This Pisces Lady Wants to Runaway from this Aries Man

Should I?

I love the Aries spirit and personality but given my heart being shattered by an Aries man before I think I just need to flee from this man. I haven't even saved his number in my phone because I am terrified of allowing myself to believe this may be the start to something.

I should I proceed with this guy? Should I just disappear?

If you're afraid of being hurt, maybe take time off from dating altogether until you feel you've moved past that. Right now it sounds like even if things are going great with this guy you'd still be insecure and worried about being abandoned or betrayed.

But just remember, whether he's an Aries or not, anyone has the ability to hurt you, disappoint you, etc if you give them that chance.

How should I proceed with this guy?

I should also note, he did ask me on a date to which we had planned for this past Saturday. But my boss likes to fuck with my love life (okay unknowingly) and made me pull a double shift Friday evening at the little sports bar that I work. So I had to cancel our date but I really wanted to meet him (we met on Tinder...yes, yes I know, I know) because in my mind I was sure I was probably going to find him weird, or be catfished by his physical appearance so meeting him in person was a way to come up for reality. So instead of our movie date, which I had to cancel we met up after I got off from work. Well my roommate was feeling down and depressed (over her breakup) and wanted to drink some wine, I had 2 glasses just before I left out to meet up with him.

Long story short we semi hooked up (use your imagination). Not ideal. Not how I usually interact with guys on a first meet. But he was like Greek God fine, not weird at all, and super manly which I love and well that wine made my good girl, inhibitions go bye bye.

Now in my right mind, I am terrified. We still talk...it's only been 3 days but still...

Swim away young pisces

Posted by Scenic
If you're afraid of being hurt, maybe take time off from dating altogether until you feel you've moved past that. Right now it sounds like even if things are going great with this guy you'd still be insecure and worried about being abandoned or betrayed.

But just remember, whether he's an Aries or not, anyone has the ability to hurt you, disappoint you, etc if you give them that chance.

Well I don't feel this way about other men I meet, I just feel this way because he's an Aries and so was the guy who hurt me. So I just start thinking, "oh what if he'll be like the other guy because they are both Aries."

Which I know is dumb. Everyone is different but I can't help but think this way.

But aren't Aries and Pisces suppose to be good a mix? I seem to be unable to get away from them.

Just chill sis. Do nothing. Don't delete his number or save it. Let him come to you and let shit flow naturally. Push those thoughts out of your head and stay positive.

You have strong fire placements so swimming away will not be easy for you.

I dated a Pisces with an Aries moon and as much as we hated each other, we always found ourselves in the bed together.

But you have every right to protect yourself if you feel your are afraid of being hurt. You could always take it really slow and see how it turns out for you.

Good luck

Posted by mandapanda90
Pisces lovers are hard to let go and I'm speaking for the rest us lol

Yup...they put a hold on your soul

@bkbella86
@mandapanda90
@AL4813

Thank you for the feedback! I really appreciate it, BK you're right, I just need to relax and ease up but I guess my fear is that whenever I get positive about guys, I end up disappointed. So I am trying to curb my "hopeless romantic nature," by I guess being a pessimist.

@mandapanda90, thank you sweetie. I do think I can handle the spontaneous nature that he brings because I like that, I love the passion and thrill but I can't do any hot and cold, and although he hasn't shown himself to be hot and cold, I am bracing myself for that. But I am assuming you are an Aries, so what would you recommend I handle him? MIND YOU, he has not done anything to really hurt me.

@AK4813 maybe I'm nervous because I "hooked up" with him so soon.

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by malloryor
How should I proceed with this guy?

I should also note, he did ask me on a date to which we had planned for this past Saturday. But my boss likes to fuck with my love life (okay unknowingly) and made me pull a double shift Friday evening at the little sports bar that I work. So I had to cancel our date but I really wanted to meet him (we met on Tinder...yes, yes I know, I know) because in my mind I was sure I was probably going to find him weird, or be catfished by his physical appearance so meeting him in person was a way to come up for reality. So instead of our movie date, which I had to cancel we met up after I got off from work. Well my roommate was feeling down and depressed (over her breakup) and wanted to drink some wine, I had 2 glasses just before I left out to meet up with him.

Long story short we semi hooked up (use your imagination). Not ideal. Not how I usually interact with guys on a first meet. But he was like Greek God fine, not weird at all, and super manly which I love and well that wine made my good girl, inhibitions go bye bye.

Now in my right mind, I am terrified. We still talk...it's only been 3 days but still...

What's semi hook up?!

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Not sex.

Posted by malloryor
Should I?

I love the Aries spirit and personality but given my heart being shattered by an Aries man before I think I just need to flee from this man. I haven't even saved his number in my phone because I am terrified of allowing myself to believe this may be the start to something.

I should I proceed with this guy? Should I just disappear?

If you got a valid reason to worry, and a proof for it, then yes. If you're just basing this off your own bias and butterflies in the stomach, then you're an idiot.

Posted by RamOfPeace

Posted by malloryor
Should I?

I love the Aries spirit and personality but given my heart being shattered by an Aries man before I think I just need to flee from this man. I haven't even saved his number in my phone because I am terrified of allowing myself to believe this may be the start to something.

I should I proceed with this guy? Should I just disappear?

If you got a valid reason to worry, and a proof for it, then yes. If you're just basing this off your own bias and butterflies in the stomach, then you're an idiot.

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Okay well I'm an idiot. Thanks for the peptalk.

No problem. From what I have read so far out of your text wall, you think with your ovaries.

"Omg I'm terrified its been 3 days... we already made out..."

It's not junior high... just take it maturely and within a good pace imo, like all normal people do with their love life.

Posted by AriesLove
Don't do anything. Don't even think about it, just do your daily routine and when you guys talk you talk. When you hang out you hang out.

It's really not that serious...slow your mind and your heart.

Yeah. I am back on that flow, I'm just over being disappointed by guys, so I expect the worst from him (bias against Aries men) and as a result, I am starting to care less and less. I guess my pull back will show me how he feels in the long run.

Posted by RamOfPeace
No problem. From what I have read so far out of your text wall, you think with your ovaries.

"Omg I'm terrified its been 3 days... we already made out..."

It's not junior high... just take it maturely and within a good pace imo, like all normal people do with their love life.

Lol well we did a bit more than make out but you are right. I just panicked. I normally am relaxed but somehow I connected him to my bad memory so I freaked.

But I am done freaking out. I will take it as it comes, like normal people lol

Posted by GemStoned

Posted by malloryor
Should I?

I love the Aries spirit and personality but given my heart being shattered by an Aries man before I think I just need to flee from this man. I haven't even saved his number in my phone because I am terrified of allowing myself to believe this may be the start to something.

I should I proceed with this guy? Should I just disappear?

Don't underestimate them.. Aries make GOOD Men but they have to Respect you and Really like you and you will feel like Queen. They are just better off with us Air signs or maybe Earth signs.. Water signs shouldn't play with fire, you turn there fumes down with all that Sensitivity, and they need Air in order to Fuel. If he is watered down, your in great hands but if he is a true Aries.. be careful!

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That's a good way to put things, how do you think my Aries moon fits into this?

UPDATE:

So I just asked the Aries I am into what his deal was pertaining to me. I couldn't help it, I have no clue why my anxiety is the way it is with him but I just think I rather know and move on with my life, however it may be. No since in prolonging uncertainty.

I texted him "So let's just rip the band aid right off, do you ever want to see me again? Or do you want to stay textinf buddies?"

Does it sound needy? Demanding? Who fucking cares, I am tired of all this bullshit of how a lady a. Should appriloach a man and b. How she should approach an Aries.

Fuck it all. I am too confused and my Aries moon is makign me impatient lol.

To be continued...