Needy?

Pisces that we all know seems to be very needy. Though she's very friendly and all about excitiment and fun but I think she has an air of neediness about her.

She had this idea that she was great to do a day of "hopping" kind of like bar hopping or pub crawl but she was thinking more of food establishments.

While I normally would be up for anything, I just don't want to spend my bday week with her, I'd rather spend it with freinds or family which I already am.

So she asked me and another person that she considers friends (but we aren't friends) and I said I was busy and the other persons aid that they were working but she said we had no choice in the matter and kept being bossy and needy about it.

Me being a scorpio I'm not budging but I guess the question I have is, what is with the neediness and if it isn't neediness then what is it.

Becuase me saying no I'm busy and other people have to work still didn't get her to stop asking.

just tell her it wasn't a joke and you have plans that don't include her. simple. and not all pisces are 'needy' 😛 some of us are just bossy or plain rude 😄

I don't know how to explain it but it either comes across as needy or self centered.

For instance, always interrupts conversations I am in with other people for stuff they wanna ask me or tell me ab out that isn't really that important (never really is). When people say no or I am busy, the constant bugging and bugging with some sort of expectation that we are going to drop what actually is a priority for us, for their stuff.

If that's not needy then I don't know what it is and I don't understand their reasoning behind it.

if you ever watched a little child-they tend to do that. (maybe she is forgetful...) she doesn't mean any harm tho. (I got two kids AMD they're both Aries, believe me they act the same and even worse ). if she is an only child, well that could be another factor here. a bit of patience, some ignoring and standing your ground, and I hope she'll get it.
but still-can't say we're all like that. 😉

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Posted by IAmMystified
Pisces that we all know seems to be very needy. Though she's very friendly and all about excitiment and fun but I think she has an air of neediness about her.

She had this idea that she was great to do a day of "hopping" kind of like bar hopping or pub crawl but she was thinking more of food establishments.

While I normally would be up for anything, I just don't want to spend my bday week with her, I'd rather spend it with freinds or family which I already am.

So she asked me and another person that she considers friends (but we aren't friends) and I said I was busy and the other persons aid that they were working but she said we had no choice in the matter and kept being bossy and needy about it.

Me being a scorpio I'm not budging but I guess the question I have is, what is with the neediness and if it isn't neediness then what is it.

Becuase me saying no I'm busy and other people have to work still didn't get her to stop asking.

Must be upbringing or another placement in her chart where she comes across needy.
Read up on Pisces, "needy" couldn't be further from the truth!

Posted by Dajjal
if you ever watched a little child-they tend to do that. (maybe she is forgetful...) she doesn't mean any harm tho. (I got two kids AMD they're both Aries, believe me they act the same and even worse ). if she is an only child, well that could be another factor here. a bit of patience, some ignoring and standing your ground, and I hope she'll get it.
but still-can't say we're all like that. 😉

I've tried the ignoring thing...doesn't work. Becuase when I do the ignoring thing, the first thing they see when I run into them was...WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

I started recently saying, oh didn't realize you've been tracking my where abouts.

Heh heh.

@letitB I am going to post what I think is her chart

Sun Pisces 26.27
Moon Pisces 8.58
Mercury Pisces 0.32
Venus Taurus 11.29
Mars Capricorn 15.48
Jupiter Taurus 1.45
Saturn Capricorn 2.02
Uranus Capricorn 0.53
Neptune Capricorn 10.01
Pluto Scorpio 12.18 R
Lilith Leo 23.28
Asc node Pisces 23.14

Does that mean anything to anyone?

You sound pretty fucked up.

You are apparently keeping her in the dark about how you actually feel about her, which leads her on ... and then talk smack about her behind her back.

This is definitely her as I have witnessed this many times:

"Pisces is a sensitive sign--both sensitive to criticism and sensitive to others' feelings. Easily touched by human suffering, at least in theory, Pisces wouldn't hurt a fly. They believe in people, are deeply hurt by compassionless human behavior, and have a hard time saying no. Harsh realities are avoided either through escapist behavior or self-delusion; but every now and again reality does raise its ugly head, and hits Pisces over the head. This is a sad time indeed. Pisces retreats into their own world, self-pitying and giving pep talks to themselves ("I will never trust again!")."

Posted by P-Angel

You sound pretty fucked up.

You are apparently keeping her in the dark about how you actually feel about her, which leads her on ... and then talk smack about her behind her back.

Everyone does becuase she doesn't listen when we are direct with her. At various points over time we have had to confront her about things like:

- Her unwillingness to help others but wants everyone to help her
- How she expects everyone to help her
- How she has said many times out loud that people should put her on a pedestal
- How she has said that women who join the military deserve to get raped
- That its pretty messed up of her to take credit for other people's accomplishments
- About her always talking over people

And she doesn't say anything and goes into the aforementioned, pity party and does all of the aforementioned the next day.

lol that is pretty one dimensional thinking if you think all pisces are that way. just gather the courage and tell her you don't want to hang out with her. people don't call me needy, most of times I get called bytch (for telling them the ugly truth straight up). I'm doing my best to behave here on dxp. 🙂

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Posted by Dajjal
lol that is pretty one dimensional thinking if you think all pisces are that way. just gather the courage and tell her you don't want to hang out with her. people don't call me needy, most of times I get called bytch (for telling them the ugly truth straight up). I'm doing my best to behave here on dxp. 🙂

but courage is what she lacks....she can't even answer a simple question in here .... never mind in real life.

lol@best behaviour.

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fuck best behavior .... let it all hang out

most people prefer the bliss of ignorance

Posted by Dajjal
lol that is pretty one dimensional thinking if you think all pisces are that way. just gather the courage and tell her you don't want to hang out with her. people don't call me needy, most of times I get called bytch (for telling them the ugly truth straight up). I'm doing my best to behave here on dxp. 🙂

I've told her that too and she gets offended, threw a pity party and said I was mean and avoided me for a day and then she was back to her old habits again.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
I'm still trying to see the "needy" part with this Fish in the OP and I've read what Mystified wrote 3 times. Just sounds like woman wanted to go out and do something fun. :/

I don't know if its neediness all I meant was it comes across that way. I mean to me if someone says "No I don't want to hang out with you" or "I am busy" and you still keep bugging them anyway to go along with whatever idea that is being needy.

But if she's seeing it as something else, it's not coming across that way.

I know when I was younger, I am talking in my twenties here or younger again I would do anything for my partner, be it clingy or always there, now, not saying I am the opposite but putting in boundaries for a pisces helps....I am quite blunt, direct and no pussy footing around type of pisces. with Capricorn rising and mercury in aquarius, I am very blunt at times and hate clingy partners or female friends, they are removed from my life, now I am harsh I know....i need to loosen up....drink anyone?