He could be the one

He could be one that I'm meant to learn how to love and feel love with, again. He could be the one preparing me to love someone else but I feel we have a special bond and I'm forever grateful for the person he is. He is one of my best friends, he is someone that I cherish and love. I am thankful for the soul he has, he shows me that people can change when they truly want to, that not all men are alike and that I can learn to be ok with conflict with a man. That not all men will treat me as my ex did.

You don't really know how damaged you are, until, you try to love someone of the opposite sex. Even if it's a friend, I have some hang ups that I'm slowly healing through this friendship. He is showing me how to love again, even if it's not on a romantic level. It's how I'm learning to trust, it's incredibly hard but I'm so appreciative of this friendship. It's quite challenging at times but it's teaching us both. I wanted to tell him this last night but I didn't want to get all sappy. LOL

He had me laughing and it's so hard for men to make me laugh like he does. When the time is right, I will tell him all of this. We are growing together, we both have trust issues and I've seen that our friendship is proving to be a friendship that will change us for life. I feel blessed to be his side while watching him grow and change inside and out, b/c it's changing me, too.

I'm not sure I believe in soulmates or twin flames but if there was ever to be one, I think he would be mine. I know he feels the same.

LOL I guess, I should say I posted this b/c of all the negative stuff people keep posting here.

Posted by WhiteChocolate
Stahp!

No positivity allowed!

You have to grind an axe if you wanna post on DXP 😄

LOL I can't STAHP!!! 😛

My next stop was going to be the Libra board. 🙂

Posted by WateryGem

I wanted to tell him this last night but I didn't want to get all sappy.

don't tell him ... not now, not like this

Once a woman tells a man how she feels about him ... suddenly, there is expectation in the air, that feels threatening and demanding.

if you truly love this man as a friend, as a person ... then just ride the wave without having to lay your words on him.

Already, it feels like you want more of him .... sometimes, less is more

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by WateryGem

I wanted to tell him this last night but I didn't want to get all sappy.

don't tell him ... not now, not like this

Once a woman tells a man how she feels about him ... suddenly, there is expectation in the air, that feels threatening and demanding.

if you truly love this man as a friend, as a person ... then just ride the wave without having to lay your words on him.

Already, it feels like you want more of him .... sometimes, less is more

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P, your message absolutely resonated with me and I feel I needed to know this. I will definitely wait and not tell him any of this.

It really feel's like this was the deeper meaning of me posting here. I needed to receive this message. I wish I could explain how it really felt like some epiphany when I read it. Lol

Posted by tiziani

Posted by WateryGem

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by WateryGem

I wanted to tell him this last night but I didn't want to get all sappy.

don't tell him ... not now, not like this

Once a woman tells a man how she feels about him ... suddenly, there is expectation in the air, that feels threatening and demanding.

if you truly love this man as a friend, as a person ... then just ride the wave without having to lay your words on him.

Already, it feels like you want more of him .... sometimes, less is more

P, your message absolutely resonated with me and I feel I needed to know this. I will definitely wait and not tell him any of this.

It really feel's like this was the deeper meaning of me posting here. I needed to receive this message. I wish I could explain how it really felt like some epiphany when I read it. Lol

Don't you feel full circle now. Your very first thread here, P was laying it you and coming for blood. Now she supports.

Real romance.

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lol You're silly!!! Have you ever read something and it felt like it came from a higher place? Even if it's from a place you least likely imagine? I truly feel this was one of those times.