HELP ME I'M STUCK

I AM A PISCES FEMALE WHO IS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH A CANCER MAN. I AM 39 YEARS OLD AND HE WAS MY HIGH SCHOOL SWEET HEART. BACK THEN HE WAS THE LADIES MAN BUT HE REALLY LOVED ME. I CAN SEE THAT NOW THAT I HAVE HAD THE CHANCE TO LOOK FROM THE OTHER SIDE. THE GIRLS BACK THEN HATED ON ME BECAUSE THEY SAID "I COULD HAVE HIM ANYTIME I WANTED HIM" OF COURSE I DID NOT FEEL THAT WAY. WE DID NOT STAY IN OUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE HE WAS 2 GRADES AHEAD OF ME, SO OFF TO COLLEGE HE WENT. BY THE TIME HE CAME HOME THE NEXT SUMMER I WAS PREGNANT WITH ANOTHER MAN'S BABY. MY CANCER LOVE AND I STAYED CORDIAL AND I HAVE BEEN WITH MY DAUGHTER'S FATHER EVER SINCE. WE NOW HAVE 3 GIRLS, THE OLDEST IS IN COLLEGE. HOWEVER, I AM STILL SO IN LOVE WITH MY HIGH SCHOOL CANCER SWEETHEART AND I FINALLY TOLD HIM 2 YEARS AGO. I FOUND OUT THAT HE IS STILL IN LOVE WITH ME AND WE TRIED TO GET BACK TOGETHER BUT IT DID NOT WORK BECAUSE I AM STILL WITH MY CHILDRENS DAD. HE WANTED ME ALL TO HIMSELF, I CAN'T SAY THAT I BLAME HIM BUT I STILL WANT HIM REAL BAD. IF I ONLY KNEW THAT WE HAD THE CHANCE OF A LIFETIME TOGETHER I WOULD HAVE BEEN WITH ONLY HIM BUT I AS THOUGH HE DID NOT GIVE ME THAT OPTION. I BELIEVE WE ARE SOULMATES.

WHAT I THINK YOU SHOULD DO IS RELAX FOLLOW YOU HEART WHAT DO YOU WANT YOU CONTROL YOUR OWN DESTINY YOU DONT WANT TO BE LIVING A LIE IF YOU WANT THE OTHER GUY GO FOR WHAT YOU KNOW BECAUSE IF YOU DONT THE ONLY ONE YOU ARE GOING TO ME HURTING IN THE LONG RUN IS YOU!
GOOD LUCK.

IF YOU TALK ABOUT KISSIE, I WILL RESPOND.YOU NEED TO GET YOURSELF TOGETHER

You must be a real pisces to love kisses soooo much...Nice

LIFE HAS NO RULES AND NO PROMISES. IF YOU STILL LOVE THIS GUY AND YOUR SURE HE LOVES YOU ,CUT ALL TYES AND RUN TO HIM. BUT BE PREPARED FOR SOME SACREFICES, BACKLASH, AND MAYBE EVEN SORROW, BECAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES RIGHT BACK TO YOU. IF YOU LEAVE THE GUY YOU'ER WITH NOW FOR ANOTHER MAN YOU MAY LATER GET BACK WHAT YOU'VE DISHED OUT. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR.

follow your heart!! dont let your childrens father hold you back!! you guys are ment to be together!!so stop trying to change that!!

I am a pisces female and have been married to a cancer for 10 years. We have our times just like anyone else but I do still believe we are soul mates. We dated starting in high school in '87 & got married in '92 and have a 6 yr. old. We can read each others minds without saying a thing. He is very ambitious & family oriented so I get that emotional & financial security that I believe every woman wants/needs. A cancer's home is his castle. Although, he does have a little trouble showing his feelings physically, not very romantic, (I believe fear of rejection/failure trying to make something romantic), but because I know him, I know he means well and loves me without always saying it or showing it. Hope this helps.