Full Moon

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I'm sorry you are sad...I send high kudos to you both.... (((x)))

I must have different signs and make up cause full moons make me want to howl...and lol a lot, really.

I like to go for walks during full moons, I also feel very high and I get a bloody nose very easily. I feel amorous and hardly get any sleep and usually loose weight easily during full moons as well.....I wonder if anyone else has these reactions or if I'm just a wild thing at heart...🙂
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Cancers are ruled by the moon which is why we go crazy at the moon, but I assume all other water signs are affected because the moon also rules the tides...

I like taking full moon walks too! Once I took one on the actual beach, it was really amazing 🙂

I am sad because I have suddenly started obsessing on calling Mr. Pisces...just to ask why...why why why...but I know it won't do any good because he won't answer and I will feel even worse and it won't help me to get over him.

😢 I will not call...I will not call...I will not call
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To CancerLady,

You wrote your Pisces guy won't answer the phone when you call. Could that be because he has caller id? If so, he will know it's you who is calling and therefore won't answer. Now, I've had friends call from a payphone (because the phone number doesn't show up on the other persons' phone if they have caller id) when they wanted to get a whole of a guy they like. Maybe that could be a suggestion in getting him to talk to you? You're not tricking him or anything. I just felt I should come with some suggestion. Maybe it's good or whatever.

Mystical
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Cancerlady, "why, why why" cause you love 'em so well, it just doesn't make sense someone wouldn't want to be in close contact all the time. Alas, others just don't need the love as much as we do either, so hold on tight girl, and be strong.

Do you have any girlfriends you can call up and have some fun to make the time pass quickly? It's probably not what you would choose to do, but it is the best medicine to go out and get some giggles out of you....it will help the endorphins flowing and you will feel better, really. Been there, done that, it worked!

(((x)))
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Mystical,

PLEASE believe I have called him private before...He'll answer that, but then he makes me feel bad for calling him out on his lies. This guy is a master player...how else can he make me feel bad for HIM standing ME up? I fell for the game 😢 Now I have to deal with the broken heart.

I will not call...I will not call...I will not call...I will not call

Stardance...I would TOTALLY be out with friends but I moved back to Indiana to get help with my babies and most of the people I knew here before are gone and the others are lame and REALLY there is nothing to do here but eat and go to a movie.

Don't pay attention to me, I am just feeling sorry for myself I guess 😢
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CancerLady,

I'm so sorry that this Pisces guy played you. That's not a nice thing to do at all. Sometimes when we love someone we don't see how they really are until we take a step back and check ourselves. I've also been down for the past few weeks also over a Virgo guy but he hasn't played me or anything like that. Just yesterday after feeling sad for two weeks did I begin to feel better. Just hang in on there. You be strong, girl.

Mystical
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Cacerlady...this one's for u

He Thinks He's the Boss
A young couple, just married, were in their honeymoon suite on their wedding night. As they were undressing for bed, the husband -- who was a big burly man -- tossed his trousers to his bride and said, "Here, put these on." She put them on and the waist was twice the size of her body. "I can't wear your trousers," she said.
"That's right,'' said the husband, "and don't you ever forget it. I'm the man who wears the pants in this family."

With that she flipped him her panties and said, "Try these on."

He tried them on and found he could only get them on as far as his kneecaps. "Hell," he said. ''I can't get into your panties!"

She replied, "That's right, and that's the way its going to stay until your attitude changes."

tee hee hee....
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THANKS Ladies...I really think it is the full moon that's making me so crazy because just two days ago I was dealing with the way he acted this weekend.

StarDance...actually the funny thing is that I watched "Get Rich or Die Trying" and it reminded me of him sooooo much and why we can and never will be...

Why do men get to be so heartless and cold? Why can't I be like that? How do I become like that since everyone seems to think kindness is weakness...Is there anyone out there who will appreciate me for me without me having to change everything that I am?

Then again...I was reading the "nice guy" post on the Cancer board and I realized that I don't love myself and I am the common denominator of my failed relationships.

I guess I do have pretty low self esteem...but when you have been burnt severely and teased endlessly and mercilessly by the school kids, when you have a teacher that makes you stand in front of a whole class and make them tell what they DON'T like about you (which she did to noone else, ever) , when you go to an all white school and not only are you always "different" but the few black guys in town don't want you BECAUSE you are black...it tends to screw with a person's self esteem. Especially when that person has Virgo rising (always trying to be perfect) and Cancer sun (ridiculously sensitive)

But once again...just feeling sorry for myself right now. Chocolate...here I come.

I wish my babies would wake up...they always make me feel better!
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There you go girl, soak in the love for your babies. As for your teacher, shame on that person. Your color is beautiful as all of God's children are, and there are people who will appreciate you for who you are. You may need to look at yourself and be kind to yourself, support yourself with positive self talk and protect yourself from users and loosers (love yourself as you love others) before others can see that beauty in you. It's like nectar to a bee to meet someone who really loves themself, not to be confused with selfishness.

You may not change to become more "cold" and "heartless", kindness is not weakness, but if you give too much away, you take away from yourself, and you need to love yourself in order for others to love you. Learn this or your babies will follow your lead...you don't want them to feel as you do right now, right? You want them to be happy, but you need to show them the way by taking care of yourself and finding joy inside. Words mean nothing, they learn to live as you live. So take a nice perfume bath, fix your hair, do your nails, play some nice music and smile baby. Reach inside and know you are a good person who deserves better than that jerk.

(((x)))
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CancerLady,

Don't feel sorry for yourself. Remember everything you have gone through, regarding how they treated you in school and the relationships, has made you a stronger person. I'm not overly religious but I do believe in a saying called "God doesn't give us anything more than he thinks we can handle". Seems like the big guy upstairs knows you can handle a lot. Be proud of yourself. Everything you have gone through has made you the person you are today.

Also, you wouldn't want to become a cold person with no feelings. There is no fun in that. Life is a challenge. When we get hurt we know we are alive. We learn from our mistakes and get past them somehow or another. You will have great things happening to you like for instance your adorable babies. Keep the spirit up!

Mystical
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Wow, I got it. Amazing. Thank you very much CancerLady. Now I can be like the rest of the bunch not that I'm a follower in anything. Being an Aquarius I go my own way and people follow me.

I'm so glad I was able to help in making you feel better. I've also been down in the dumps too for a little while. I'm coming back though. I've been getting some get advice from different people on DXP. It's amazing how strangers are able to help you realize things you haven't thought. Maybe it was because I was so wrapped up in the situation. Here are more smiley face.

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I'm just relaxing now. I have Easter vacation before I start school again on Tuesday. Hope you have a great day. Keep you chin up.

Mystical 🙂
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Oh no! Here I am asking you for advice on the cancer idiot and you are having your own problem ... please forgive me ... I know what you are feeling ... I just don't have any children at the moment.

Wow, if you live in Indiana, you are kinda close to me 🙂 It's too bad we don't know each other well enough because we could go shopping ... although I'm on a budget. I sent you a message giving you my support, okay

Happy Easter Cancerlady