Do Pisces Moon/Sun feel misunderstood?

Where in the world through the black market can I get a titanium heart? I would also like to find some radioactive waste that turns me into some sort of mutant mind reader. Why, so I can learn how to deal with and understand my ever changing Gemini Sun/ Pisces Moon Man. Whom I love so deeply whenever I want to leave to rid myself of all the inconsistencies and unapologetic returns I stop in my tracks at the thought of losing him.
He is ultra sensitive when he is called out for his evasive, contradictory, and odd behavior. Depending on his mood of course he may address my questions if he feels like dealing with someone else's hurt feelings or whether or not he thinks they have a reason to be hurt. When it comes to him hurting you he expects you to just understand and move forward. He will disappear for days at times and then return without an explanation as to why he was so difficult to contact in the first place. No contact at all until HE is ready. Then I better be responsive or I may make him feel rejected and hurt since he is ready to talk to me even though he has ignored my messages and calls for days.
It's been 1 year and 4 months now and he is exactly the same confusing guy I fell for. At times he is so loving and close to me telling me how much he cares for me and needs me. How deeply he loves me. Then he disappears and gets annoyed if I try to talk through why he is in a distant mood. He can talk to other people when he is in these moods and post on his Facebook but I am still ignored. He also had his own idea of what cheating is because if I make him annoyed because I ask him questions or feel hurt he finds that as a reason to talk to and see other women. Other women who aren't asking him why he hurts them or why he is distant. Obviously they just know him on the surface. Then he comes back to me like nothing happened.
I have read so many forums on Pisces Moon men and how they are ultra sensitive, evasive, distant, expect you to understand them without them having to tell you what their problem is, hate confrontation, unreliable, inconsistent, and emotional. I have also read from Pisces moons that they feel extremely misunderstood by most people because they hide everything inside and what they show is not how they feel. Please as Pisces Sun/Moons help me understand Pisces on the inside.
Do you feel misunderstood? Why do you hide your feelings?

I'm a Pisces sun, and my Aries/Taurus cusp moon is in my 12th house (the ruling house of Pisces) so I kind of/sort of have a Pisces moon in that regard. It is really hard for me to express my emotions to others, whether I've known them for years or hours. I personally feel as though I'd be judged for how I'm feeling if that makes any sense to you. I feel as though if I open up to someone they won't understand. In regards to your boyfriend I feel as though opening up may be just as hard for him, possibly for different reasons.

In regards to your situation with him being distant, I can definitely relate to his behavior. Sometimes I need space from the world, and other times I may just need space from certain people. It doesn't mean that I'm upset with them or mad at them, I just need space. I soak up people's energy and emotions like a sponge, and it is extremely draining, so me pulling away is so that I can recharge and balance myself a bit. A lot of times Pisces runs the risk of losing themselves because our personalities kind of shift towards the personality of whomever we are around, and our emotions get so tangled up in theirs that we can't tell them apart, hence the retreating.

Trying to look at this from both of your sides is complicated because I can understand his pulling away and becoming distant, and I can also understand your concerns and your behavior (i.e. messaging him/getting frustrated when he pulls away). I, personally, do not agree with his not messaging you to at least say that he needs space or something so that you aren't left in the dark as to what is going on. I'm not sure if you've tried this, but maybe next time he's being distant, wait until he comes back and then just politely ask him if next time he can just message you need space so that you at least know that that is why he is pulling away.

As for him turning to other women, know matter how one tries to look at it, he is emotionally manipulating you to realize you are "replaceable" so that you will stop "bugging" him about his behavior. (I quoted bugging because I don't necessarily view your behavior as bugging but rather being concerned, but he probably does see it that way).

As a Pisces, one thing we are genius at doing is manipulating people (whether we realize we are doing it or not), and there is nothing worse than an unevolved Pisces because they will manipulate anyone and everyone know matter how much they say, or "show', they care. Pisces are natural actors

Pisces are natural actors (ruled by Neptune) and I have yet to meet a Pisces who can't cry at the drop of a hat. I'm saying this because as a Pisces who knows a numerous amount of other Pisces, I know how a Pisces who is truly in love with some one behaves, and we may still demand space, and we may still be quite the handful at times, but we also would never have our partner feel as though they are "replaceable" or that they have to compete with another woman/man for our attention. (This coming from a Pisces with a Venus in Aquarius). I am not saying leave him or anything, but I am saying that you truly need to be aware, and make sure that you are staying in this relationship for the right reasons and not just because you figure you've put up with it for this long so you might as well put up with it for longer.

I hope this has helped, and I am sorry for any typos or grammatical errors.

No, I don't feel misunderstood. I know that I'm not open with people very often, so I can't get that upset when they can't read my mind. It would be nice, but, hey, you can't always get what you want. And, if I thought I wasn't well understood and thought it as a problem, then I'd just have to open up more. I can't expect others to pry me open, especially when they more than likely don't care enough to.

I do not disappear on people I love and care for. If I need some time by myself, which really doesn't happen, I tell my s/o. I explain things. I might not make much sense, but I always try to explain. Ask, and you will be answered. People who just disappear and don't explain things, to me, sound self-absorbed. And if you're self-absorbed, you can't possibly care for a person to a high degree, so disappearing in the first place would make sense (to the people who are prone to doing that, anyway.)

Your guy sounds self-absorbed, immature and moody, and he does not respect you if he can go after other girls and do any of what you have described. You know him better, however, and we only get a one-sided story from this. Perhaps you don't make this any easier for him, but, once again, I don't know.

I'm honestly surprised you stayed for over a year. Even if the guy loves me and I love him, I cannot be in a relationship with someone who does not fully respect me and who sound like a moody 12 year old.

Not to say it's a lost cause, but it's impossible to change others if they don't want to be changed. Good luck.

Also, I'd just like to add, I'm a terrible actor and if I actually tried to manipulate someone, I would fail miserably at it. I cannot identify with the manipulative side of pisces at all. I'd like to believe that it's a characteristic most pisces don't in fact relate to, but it seems most would say it applies (which is fine, it just makes me feel like less of a pisces). I wonder what went wrong with my chart. Hahaha.

@Daydreamer35- Thank you for the response. I have tried telling him to tell me when he needs space. His behavior is so inconsistent though, sometimes he will be responsive when I ask and say I am just stressed and need space other times he won't reply to me at all so I don't know what is happening. He has told me has trouble saying "I love You" he likes to say I care for you although he has said he loves me many times. Before we got involved he told me he says "care" instead of"love" because he doesn't like using the L word so I knew.
@Sceninc_ I totally agree with you about his behavior but I do love him and he has his moments. He also had a difficult childhood filled with abuse and abandonment and I don't think I giving up on him is the way. If anything I would at least be his friend because he is a good person. He makes me laugh and yes there are two sides to every story. From his point of view he may feel I am too hard on him or I should just know to give him space. I'm not sure but the Gemini in him has a big contribution to how his moon sign works. Gemini and Pisces are so different since Gemini is ruled by logic and Pisces by emotion. Pisces are actually deeply emotional. I've read it's difficult for those with Gemini Pisces mix to make decisions and understand themselves because there view points can be so different within themselves.

Posted by LolaBelle
I have read so many forums on Pisces Moon men and how they are ultra sensitive, evasive, distant, expect you to understand them without them having to tell you what their problem is, hate confrontation, unreliable, inconsistent, and emotional. I have also read from Pisces moons that they feel extremely misunderstood by most people because they hide everything inside and what they show is not how they feel. Please as Pisces Sun/Moons help me understand Pisces on the inside.

Do you feel misunderstood? Why do you hide your feelings?

If I had the talent to hide my feelings it would be far easier because the other person would never know I'm hiding it. "It's hard to explain" and that basically is it in a nutshell. I think you are twisting much of these words to make it sound like we're selfish. To my belief I think pisces influences are anything BUT it's just that the way we need to resolve these situations may seem selfish to others that don't understand.

I wouldn't say I feel misunderstood, not on the inside anyway. I find a lot of people get fed up that I don't react on a situation or talk about it but the most simple fact is I really haven't worked out what part of it what I feel myself. By actively trying to force me to think and talk about it the more aggravated I get because you're not allowing me time to process. If you can accept this then you'll come to realise we're not being evasive, what's the point of talking about something that doesn't make sense yet?

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Agree with Scenic 100%

But from what I'm reading, her s/o has Gemini Sun which would change dynamics all together .... no?!

Yeah, probs, though I usually just answer from my own experience/thoughts whether it's related to the sign or not. Haha. I guess I should stop thinking I'm relatable to everyone. It would probably end up in a good lesson.

@aquasnoz- That really makes a lot of sense that you can't talk about feelings that haven't been fully established in your
own mind yet. "I find a lot of people get fed up that I don't react on a situation or talk about it but the most simple fact is I really haven't worked out what part of it what I feel myself." That sounds a lot like my boyfriend who has said this as well. That in itself is being misunderstood though, the fact that people get fed up since you won't talk about what you are feeling. It seems from an outsider like you don't have anything to say because you don't care but you just need time to ponder. Thanks for the response

Also it's not really that you try to hide your feelings but that you distance yourself so the feelings won't be apparent.