Feeling Empty Without This Taurus...

I've often sought out advice on this Taurus woman on the Taurus forums, and it's always, "just be there for her", "patience". Today I just feel incredibly weakened and alone; I miss her smile, the way her hair falls in front of her eyes as she speaks, her laughter, and the playful way she argues. Honestly I don't know why I'm writing this, except maybe for catharsis.

After three months of intense passion and dating, it's now been almost two months of barely speaking, but still interacting in a friendly manner. Her exceedingly rough past and recent ex history caused a distancing on her part. She occasionally messages me wishing I'm having a good day, but it rarely goes beyond that. I sent her well wishes and told her I was there for her, and she thanked me from the bottom of her heart and said she's just been "taking time for myself". Some of my friends say she's not worth it, and that I should just cut her out. Our mutual friends say I shouldn't give up fighting for her, but it's hard when it feels like I'm climbing a sheer rock face without any footholds.

In the meantime, I've tried to keep my mind off of her by speaking with other women. I've even gone on dates with a couple. But every time I end up thinking of her instead, none of these other women hold a candle to her. We never broke up, it just became a gradual distancing, to the point where we now speak maybe once or twice a week. I really don't know what to do, because my gut says that pressuring her into a decision is going to only ruin everything, but I can't stand not knowing.

Throughout this point I've held onto one nugget of info. My last attempt at a relationship was also a Taurus. We saw one another for six months, less passionately and less frequently, but static over that period. She didn't want to commit after that time, and I moved on. Earlier this year, after a party, I get a text from this last Taurus, and she said she regrets not answering me then, and that she thought we made a great couple, but that she understood if I was seeing someone else. Everything in my being tells me to wait this storm out, that it will get better, but the pain during is excruciating this time...I wish we could get clarity on "us", or at least let one another go. In all my years of dating and relationships, I feel like I've found someone I don't have to impress, someone I can call a partner, but that partner isn't there right now, and though it's nearly Spring, it's never felt so cold.

I so feel your pain my friend!

She doesn't want to be with you ... why would you sit there like a rug, waiting for her to decide to walk on you?


Grow some fucking pride, and step away.


She's isn't a prize. The woman who is the prize is the one who actually wants to be with you and treat like the man she adores.


Seriously .... wake the fuck up and swim away.

Posted by P-Angel

She doesn't want to be with you ... why would you sit there like a rug, waiting for her to decide to walk on you?


Grow some fucking pride, and step away.


She's isn't a prize. The woman who is the prize is the one who actually wants to be with you and treat like the man she adores.


Seriously .... wake the fuck up and swim away.

+10000000

you seem to be falling into the same type of relationship patterns over and over again.......

based on your chart you may be not showing enough stability in some sense ( either emotionally , financially etc)to make these women feel comfortable continuing to with pursuing something romantic with you.

I'm sure you're a great guy but it seems like there seems to be some sort of communication break down with these prospective romantic partners thats hindering you in some way.

imho

good luck!!