If you were the one who was dumped, how long has it taking you to get over a person? What is your moon and Venus sign?
Hello Pisces peeps! I how long does it take you to grieve a relationship ?
Grieving after a relationship ended could be a beautiful time for Pisces, especially if we were very much into our ex. The themes of the lost paradise, the tragic hero, the unrequited love, the hope for happiness, all are going through our heads, on a background of soulful music. From time to time, we go through bouts of anger against the ex, but only if the breakup was caused by his stupid behaviour.
How long does the grieving last? It depends on the relationship we had and also the way it ended. For me, it was something between 6 months and two years. I tend to mask my grieving, it's highly personal. I usually look pretty good during the process, because I lose weight, wear nice things, do something fresh about my appearance, get a new hobby. I was getting compliments, which are far better than pity.
How long does the grieving last? It depends on the relationship we had and also the way it ended. For me, it was something between 6 months and two years. I tend to mask my grieving, it's highly personal. I usually look pretty good during the process, because I lose weight, wear nice things, do something fresh about my appearance, get a new hobby. I was getting compliments, which are far better than pity.
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Yeah, let's just forget that everyone is an individual, when it comes to emotions, and that each relationship past is different, shall we?
Are we?
Posted by Saturn_Returns
Yeah, let's just forget that everyone is an individual, when it comes to emotions, and that each relationship past is different, shall we?
I don’t think I forgot that if anything, I’m asking what everyone’s individual experience was like. What was your relationship like with a Pisces? How long were you together? Did you guys stay friends after?
Posted by Undine
Grieving after a relationship ended could be a beautiful time for Pisces, especially if we were very much into our ex. The themes of the lost paradise, the tragic hero, the unrequited love, the hope for happiness, all are going through our heads, on a background of soulful music. From time to time, we go through bouts of anger against the ex, but only if the breakup was caused by his stupid behaviour.
How long does the grieving last? It depends on the relationship we had and also the way it ended. For me, it was something between 6 months and two years. I tend to mask my grieving, it's highly personal. I usually look pretty good during the process, because I lose weight, wear nice things, do something fresh about my appearance, get a new hobby. I was getting compliments, which are far better than pity.
I think this makes total sense and I have seen definitely a lot of what you are saying, with a person I know who is going through a break up right now. They broke up 10 months ago after 6 year’s together and have been living separately, but share a dog snd they are selling the house they got together.
She was also the last person he loved, who knew his father, who passed away a couple of years ago. So ultimately, through her it’s like he’s grieving a family member who is still alive.
He is also going through his Saturn return conjunct 1 degree to his Sun, so he is definitely going through one of the most transformational periods of his life.
I feel like for the most part unless he’s lying. He’s been doing the health journey thing and self discovery thing but every now and then you can see the pain behind his eyes.
He will mention his ex, and then kind of shut down so it looks like a little anger behind his eyes, but more so around the fact that he doesn’t want anyone to assume that she is a bad person for how she left things even though no one is saying that so I feel like it’s a little subconscious projection.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by ladylibra21
If you were the one who was dumped, how long has it taking you to get over a person? What is your moon and Venus sign?
I've not been dumped, but I have been rejected when I changed my mind and wanted to come back. So if that counts, it depends on how attached I felt to the person to start with. I don't fall often, but I do fall hard when I do. So a few months to move on from the heart break. Virgo moon/Aquarius venus.click to expand
Oh yeah, you definitely have some more detached placements. Do you feel like you swim away frequently?
Posted by NotALibra
I think once they have stabbed their ex a few times they are fine with it
Lmaoo bad experience?
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ladylibra21Posted by Saturn_Returns
Yeah, let's just forget that everyone is an individual, when it comes to emotions, and that each relationship past is different, shall we?
I don’t think I forgot that if anything, I’m asking what everyone’s individual experience was like. What was your relationship like with a Pisces? How long were you together? Did you guys stay friends after?
You're asking for a benchmark answer or rule of thumb. There isn't one, which is my point.
It doesn't matter how many responses you get, it won't make any difference. Everyone is different and no-one is like your Pisces or has the exact same personal experiences.
I'm just bewildered why you Americans have this deluded notion that there is a 'one size fits all' solution. Life isn't like that.click to expand
Lol I forgot all negative you are. Sending you hugs and kisses. Have a good day. And I’m not American. I’m from Venus. 😜
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ladylibra21Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ladylibra21You're asking for a benchmark answer or rule of thumb. There isn't one, which is my point.Posted by Saturn_Returns
Yeah, let's just forget that everyone is an individual, when it comes to emotions, and that each relationship past is different, shall we?
I don’t think I forgot that if anything, I’m asking what everyone’s individual experience was like. What was your relationship like with a Pisces? How long were you together? Did you guys stay friends after?
It doesn't matter how many responses you get, it won't make any difference. Everyone is different and no-one is like your Pisces or has the exact same personal experiences.
I'm just bewildered why you Americans have this deluded notion that there is a 'one size fits all' solution. Life isn't like that.
Lol I forgot all negative you are. Sending you hugs and kisses. Have a good day. And I’m not American. I’m from Venus. 😜
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It's not negativity, it's reality.
The fact you can't even comprehend this simple fact speaks volumes about your mentality.
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I get it you feel bad inside and feel the need to make assumptions about me. About who I am and my intelligence out of some primal lonely need for control.
So let’s genuinely switch the focus to you. How are you today Gobby? Are you ok? What is the weather like over there? What music are you listening to today? Or are you reading? I’m actually listening to the Four Agreements while I work.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ladylibra21Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ladylibra21It's not negativity, it's reality.Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by ladylibra21You're asking for a benchmark answer or rule of thumb. There isn't one, which is my point.Posted by Saturn_Returns
Yeah, let's just forget that everyone is an individual, when it comes to emotions, and that each relationship past is different, shall we?
I don’t think I forgot that if anything, I’m asking what everyone’s individual experience was like. What was your relationship like with a Pisces? How long were you together? Did you guys stay friends after?
It doesn't matter how many responses you get, it won't make any difference. Everyone is different and no-one is like your Pisces or has the exact same personal experiences.
I'm just bewildered why you Americans have this deluded notion that there is a 'one size fits all' solution. Life isn't like that.
Lol I forgot all negative you are. Sending you hugs and kisses. Have a good day. And I’m not American. I’m from Venus. 😜
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The fact you can't even comprehend this simple fact speaks volumes about your mentality.
I get it you feel bad inside and feel the need to make assumptions about me. About who I am and my intelligence out of some primal lonely need for control.
So let’s genuinely switch the focus to you. How are you today Gobby? Are you ok? What is the weather like over there? What music are you listening to today? Or are you reading? I’m actually listening to the Four Agreements while I work.
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Seriously, stop it...
I'm sorry you didn't appreciate my input, but this is a discussion forum and I gave you my two cents. Do what you want with it but I'm not going to change my opinion to appease you.
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I’m not asking you your opinion anymore. I’m asking how you’re doing darling.
Posted by ladylibra21Posted by Undine
Grieving after a relationship ended could be a beautiful time for Pisces, especially if we were very much into our ex. The themes of the lost paradise, the tragic hero, the unrequited love, the hope for happiness, all are going through our heads, on a background of soulful music. From time to time, we go through bouts of anger against the ex, but only if the breakup was caused by his stupid behaviour.
How long does the grieving last? It depends on the relationship we had and also the way it ended. For me, it was something between 6 months and two years. I tend to mask my grieving, it's highly personal. I usually look pretty good during the process, because I lose weight, wear nice things, do something fresh about my appearance, get a new hobby. I was getting compliments, which are far better than pity.
I think this makes total sense and I have seen definitely a lot of what you are saying, with a person I know who is going through a break up right now. They broke up 10 months ago after 6 year’s together and have been living separately, but share a dog snd they are selling the house they got together.
She was also the last person he loved, who knew his father, who passed away a couple of years ago. So ultimately, through her it’s like he’s grieving a family member who is still alive.
He is also going through his Saturn return conjunct 1 degree to his Sun, so he is definitely going through one of the most transformational periods of his life.
I feel like for the most part unless he’s lying. He’s been doing the health journey thing and self discovery thing but every now and then you can see the pain behind his eyes.
He will mention his ex, and then kind of shut down so it looks like a little anger behind his eyes, but more so around the fact that he doesn’t want anyone to assume that she is a bad person for how she left things even though no one is saying that so I feel like it’s a little subconscious projection.
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Beautifully said!
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