Posted by aquarius09
No such thing as you winning over an Aries moon. If they are into you, THEY will win YOU over. Boy, do they come on strong and are pushy!!
Posted by Kachi
I want someone grounded but adventurous and homebody at the same time. I want someone who's an ambivert.
Posted by Jan12girlPosted by PuzzlePieces
Breakups are hard and emotional. However one thing I have learned in my marriage & also with relations with my daughter (through therapy) is that communication is very important. When we react, and say things we don’t mean… that are out of hurt and anger it only fuels the fire. One of the most important things I’ve learned is to stop. Calm down, and wait until I’m able to have a discussion calmly & actually discuss the issues. The thing with water signs or fire signs and emotional people is that it’s so big, those emotions and it just gets bigger as we are not getting what we want, or desire, or need etc.
He is telling you to stop. Because this tough and you two can’t get anywhere when it’s all this reacting to each other. Maybe you won’t work ever, or maybe you would if you learned to communicate with each other in a healthy way. I have a Scorpio daughter & believe me I get it. But, we stop. We wait to calm down and then discuss. It is harmful saying things we don’t mean to each other, you just can’t take it away by Saying I’m sorry but I’m mad & hurt. But if you stop. If you calm down & then listen to each other, that’s a different dynamic. My daughters therapist gave this as how to deal with conflict between us.
This is not directed just at you, but for both of you. Maybe it’s been too much, but it doesn’t seem to me that it’s done. You both need space, need to calm down and then talk instead of the current dynamic continuing. That obviously won’t work. Tell each other what hurts you, but listen. I’m pretty sure you both hurt. Then you can figure out if it makes sense or not.
I agree with everything you said. And I have learned that with time that the extreme emotional reaction hardly generate the desired outcome. Whether the reaction is extreme anger or a weak emotional response. The other person gets into either a defensive mode or find you unstable and all we look for is understanding from them but it’s never achieved. A calm assertive communication when necessary gets a better result then an agitated one .click to expand
Posted by KrabssPosted by PuzzlePieces
Scorpios are clingy when they want to be. Back up & don’t want any part of it, if they aren’t feeling it at the moment. Doesn’t mean they don’t feel it.. they are just weird like that.. like it has to be their idea. It’s been interesting watching my daughter with her bf. I see this type of interaction. What I do know is her bf is a saint, and has learned how it works 😂
like they want to be in control all the time. i saw that in scorp no 1.click to expand
Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by PuzzlePieces
Something active. Hiking, bowling, motorcycle riding, zipping lining etc. or a music venue is fun too. I’d prefer not having that interview sit down. But see him in action, and see what behavior, emotions come out in real interaction, 😁😎😁
Cap venus. But I think this is more about my Saggie sun lmao
I was thinking the same…definitely not my Cap Venus 4th house 😂. My Aqua and Saggie bits wants a fun activity mostly, and it’s a plus if it’s something I’ve never done before. Also I’d rather my date have a plan, and I just go with the flow…I hate having to make a decision. 🤦🏽♀️click to expand
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by saggurl88Posted by sweetheartsPosted by saggurl88Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by saggurl88
Everyone at my job has Covid and we are working on a skeleton crew and I can't call off cause they need me and my symptoms aren't bad. So basically I will just work with a mask on. Good times.
Ugh! Sorry that’s rough. We’ve been short handed too. Covid has gone through my whole work, although we do have ability to work from home too. Also have 2 out on maternity leave.
Thanks! I just have a scratchy throat, no other symptoms at all.
Similar to when I caught it before (without losing my sense of smell and taste) but I'm still testing positive, and in California, you can work when you have a positive test.
We had a guy who was out on maternity leave cause his wife just had a baby and he's back now for a short time because the only person that could do his job is out sick with Covid. Things are crazy around here.
I'll be seeing how much my loyalty and dedication to the company pays off around bonus time. If I go unappreciated, I will be looking for a new job. 😬 I'm tired of how much I get depended on.
Wow!! You still work when positive!!!
We are still 7 days quarantine but I feel that’ll drop too 5 soon.
They’re now talking again about how many have died and are trying to push the booster again And alsorts of other vaccines.
Yup! We can as long as we wear a mask. Counterproductive, I know. Smh. I stayed in my office all day and wiped down everything I touched. So I did my work and was quarantined as much as possible from other employees.
Have anyone knows where all the variants went?
It is insane how same illness treated differently in different states.
Speedy recovery!click to expand