how do i attract a Pisces man?

what do Pisces men look for in women?Damn are all of u freaks in the bedroom?

Art...no matter, what his moon, venus or mars is in.can always win us with art.Appreciation for music and film, always a plus.Showing your soft side, without outwardly putting any pressure on him to show his feelings towards you per se

Just show that your sensitive...if you are of course

I agree with EVO FISH...if you've got an artsy side, show it off. Pisces dudes , like fire sign men, generally abhor vulgar, obnoxious or crude women. You can be a harlot behind closed doors--definitely--but when out and about, you'll need to be a bit like Peter Pan's Wendy. Pretty, delicate, romantic, all-adoring, hanging on his every word and never expecting him to make promises, take responsibility or to take too much concern with the mundane. Pisces only really wants another's heart and the sound of eternity's own heartbeat to keep him company. All else is a distraction.

I dont know about other pisces men, but I believe in love, the forever one.

Invite them and they surely accept if they feel safe with you, or in the enviorment. That art thing I think is not really the issue, they only need to be loved, and thats all.

I agree with you LostPisces . . being artsy is just the object.

What a pisces NEEDS in a partner is that they feel you. It doesn't matter what the interest is, so long as it's deep. Being shallow or superficial will send him swimming away, no matter how creative you are, no matter how much interest you show on a topic . . the Pisces is intuitive and will comprehend instantly that you are just displaying the interest for his benefit . . but, NOT really feeling it.

So, you want to attract this man? What area in your life is MOST important . . express it as deeply as you feel it and you'll have his attention.

Good Luck

dont put pressure, dont ask him too many questions, dont check him, dont pressure on being in a relationship, prepare for in-out relationship, be faithful, be nice but dont show him too much attention, have loads of interests and dont care for him too much.. i mean do, but dont show him too much. dont be desperate for him.

"be nice but dont show him too much attention, have loads of interests and dont care for him too much.. i mean do, but dont show him too much."

Wow, tauruslady . . you won't be catching a fish if this is what you believe. At least, there won't be a deep connection . . just sex maybe.

Pisces is the complete opposite of what you posted.

Show him lots of attention (if you're feeling him inside).
Many interests aren't necessary, so long as they are heartfelt and with passion.
Care for him very much . . if it's truly within your heart.
And mainly, expressing (showing) the care for him is essential.

It HAS to be felt, there is no other way. Pisces can FEEL your emotions, if it's not real, he'll know. You don't have to say how you feel, he can sense it. You simply have to be real to him . . if your false in any way, he'll know. You'd be better telling a Pisces that you can't feel where they're coming from, rather than pretending you do, because he'll know you're lying to him.

As people move through this world physically, as they particpate in conversations, as emotions rise within you . . Pisces feels the vibrations and we learn from an early age how to decipher what each means within ourselves and other people. If you're not feeling a Pisces . . they know.

i dont think im wrong. anytime i showed my pisces my true feelings he will run away... and he would say i love him too much.

"anytime i showed my pisces my true feelings he will run away"

Certainly, he knew they weren't true, he therefore swam away. Though, I'm not doubting you when you say you loved him, only you know yourself and how you feel . . it's more in the manner of the depth. Even feelings on the surface, are feelings.

People believe erroneously that a Pisces will "swim away". That is false, just as it would be false to say that a Virgo pulls back. Because a person doesn't share feelings, or words with another doesn't mean "they've left the building". As for Pisces, it's the opposite. It's possible that PHYSICALLY he wasn't present, but, inside . . the fish is bound to other people's feelings . .

You'd have to be a Pisces to understand, I guess. Have you ever experienced (when you were with your P-man), somebody said, or did something that you would ordinarily toss over your shoulder as "not important", or, "over and done with", and your Pisces will hash and re-hash, over and over again? He may not be stressing over it, he may not even be bitching about it . . but, he's pondering, he's wanting to look at it from many different angles. It's not gone, he's not gone from it . . though, it's left from him.

Furthermore, once an experience has happened and he is FINALLY able to cut it loose, it's still not gone . . it's just re-formed into having a different meaning when another situation that is principaled the same arises.

For a Pisces to swim away from something, means . . we've died.

well i guess he never believed in my feelings cause i cheated on him when he was in the state of "Because a person doesn't share feelings, or words with another doesn't mean "they've left the building". As for Pisces, it's the opposite." and i felt neglected. and thought he might be cheating on me. so i did what i did to feel better.. and in the end it felt shit.

"i guess he never believed in my feelings cause i cheated on him"

Wow, I won't even offer a response to that because you don't know me well enough, and it would only turn your stomach sour. But, what I will offer is this: Whatever it is he felt, or said, however he reacted, or sensed - will be with him until he dies. He probably won't let it influence his reactions or behaviour . . but, with him to the end it will go . . I'd put money on it.

Things that happened to me from my earliest memory, or what people say, how they feel about something . . never leaves me. Some people say that the Pisces has an excellent memory, but, that's not entirely true. What's closer to the truth is that we have extra-ordinary intuition and gut instincts . . we feel first, then recall from the past as it was felt, then we put a memory to it.

A person just has to feel the fish, and it has to be true . . otherwise, s/he was never with you at all, for once the Pisces is within you, it's forever.

Lady,

Think about what you know about being a Pisces and what you've said, here: "the more love and attention you give me, I eat it all up." As I've stated above, over and over again . . the Pisces can feel you, words don't have to be spoken. When a man tells me all the time that he loves me, I back away too. It's not because I'm not feeling for him, rather, suspicious of his constant HAVING to tell me. Doesn't he know me, I would ask myself. If a person has the need to constantly TELL me something, then to me that means that they believe that I don't know it already, that I CAN'T feel his love for me. And, this may have been very close to what this particular Pisces man was feeling.

"I thought he would be eating out of my palm". Think about yourself . . is it possible for someone to fool you in this manner? To play you into thinking you'd be eating out of the palm of his hand? Don't you think that he was feeling this? He became detached and backed off, just as you would if you sensed that someone was trying to make you bow to them, and eat out of his palm.

Everyone approaches their relationships differently . . but, ME . . if I were to date a Pisces, I'd certainly keep in mind that he can FEEL me as well as I can him and wouldn't attempt to manipulate him into catering to me. A Virgo . . easy as pie, an Aries . . elementary. A Pisces, no way . . they're too intuitive.

I can only go by what you've stated here and have no clue as to the inner dynamics of the relationship, but, from what you've stated, it sounds to me as though everything was fine, until you FORGOT that you were dealing with another fish who was in tune with your emotions without stating them, then proceeding to play into stroking him with praise of love for the sake of getting him to fall deeper into the woman's spell, and he knew it. He knew it . . "emotionally abusive and rather disturbing", just as all fish do if another person is saying something to us on the outside, but, we are feeling something else on the inside of them.

I'm not faulting you, I've done this very thing . . stroke his ego to get my way . . I'm just saying that it's impossible to do this to the fish and you just overlooked this very important ingrediant in him . . he knew that you were telling, rather than feeling.

That was the whole point of my words to tauruslady . . he can FEEL . . words are superficial, they mean nothing. Anybody can say whatever they want.

"For a Pisces to swim away from something, means . . we've died."

"Do you mean that love for them has died period or the love for that person has died?"
"When I think of Pisces guy and that statement I get love has died .....period."

No, to both. What I meant was . . . nothing ever dies within us. It means, that we have died from our physical bodies and breathe no longer. Everything that happens to us in our lives, we carry forever. To leave a person physically, doesn't mean we've erased the mark left on our psyche. To FEEL something, anything, as profoundly as we do, means we can't "swim away" because it has become apart of us.

Look at other people, when it's over . . they're done . . period . . never think about the other person, the issues within the relationship, what has been learned by the mistakes made, how the love felt within their hearts being together . . nothing. Now, of course, while they are still getting over, they bitch and rant. But, I mean, once they've completely gotten past the person . . they're history and there's no need to ever think about it again.

Can you do that? Somewhere inside of you, what you sensed within that person remains. Perhaps, your not stressing over it and beating yourself up, nor, are you trying to re-connect with the person . . but, it's still there, re-surfacing everytime you encounter another potential partner.

It's like this, you've learned tons of stuff through your lifetime. So much information that there is no way to retain it all . . but, can't you still feel sensations vibrating through your psyche of shit that happened 20 years ago? I can and so does every other Pisces I know.

So, to swim away from a love that has been scored into our souls (which is where it is notched in the Pisces), means we walk this earth no longer.

Personally, I don't know if I would WANT to date another Pisces. Though, we all want to be in touch with someone, it would kind of take away the mystery if we were just a refelction of each other . . you know what I mean?

I'm certain that he'll always be with you. Or, at least, the sensation left within you.

Truly, I believe, just as this thread is asking . . how do I catch a Pisces.

Whatever it is that moves you - to the very core of your being - express it as deeply as you feel it . . and, we will follow. We will be intrigued because it's literally shaking us off our feet.

The beautiful part that I like most of all about being a Pisces is in love making. When your partner is in esctasy . . we have it doubled . . we feel both your climax and ours within our bodies . . it's amazing.

🙂

Play hard to get !

< knocks fishworry upside the head

Play hard to get? Have you been listening?

Starfish225

Don't make me whip your fucking ass in public.

yes play hard to get.. act friendly, have your own life, leave the mystery and dont be clingy/jealous/possesive.

Actually the solution is easier than that. You should have hate every Pisces man you can encounter. It will save your good well of life.

Please do . . play him hard . . do everything in your womanly power to have him eating out of the palm of your hand, and in no time at all . . .

you'll be back in here, saying . . what the hell happened, every other man falls for my pursuasion, how did he know i was playing hard to get

um, dah . . . .

Fucking pedofile.

Pisces men are possesive or can be. I have attracted a few and they all seem crazy. I am a Pisces female and I don't like em at all..Play hard the harder you play the more they will want you..

My 7 year old is Pisces and I am schooling him big time on the
ladies..


You date 7 years old people. What else do I need to think that you are a pedofile?

So be it. Actually I would prefer spreading hate about us instead of just bad taste. Is that more clear?

Let's just make one thing clear:

None of Pisces men will come and play your way. Just forget about that. We simply don't give a shit about what you think about us.

Fuck you.

Pisces men are end of everything. We don't even want to mate. Don't you see the drift? We are not running behind the pussy to get some. We just don't care. If we are about to be the end of our family, we don't care. This shit of yours simply give me sickening. Don't you people have anything else to do like have an individual life where you can be sufficient enough for yourself? Sure you can't, because you are all needy. NEEDY! And we hate that. Now please, go to hell and don't bother with us anymore. No games, no explainations, just fucking stay away. Take us as non existent for you. Is that much to ask? Of course it's much, because you all are bunch of needies for whatever freaking reason you have. We are not your babysitters, your saviors or whatever shit you 'want' us to be. We are who we are and we are pretty enough for ourselves. Taking your games and shits into consideration is something YOU need, never we need.

What the fuck do you know? If you really have the qualities that I fucking have, then you have no idea what am I.

Yeah probably I am. But I think I'm still logical being. Crazy and logical.

Me better than you do what? Being crazy?

My craziness is unique. I actually don't call it craziness. It's all pretty logical, I'm just sick of bunch of idiots like you who try to catch something that they can't have. They come here on regular basis and vent their shit. I can't stop being amazed how many idiots are around.

If they dont respect themselves and try to grow up, why should I then?

Kunoichi

I thik yes. Most Pisces men would not admit that even to themselves, but at the end of every road they will come to this conclusion. This is the most effective way anyway. If they want mental mastrubation all the time, rock on.

"Please..You are the one with the issues anyone can see that.."

Hell no.

I have another Pisces man who is about 36 and hates his family. He says "All I got from this family, is trouble. Now I can't leave this all and I'm fucked."

In another discussion with him:

"My wife is an idiot. She blames me for death of her mother. I mean, her mother got caner and died because of that. How the hell in the world I can be the reason of her death? ..... Now she refuses to have sex with me. I have a daughter and I love her to death, but I can't live that way either. I want to have sex because I'm a man and I have a need for that. If I'm not getting any from her because of that idiocy, why the hell I feed her? I would better spend the same money for a prostitute and get more and without baby problem stopping me from leaving. I'm telling you (he means me here) my life is totally fucked. I was son of bitch when I married. I was such an fool."

"Interesting...my first (and only) love was a Pisces, and he communicated/expressed himself quite differently than you do. Do you think your Scorp ascendent and Leo moon colour your personality in any way?"

Your guy probably was a green and inexperienced one. As for Scorp ascendant or Leo moon, well how to say. Being a Pisces already makes them within you (Pisces has all 11 signs coming before them). But from seeing how other Pisceans react, I could say it's pretty common way of thinking.