjoy finding what makes you happy. If you always focus on a mate to swim with or for, you may never see yourself as the person you truly are. Co-dependancy is a lesson that every fish (especially the females) goes through. Being very loving and wanting love in return is very important even "tops" to most fish. Nothing wrong with needing love and feeling needed. We all do. Leo's however are not so needy as far as reassurance, romance and co-dependancy issues are concerned. They are self sufficient and secure only loving their most nearest and dearest. They waste no time placing could be's into maybe's or not gonna be's. If he cheated on you I think you get an idea of what he saw your relationship to be. For Leo's it's an ego thing to gain self confidence- when someone finds them al-mighty and (like the previous post) king of the jungle. It appears that you are a softer hearted person who would only live a life of trying to please the Lion when there is a wonderful man waiting to capture a fish like you and return the love to you that you want to give. In triplicate! Please dont waste your time on this Emma, just my thought's of course.

Do not get involved with him again. More than likely, he will cheat again. He will make you believe the other woman is out of the picture, but he will keep her on the side. Move on.