Help a Pisces sun+moon to control her Aries venus

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RainbowFish
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So,
I am going to this awesome silent disco party in the woods tomorrow to celebrate summer solstice. I am super excited specially because the organiser is kind of cute, I think we have potential for connection...I met him for the first time 2 days ago in one of his parties and although we didn't speak (he was working playing instruments and I dashed off quickly after party) we exchanged some eye contacts, his eyes were looking for me all the time (or maybe I was fantasising? I am a pisces so intuition is high but so is delusion right?)
At one point when he was organising the "Goddesses" circle, he searched for me in the (small) crowd and looked right into my eyes when saying the word 'Goddess'....(no, I was not dreaming...I hope!)
Anyway, I wanted to stay after party and wait for him to come talk to me or worse yet, go up to him and introduce myself etc, but instead I just run like the wind because I didn't want to send a desperate vibe or take the wrong step...
But tomorrow he will be dancing in the crowd and there is no way I will escape not talking to him since we will all meet up first (few people going) and then walk together to the location.
How can I show my pisces nature without seeming desperate or a flirt?
By the way, I am not feeling ultra feminine at the moment because my hair is short (don't ask) and to make things worse I will have to wear trousers tomorrow...

Unfortunately I don't know his star sign but he seems pretty confident, outgoing, sensitive and centred (from his line of work)...I hope he isn't a fucking taurus!
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RainbowFish
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Posted by Undine
Well, well...imagine that you had to control an Aries Mars, as mine's....

Don't leave it to the chance or get flustered! Prepare a few good questions, a few political/world subjects and a related story to entertain.

The key word is "prepare".

Don't share too much about yourself, though. Keep the mystery!
Thanks for the support!!
I am already doing it in my head, thinking about things to say (and driving myself slightly crazy), definitely won't overshare (hard for me) and will try to interact with as many people as I can so I don't get focused on him...
I do hope I am in a great mood tomorrow!
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RainbowFish
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Posted by Dastard
Lol you have Venus in Aries, why are you worrying about seeming desperate? It's confidence, cookiemonster. treetrunk his brains out.
I am still recovering from a 'relationthing" with a Taurus, that is why...at the beginning my Aries Venus made he madly crazy about me so he just gave me more fire only for me to get burned at the end. Never.Ever.Again..
I want to go sloooooooooooow
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RainbowFish
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So ok, I went to the event.

Got at the meeting point quite early, I was the first person there.

As I stand there looking around, looking at the trees and feeling fine, suddenly I turn my head and see him coming towards me (thank God it wasn't me going towards him!) so I feel my eyes growing bigger and I give him the biggest smile. I was genuinely happy to see him, he looked more attractive then the 1st time and he was smiling too, I saw an air of 'happy to see you' kind of vibe.

So he said hi, I said hi, and he spoke first (yay), he said: remind me of your name again? Now, I never told him my name but I am on his group on MeetUp so I said my name and he kind of said it with me at the same time... (so I had the impression he looked me up, my photo etc...) So I thank him for doing this awesome event tonight (summer solstice party in the park for FREE) but I can't hear his reply because we get interrupted by a woman...She introduces herself and it is her first meet up, she is nervous... I connect with her straight away and help her feel at ease, I feel he is watching me interact with the woman, which is a good thing because at the 1st party I was acting a bit aloof...

Then people start coming from everywhere and we have to stop talking as everyone wants to talk to him, he is the leader.
I then make friends with that woman (yay) it is perfect, I don't need to focus on him.

During the party, he was the DJ so again he didn't dance with the crowd.

We exchanged some eye contact, perhaps the same amount we did at the 1st party but the highlight was when he quoted a quote that I love so I looked at him, he was looking at me already..I then smiled before he finished the quote to let him know I know it and love it.
There were so many people in such a vast space, I tried not to position myself in front of him all the time so he would have to look around and see where I was if he wanted to look at me...I was always changing locations.
But...at the end I realised he might have a GF or a FWB situation... he was going home with a girl who I remember seeing at the first party (she was helping at the door at the first party and was very nice to me, complimenting me loads) I don't remember seeing her tonight dancing, she either was completely off my radar or met him on the way back...

Anyway, I got sad, because since Nov 2015 this is the first time I see a guy that sparks my interest, but never mind, I can see at least I am fixing my ways, not attracting losers and not throwing myself at the first men who smiles at me...I then get home, have a bath and check my phone...there is an email from MeetUp saying that he said "it was good to see me"...
Now, I know this is a feature of the website and he might have clicked the same button to every person, but he didn't do it last time...at least not to me...
So I am not sure what m next move is. I might leave a nice review for the event as I had such an epic time, but I will do it tomorrow...gotta