Heee's baaaack....

Many of you know my Mr. Pisces saga... the man still has not quit. Was calling me daily for the longest time and declaring his love for me (mind you, for those who had not seen the saga, we were non-existent for months until he found out I met someone and flipped out). I clarified my position that I wanted nothing more to do with him. A month ago or so he hid his number and called - I always answer those types of calls due to my volunteer work - stated I didn't want to talk to him or have anything to do with him and hung up. Saw him drive by my house about 3 wks ago (which he had to go out of his way to do, mind you - just creepy, how often is this happening?), and today he called again, leaving a message even asking how I was doing. What part of not playing your games do Pisces just not understand?

Posted by Midgetbull
Driving by the house worries me. I would think about getting a restraining order if you see him again. Something tells me from what you described that he isn't all in his right mind.

That's the thing, it worries me too. However, he has not threatened me and is not trespassing on my property, therefore I cannot get a restraining order. I've already spoken with the police, until he does something directly or says something threatening, my hands are tied.

Pisca, only water in my chart is Mars and Jupiter in Scorpio.
As for the houses 2nd=Cancer; 6th=Scorp; 11th=Pisces

in what respect?

Oh, trust me, I was clear. I'm not sure what part of "I don't want to talk to you or have anything to do with you" and then hanging up is not clear...

Oh wow lildol, that is a bit scary! I know as a young Pisces I would get a bit obsessive but never would it turn to violence or anything more than spying. i have long since changed those ways but how old is he? It may be harmless and something that will stop when he meets someone new or something distracts him but I would be careful if I were you just in case. Better to be safe than sorry.
So sorry you are having to deal with that though.
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KP - No, that didn't work back in early June... that's what lead to problems to begin with, a discussion about why he stopped seeing me back in Feb. I should have never had a discussion with him to begin with. I'm too nice sometimes.

Stpatrickspisces - he's 47, a little old for this. Him saying he was peeing on my tires to mark his territory should have been a red flag in retrospect - I was his property. Also, he had said things in the past that suggested stalking like behavior. But, I learned of those things near the time we stopped seeing each other.

On the Virgo board, you always talk about how much you are adored by the V-man ... and now you are here talking about how a man cannot get over you.


You regard yourself way more than a normal person is suppose to ... you should really work on making some room in here, in the event another person decides to want you.

Historically, you never had room for the Pisces, and he bounced ... you sure don't want a repeat performance ... so, the logical thing to do would be to center towards other people a tad and not so much of the self-centeredness.

Posted by P-Angel
On the Virgo board, you always talk about how much you are adored by the V-man ... and now you are here talking about how a man cannot get over you.


You regard yourself way more than a normal person is suppose to ... you should really work on making some room in here, in the event another person decides to want you.

Historically, you never had room for the Pisces, and he bounced ... you sure don't want a repeat performance ... so, the logical thing to do would be to center towards other people a tad and not so much of the self-centeredness.

How a man cannot get over me? huh? No, this is a nut job... which probably is not sign related, but, none-the-less he is a Pisces. I have a Cancer that can't get over me, but he's not a nut job, you don't see me going on about him.

Mr. Pisces was never there for me unless it was on his terms 100% , hence the reason he was on again, off again... I didn't fit the mold, it was off, I tried to fit the mold, I was golden...

My problem is not self-centeredness, but the fact that I focus so much on the other person that I forget myself at times - i.e., I bent over backwards to be what Mr. Pisces wanted me to be and in the end, apparently, that was not what he wanted (couldn't fix me any longer, I suppose).

I don't think he would physically harm me. But, he would go after my character, choose public humiliation or some other means to hurt me - which is why I don't go to the location I used to frequent, he's already made a scene there; for this fact alone, he's already got a certain amount of control as I felt I had to change my behavior and where I go to feel comfortable. But, I am still always looking over my shoulder...

I bought a new vehicle a while back, given the fact he's driving by my house at random he knows exactly what I drive and I'm sure has written down my plate number so that he knows if it is indeed my vehicle if he sees it somewhere. Call me paranoid, but, this is not beneath him.

I would guarantee that if confronted, he would say he was in the area because he used the car wash near my house (and yes, he probably did just to say it was indeed so and if there are cameras he'd be sure to make sure he was on it), driving down my street was simply for cutting through the neighborhood. Note, he has two car washes about 3/4 mile from his house, and each only about a football field away from the furniture store he owns (15-20 mins from where I live). But, again, I guarantee he would say this is why he was in my neighborhood. No doubt in my mind!

I know him too well at this point, I know how he approaches things, how he justifies his own behavior, how he plays himself up to be such a righteous individual, and how he plays the victim. It all became clear with the fiasco back in early June - but, I had seen it before and filed it accordingly in my mind on numerous occasions (in the end, he is always the victim).

My Virgo has a friend who is an officer, he's 'suggested' having him go 'speak' with Mr. Pisces. If I happen to see him drive by again I'm seriously considering having that followed through with. But, I prefer he just go away, I don't want to create drama. I'm the best at avoidance and not doing anything or saying anything, and hoping everything will just blow over.