For all Pisces females

Learn to acknowledge and value what you get from others. Stop using people.

i know exactly what you mean. i HATE saying no to ANYBODY!!!! it's like i feel that i'm obligated to do what they ask me to do, and i feel terribly guilty when i say no.

We are the most loving people, and we almost always get hurt by every one we love. However once we have had to much you can't touch us!!!!!

It is all a matter of CHOICE. We allow everything and nothing to happen to us...it is OUR CHOICE. When a person realizes that, no matter what sign they are, life situations will become clearer.

A Pisces

Listen pisces do not and have not used anyone. I am a pisces, my father, and my sis-in-law and we have all been used by other signs once in our life times and all have done is give a hearts and souls and love and affection only to be use and abused and toss like old shoe.

i agree if u allow something to happen to you knowing its going to happen then it is your own fault you created your own bad luck and your destiny. and when realise in your life that you worth much more u are much happier. i am

Oh come on you make all Pisces sound pathetic and naiive- give us stronger more capable pisceans a break

People born under the sun sign of Pisces are like all others...capable of using someone. What concerns me more than "using someone", whatever that means, is the almost universal victim mentality of the respondents. Maybe it's that type of self-pity that the original message writer was referring. Yes, I'm a Pisces but one who has learned to use the empathy and compassion that is part of our destiny to grow and hopefully understand others better. If you are blessed to have been born a Pisces this time, please don't expend all of your energy on "looking after others." The reason you're a Pisces is to love and understand yourself. Then, and only then, will the music, poetry and love flow into your life. It does not work any other way. By the way, the spelling and grammar in some of the messages was pitiful.

I'm constantly feeling guilty when i say no to someone or ask them for a favor...

but one thing pisces can do is play a martyr.

but i think we sadistically enjoy it.

I think what all of you have missed is the fact that pisces although they can find it hard tosay no to anyone are in the middle a learning curve that is teaching them to be more self sufficient... as for the ( i am pretty sure it is a leo, aquarian or sag) that wrote the above message about pisces using people lets talk about the twelve year cycle in which you ahve done the exact same thing to jsut about everyone who would let you do it.... the truth is from my perspective that pisces MAY be getting the benefits of the universe now but it is jsutthe universal payoff for assuming responsiblity for literally everything around them for the last twenty years... its time we got some of the good stuff and i as one pisces am not going to apologize for people helping me for a change... frankly you might want to look at your own motives!

Who the hell are you to say that we are users?? We don't use people, if anything people use us. Get a F $ @!ING CLUE!!

Totally true. There are no victims only volunteers. You can be anything you want to be and do anything you want to do, it merely takes putting your mind to it. You don't need to step on anyone or let anyone step on you. Once you realize this your life will have less anxiety.

surprised by this. definitely don't think pisceans use people..certainly not consciously. we do give so much that we are never really in debt to others. personally feel rather drained by others' demands and am perfectly capable of saying no but also feel that erecting barriers or setting boundaries is even more of a strain. i don't think we're victims but we want to go with the flow and this often encourages others to think we have an inexhaustible supply of emotional energy. luckily fellow pisceans are very careful not to push their neediness at each other! we have very strong emotional needs ourselves. personally i find that almost no-one except a fellow piscean can be understanding enough. although i am always "emotionally there" for my friends they do not seem to be able to respond very deply when i need support myself. Is this something us pisceans will just have to come to terms with?

hahaha...tats really funny...hehhehheh...

We don't use people. Quite the opposite in fact.

im so glad im a pisces!! we are nice,sensitive,caring,never can say no not even to a stranger,always helping others,generous,etc.
people say i hav a lil bit of aries in me cuz i dont take crap from anyone but then again they say im sensitive,loveable,etc.am i the only female pisces who acts the way i do? tell me.thanx
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