He's an Aquarius and I'm in love with him. Help!

Is he really in too me I find myself asking the same question everyday. He says one thing but his action does the Complet opposite. I'm tired of expressing my love and not getting anything in return. Granted he makes me smile, but is this just who he is. Should I just except this emotionless creature or should I hold him tight and love him like no other. Help!
Sincerely CancerLove

He continuously reminds me that I'm the only one he is dating at the moment but my heart just tells me something is miss but I just can't put my finger on it

There is no pisces in the story lol !

Cancer,

What everyone said in the aqua forum and including the ones who are in a relationship with an aqua male is that they don't show love the same ways most of society expects. Normal behaviors of anyone is verbal cues, romantic hollywoody stuff etc.

Aqua males show through subtle, action oriented stuff. By fixing, doing, helping, and most of all being "THERE". WHich is the most proof of all becuase as easily distracted as they can get...the fact that they can be consistent or physically there is a feat in itself.

Question is if you can't handle the way they show care, then you are dating the wrong guy my friend.

Posted by LoveSeeker
There is no pisces in the story lol !

There is one, she just doesn't know it yet 😄!

Posted by Huldra

Posted by Undine

Posted by LoveSeeker
There is no pisces in the story lol !

There is one, she just doesn't know it yet 😄!

Undine you crack me up 😄

What's the thing with Aquarian men and Pisces women though? Because I'm just not up to date with this lol

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Sigh...I can only speak from my experience. My Aqua ex is back and chasing me. I put him on ice, meeting for coffee only once a month. He is keen, charming, smart, recently successful in business, and pulls all the strings to get me back, including love declarations and future plans. He can't get me back though, I'm with a Gem now.

Anyway, he knows how to make a woman feel at the centre of his universe. I always thought he might have learned that during his 10 years marriage to a needy Cancer 😄!

Posted by Huldra
You're with a Gem huh? How's a square going for you?

Also, what's up with this phenomenon... I prefer earth (or aon the worse end, even water men) over fire and air bunch, at least for the sake of "earthiness" and being grounded/reliable/etc, the regular characteristics that they embody. But... I just don't hve a good rapport with them eventually. I love Earth men to pieces but there always seem to be power struggles, and the feeling of being locked in a stone pool is the absolute death of me. Hate cages with a passion.

YET I seem to always end up with fire and air men. Was (technically still am) married to a Sadge, had a crazy rollercoaster with a Libra, and now got completely blind sided by an Aqua.

Whatever I want, I don't get. Whatever I *think* I don't want, I get and become addicted to it like a moth to fire. Specifically, air men this past year. I don't want them, but life keeps bringing us together. So... it's the pirate's life for me? Bizarre.

The square is going fine, thank you 😄. In fact is a grand square (or two), involving Sun, Venus, Pluto, Jupiter and Chiron.

I only realized I had a type after discovering astrology. My type is...Air men. I was married to a Libra, been with an Aqua, now it's the Gem. Apart from these, I was with a Pisces with Gem moon, who was Aqua-dominant in Pullen and with a Cap with Gem rising, who could talk a Gem under the table, very CowPuncher-like.

"Blame" it on my upbringing: Gem grandma (with Gem stellium) raised me till I was 5.5, then Aqua dad, Libra sis and Gem-dominated mum (in Pullen, she's Taurus sun), plenty of air friends...Or "blame" it on astrology (I'm Venus conjunct Mercury in 3rd house in Aqua, Moon very close to Aqua -conjuncts the 3rd decan Aqua suns, like my ex bf's-, DC and 7th house in Gemini).

Luckily for me, what I want is also what I need. It may be different for you, though.

Posted by Huldra
There's a placement in my chart that makes me very much not see what I truly need, and therefore I believe that what I wan is what I need, when in reality what I need is a complete 180 from what I want. I believe it's my Retro Jupiter in Leo, but I might be wrong.

Shortly: "You don't know what you need".

If you are not happy with XY, it means that he is not what you need.

Not happy = unhappy (can't stand the thought that a woman relies on a man to make her happy)

Posted by Huldra

At first sight I thought he was absolutely not it, so I dismissed him. But gradually he turned the tables.
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I also tend to be skeptical about the relationship at the beginning, and it takes me a while to fall in love....He may woe me with his intellect and wit and may be handsome...but I need some time to "adapt" to his presence, to recognize something essential and moving in it...the "coming home" feel.