Clueless Crabette?!?

Oh Pisces...oh how I love thee... but I just can't seem to get it right in either love or friendships so tell me what are your likes and dislikes and in the future.I will try to do my best, ok lol..Pinky swear!

im not so sure Pisces and Cancer are as compatible as we are led to believe. sure, on-the-surface interaction is easy in most cases (maybe because of the shared water element, maybe not), and they possess many characterisitics that complement the needs of Pisces very well, but as sensitive and scattered as i am, i do not really have it in me to deal with the moodiness, the avoidance/side-stepping and above all that unbreakable shell...

Most of my experiences with Cancers have been generally positive, though...I must say that...

--Jack

Posted by Rachelannthepisces

Posted by crabRiot
Oh Pisces...oh how I love thee... but I just can't seem to get it right in either love or friendships so tell me what are your likes and dislikes and in the future.I will try to do my best, ok lol..Pinky swear!

I'm going through the same issue with a Cancer guy I was seeing. It's like I love him, and cancers in general but it just never seems to work for some reason. I think my problem with my cancer was he was an avoider and ran away from our problems. He also said things under-handidly and rudely in a sneaky manner but I realized what he was doing and it just made me madder. You guys are also crazy hard to keep happy! It's like no Cancer ever remembers the good we do for them just the bad. So if you're like that too stop all those things and just listen to us. We are very sensitive and emotional. And my cancer ended up making me feel bad for showing emotion and told me I cried too much. Don't do that. Allow the pisces comfort and be that person she/he can cry to. Be all the good things a Cancer is (loving, nurturing, giving), just don't change up on us once you get bored or are in a bad mood. I honestly love cancers. They're literal perfection....when they're in a good mood. But once they realize feelings are getting heated they run away and act like theyre the only ones with feelings. And that hurfs the most.

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Ok Rachel girl here goes...I was involved with a piscean and he was a great guy at first..things went left..we broke up, got back together a couple of times until I put the final nail in the coffin...I must admit I'm a mean, harsh and blunt either when I'm upset or hurt or both..I will not care about your feelings when at that point and I know I hurt him quite a bit..At this point I don't care about that piscean...I am guilty about not remembering his kind acts and only remembering the bad..But I feel like I just don't give a damn about nothing when I'm pissed...maybe I should change that...I may have given up on that particular pisces but I have not ruled out the whole sign in general..I just wanna know how to go about it in a better way next time around..I do think we can make the best team once we get past each other's issues.

But I did adore him. .just wasn't working out..

But that's the thing I don't want to work things out with that person...I'm done...Im quite sure your Cancer bestie even though mad still thinks of you and remember some of the good times..right now she is just mad at you but eventually she will let it go..you just gotta give her some time alone to stew, grieve and get over it...she misses you just angry as hell but trust me she'll be your friend again..When you think the time is right initiate contact and regardless of whether we answer you or not whenever our birthday or the holidays comes around, give us a call or shoot us a text..We will be happy that you remembered us and we will soften up towards you. .but your friend will come around.

Posted by fullwaterpisces

Posted by crabRiot
But that's the thing I don't want to work things out with that person...I'm done...Im quite sure your Cancer bestie even though mad still thinks of you and remember some of the good times..right now she is just mad at you but eventually she will let it go..you just gotta give her some time alone to stew, grieve and get over it...she misses you just angry as hell but trust me she'll be your friend again..When you think the time is right initiate contact and regardless of whether we answer you or not whenever our birthday or the holidays comes around, give us a call or shoot us a text..We will be happy that you remembered us and we will soften up towards you. .but your friend will come around.

I understand you don't want work things out with this guy, I'm saying that like in a future situation, since you were asking 🙂

in my case sweetie, I kind of lost hope, I don't think that after all this long (6 months) she will come around... Some days I try to approach her, but she barely responds and walks away... and it really hurts... but thanks for the advice... I do still care about her and don't mind keep wishing her the best on the holidays and events like that even if she doesn't respond.

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It took me like a good 5 or 6 months once before I talked back to that guy and I would have went forever if he didn't initiate contact.

Posted by crabRiot
Oh Pisces...oh how I love thee... but I just can't seem to get it right in either love or friendships so tell me what are your likes and dislikes and in the future.I will try to do my best, ok lol..Pinky swear!

Responding to the like/dislikes portion

Im pretty easy going, maybe your company and conversation is good enough for me, and everything is extra kind of person

I dislike dishonesty in all levels... No white lies (I can tell when people is laying, besides true comes to light sooner than later) I certainly don't understand why is so hard for people to be honest, some people lie about the most insignificant daily things which is annoying since there is no need for that... i think it makes things looks worst than they really are...

Ex. You know you are late for meeting with me... don't effing tell me you are like 5 minutes away when you haven't event left your house.... I not dumb

I dislike being taken for granted, and people thinking that Im weak because I express my emotions and try to take advantage of me being good, Im certainly not stupid and I believe my intuition is pretty strong, I can read people's intentions like miles before...

I might notice more things that people think I do, but for me when I just let some things fly is not because Im dumb, I actually observe how far people is capable to go... and this is a very cancerean thing of my personality: Once I caught you laying to me my trust is gone forever, I don't appreciate people thinking I'm stupid

I like reciprocity, give and take, equally.... I can give so much but people has limits and I certainly have big ones.
I like direct communication (even so is hard for me) once you stablished the dynamic is great instead of assuming all bunch of crap.
I like details (not only material) that people care about details like remember my birthday, little sincere complements, i take those things straight to my heart.

Posted by Rachelannthepisces
Wheeeww...crabriot...girl. I know you're not cold because you've followed some of my threads and given me good advice but when you say you just literally "don't care" to make the situation better. That's exactly the problem. You have to start caring and realize that everyone has feelings and emotions. You, and all other cancers, need to not make big decisions like completely shutting someone out of your life on a whim or just over one argument. Try to keep your emotions at bay until you have cooled down enough to make logical decisions. Most problems cancers and pisces have a problems that can be easily talked out and made okay with a big hug and kiss at the end. But it's things like not caring and only thinking of the bad that ruin ever knowing if it could have worked. Try listening to us pisces and being more gentle with us. You get that down pat and you'll be set with a pisces (;

Ok thanks for the advice..And I will try not to be so stubborn and dismissive.

Posted by fullwaterpisces

Posted by crabRiot
Oh Pisces...oh how I love thee... but I just can't seem to get it right in either love or friendships so tell me what are your likes and dislikes and in the future.I will try to do my best, ok lol..Pinky swear!

Responding to the like/dislikes portion

Im pretty easy going, maybe your company and conversation is good enough for me, and everything is extra kind of person

I dislike dishonesty in all levels... No white lies (I can tell when people is laying, besides true comes to light sooner than later) I certainly don't understand why is so hard for people to be honest, some people lie about the most insignificant daily things which is annoying since there is no need for that... i think it makes things looks worst than they really are...

Ex. You know you are late for meeting with me... don't effing tell me you are like 5 minutes away when you haven't event left your house.... I not dumb

I dislike being taken for granted, and people thinking that Im weak because I express my emotions and try to take advantage of me being good, Im certainly not stupid and I believe my intuition is pretty strong, I can read people's intentions like miles before...

I might notice more things that people think I do, but for me when I just let some things fly is not because Im dumb, I actually observe how far people is capable to go... and this is a very cancerean thing of my personality: Once I caught you laying to me my trust is gone forever, I don't appreciate people thinking I'm stupid

I like reciprocity, give and take, equally.... I can give so much but people has limits and I certainly have big ones.
I like direct communication (even so is hard for me) once you stablished the dynamic is great instead of assuming all bunch of crap.
I like details (not only material) that people care about details like remember my birthday, little sincere complements, i take those things straight to my heart.

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Ok my dear I appreciate you taking the time out to answer my question..and I can see that I have some shaping up to do and I love how you point out that there are some messed up pisceans out there and not all is nice, but since how I love you guys so much I decided to take all good advice and hope all goes well in the future with the fi

He seemed to be occupied and only came about when he thinks I'm losing interest like when I haven't contacted him in 5 months, he reached asking me if I had someone— He is down and out right now and I don't want to help him with his burdens cause in the pass when I was the one reaching-out all the time he acted cocky and as if I needed him so my aloof behaviour is merely a mirror of his...Please don't feel sorry for him..Im just giving him a taste of his own medicine...He wants help financially and he thinks Im the one that can help him but I redirected him to his other women cause I'm not the one! He said I was ungrateful and I said no im not I'm just not stupid!

Not chickeny...COCKY!..The last time he came around he said to me he always choose the wrong ones and he looking for a girlfriend. .also asked me 6 times if im with someone..I don't have time for his non-sense Im too focus for his scattered-ness (if thats a word) plus sh*t is starting to get annoying and another thing we cursed each other out visiciously the other day and I think I went into CRUEL/BEAST mode because I just never cared about his feelings or if he even had any...I teared into that ass.

Cocky not chickeny omg this word won't come out right

Forget it he think he all dat and there is a 5 letter C word that my phone for some reason keeps translating into chickeny smh

Posted by crabRiot
Forget it he think he all dat and there is a 5 letter C word that my phone for some reason keeps translating into chickeny smh

I understand... Is kind of hard with somone who is not at front... Second such a turn off a man spects a girl to help him financially...

Anyways i should stop talking about this... Im start getting back to be depress again...

I might be paying some sort of bad karma with this girl because she is mad as this happen yesterday and im in pain the same way and Im starting to hate having to see her evey fucking day... I will never going to trust anyone in my entire life.... Im so angry because i dont deserve this shit.... Period!

Cancers are like that it could happen years ago and we still act like it happened this morning but thats us not you..and quit beating your up about it..apologise and ask for forgiveness and move on whether or not she accept the apology. .Since you work with her I think you should try mighty hard to act as if she dont exist..Thats what I would do!But im always here to talk if you need me.