how to get a cap to understand i CRAVE romance?

even if hes faking it- as in his heart isnt really in it, hes just doing it to please me
this valntines day he picked me up from work and went, "oh yeah i got you some chocolate" and tossed a generic heart shaped box of chocolate at me. no note, no nothing. and this is after we just recently got back together and hes supposed to be showing me how much he really cares about me.

I would say...Hey Cappie, I know it's not in your practical, logical nature, but howz about some warm fuzzies now and again? 😛

If you just got back together...he may not feel warranted to celebrate the occasion properly. Or maybe he is trying to be cautious not to over indulge.

If his heart isn't in it, and it sounds like it's not .... then you probably cannot get him to be into it, and it will likely always be a cold expression.

And it's doubtful that it will work, even if he's faking it because you would know it's not real, and still be disappointed in his lame effort of pleasing you.


If there's a way to get a guy to comprehend that to obtain pleasing his woman, doesn't equate to "doing" "something" for her ..... it equals having the desire present to do for her because it pleases him for her to be pleased.

if anyone crave romance they should talk to a libra but, you have to be cute to get our full attention

"If his heart isn't in it, and it sounds like it's not .... then you probably cannot get him to be into it, and it will likely always be a cold expression."

I will actually agree with P-Angel on this. I don't know your man well enough to judge the depth of his feelings for you, but honestly I was with a capricorn and to this day, he is THE most romantic and thoughtful boyfriend I've ever had. He used to complain that I wasn't romantic enough but it was hard to keep up with him! He stopped doing all those things towards the end of our relationship when things weren't working out. My roommate has a capricorn boyfriend and he does very sweet and loving things for her as well. I find that capricorns stop doing those things when their hearts are not into it or when they are unsure about the relationship. I hope that things work out for you.

capricorn board is so cool. people are bitches over at pisces!
i love my cap. i can feeeeeeeeeeel his love 24/7. i just wanna be able to SEE it every now and then.

LOL @ the fact i thought thi was capricorn... i take it back capricorn board is BITTCHES pisces board rules. you guys have said some wonderful things to me. at cap they accuse me of being young.

lol



Do you think we're that dumb?


You can't take it back .. you said it .. own it.

at cap they accuse me of being young.

You may have noticed that, over at the Cap board, it's just one or two specific females who are accusing you of being young (And you know how it is when women meet someone younger than them, LOL!).

And one of them (over at the Cap thread you started) is not even a Cap. I don't think the other is either. Looking at her profile, I think she's a Libra.

So it wasn't the Caps who dissed ya 🙂

In fact, Caps are usually kind to water signs such as yourself. A part of them is water, after all. 🙂

fishi,
from my knowledge of Cap guys (and girls), they are not very big on open expressions of love. They hate superficiality. This is in sharp contrast to Libras, Sags or Leos who looove the drama & attention-wh0ring of the whole courtship ritual.

Cap men feel that just being with you is already a sign that he has feelings for you (as you've already mentioned , you can "feeeeeeeeeeel his love 24/7." LOL! ). If a Cappy doesn't want to bother with you, you can count on the fact that he will not even waste his time having a meal with you or even answering your calls.

The "toss the chocolate in your lap" thing? I've been hearing complaints from all sorts of guys lately about how the media pressurizes them to fork out all sorts of dough "otherwise you don't love her!" Guys in general (irregardless of their sign) are just getting sick & tired of the whole V-Day routine. It's like they have to do all the work & the females just have to turn up and get all the nice gifts. A lot of guys these days just go through the motion....just becuz it's required of them....NOT because they are actually feel amorous during that ONE day where everything (flowers, chocolates, restaurant bookings) are over-priced. And most guys get nothing except a peck on the cheek in return. Can ya blame them for not being so enthusiastic about V-Day? Yah, I'm sure the ladies at the office will brag about what they got for V-Day or which expensive restaurant their dates took them to, blah blah blah. Most will over-exaggerate what their dates did for them (women love making other women envious). Most guys too won't admit (esp in front of ladies) that they were less than enthusiastic about the whole affair. They feel too much "drama" is put on the whole V-Day thing.

Caps abhor drama.

As long as he treats you with love,and more importantly, you FEEL loved, that's all that really matters.

Heather Mills was showered with expensive gifts by Paul McCartney and look what happened. Same goes for Ivana Trump.

Some of the happiest couples I've seen are actually very poor and rarely buy anything for each other. But the way they look into each other's eyes is priceless....

"oh yeah i got you some chocolate" and tossed a generic heart shaped box of chocolate at me. no note, no nothing.

Not cool at all !!!! That was so rude and disrespectful.

What did you get him for V-Day?

how to get a cap to understand i CRAVE romance?

Voice it to him.
If that doesn't work, show him by sitting on his lap(facing him)and start undressing
yourself. Now that you have his attention... ;}oooh lala

What did you get him for V-Day?


That's ^^^^ a very good question ... girls, normally, sit back and act all demure and passive, waiting for a man to be romantic and attentive to her, yet, oftentimes, fail to reciprocate this back to him.

What gift was given to him? If you gave him nothing, then how would it be that you even deserved this generic box of chocolates tossed your way?

You said that this comes after you two got back together and he's suppose to be showing how much he cares about you ..... yet, if you gave him nothing, but, are feeling resentful because what you got wasn't enough .. can actually be interpreted as selfishness on your part.

It's doubtful that you gave him anything .. because if you did then you would have mentioned this in the OP to show how you are caring for him while he isn't caring for you. If you gave a romantic gift to him, then this would be your fuel to prove your point.

So, it's logically assumed that you gave him (( nothing )) for V-Day, and are upset because he didn't give you enough.

Think about that ^^^^