Always wanted to know about lying and Pisces men

Why do it seem like Pisces men lie so much? From my grandfather to uncles to friends to my ex, liars. Would like to deal with my ex, though. We were together a year. Met his family, friends, the whole nine and vice versa. He talked about marriage and we went on trips. Then he breaks up with me, said he never meant it when he said he loved me and was with me cause he'd never been with a Latina before (I'm Dominican) and he wanted to see what it was like. WTF? I asked him if he ever meant what he said and he was like no, I knew if I just told you I wanted to see what having sex with a Latina was like, you'd leave, so I figured this would keep you around. He said he was dumping me now because he realized I really believed him and he couldn't deal with that, also his parents didn't want him dealing seriously with a girl who wasn't white (though they treated me nice.)

I don't understand how he could just lie like that just for some Latina pussy, but he says it's all it was and true he is living with a white girl now and his friend who dates my cousin says his parents love her but he just feels like he's old now (only 33, not old) and he feels pressure to settle down.

His bday is March 11, 1974. Mine is April 4, 1981.

17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Thank you Starfish225.

I have somewhat moved on in that I don't deal with him at all anymore but still find it hard to really trust anybody. It'd be different if he acted all new and treated me like shit but he treated me like a queen and then at the end said he did it just for some exotic pussy. Whatever. I just was always curious cause in my life I've had a lot of male Pisces and almost all of them lied like they tongue was on fire!

@Magenta_Azure

Pisces men SUCK.

A year is a long time of being treated and feeling like a queen .. sounds like it was a very a memorable year.

Trips to exotic places, meeting of close friends, wrapping a sweet fantasy in your womanly mind about marriage to enjoy, the whole nine ... what an adventure ride, I'll bet you were smiling the whole time.

And btw, are you sure it was a lie?

You DID feel loved, didn't you?

You have to keep in mind, Pisces don't feel much unless we encounter suffering ... our love comes in the form of wrapping worlds around other people, so they feel loved.

P-Angel, he told me, to my face, that he lied. He said it was a trip for him because girls don't look twice at him and his friends gave him props for getting with a "hot" girl. His words, not mine. Yes, he treated me well, but again, he said to my face he meant none of it, so I take him at his word. I can tell when a person is lying usually and I couldn't tell it with him that whole year but when he was telling me he never meant what he said I could tell he wasn't trying to be mean, he was being honest about never having loved me and only telling me what I wanted to hear so he could keep getting Latina pussy until he got bored with his game. Oh he told me TAHT to my face too that he was getting bored playing the loving boyfriend because he didn't mean any of it.

That shit hurt. It still does.

So yes, P-Angel, at the time I was happy because I thought I was with a man who loved me. Knowing otherwise, it just makes me feel some type of way. I can't really explain it otherwise. Like, I can't look back on it and say "Hey that was nice" because I know it was all coming from a really fucked up place.

Hizaki, don't mean to say all Pisces are like that. Just seemed funny to me that the Pisces guys in my life have been pretty big liars.

Sounds to me like this was his exit route to swim .... most Pisces just swim when the experience is over.

In that position, I would think to tell somebody who is in love with me and I know that they would chase after me, and I wanted to end it and not have her chase me, since women DO INDEED chase after men .... telling her something like that would insure his exit, without further ado.

A Pisces wraps worlds around people they love and he did just that .. he can't lie to his nature ... so, I would have to conclude that the lie was in the end, when he told you he never felt you, so he could swim easily, without you running after him.

A Pisces isn't going to bother treating a pussy like royalty .. we don't roll that way. He would have treated you like a piece of ass, if that's what you were.

The fact that he treated you during this year like a queen, who felt loved, pampered, special == he bothered to care = he felt you.

The lie came at the end, so you'd be hurt enough to walk away and leave him be.

"he said to my face he meant none of it, so I take him at his word."

Mistake ^^^^^ never take a Pisces at their word .. hence: Pisces lie

Take them at their actions .. they express how they feel, not verbalize it .. what is verbalized is the lie .. how they treat you in expressions is how they truly feel.

That sucks, but it happens. His payback will be a bitch.

If he isn't that attractive and never gets the hot girl, what initially attracted you to him may I ask??

@lovable_pisces

Im kind of thinking the same way too that maybe he did care, but he couldnt be with you anymore for whatever reason. Why would a pisces waste so much time and money on some one for nothing? Makes no sense. I personally hate wasting my time on people, so why would one pull such a charade for so long? Just not possible without being caught. Pisces is too sensitive of a sign to be so cruel. Something tells me those statements were meant to drive you away on purpose.

Pisces would rather lie to lessen the pain. Because the reason goes well with the theory of your break up, you believed it. Im not sure if his statements are believable, but his actions are that he is with some one else. Im curious to wonder if she was there before the break up.

Right, that is what I gather from reading this.

I think this man really loved her, but, knew it had to end and so made this kind of a break .. she would surely leave him alone, she would surely not pine away for him.

It just doesn't sound to me like this man didn't love her, when I know full well that if a Pisces treats a person like that .. it means he did love her.

I have to admit .. I've done it 😢😢

This one man to whom I loved so much, and him me, because of circumstances revolving around a child with ex, he was torn .. if with me, he couldn't have a life with his child ... and I did it.

He probably hates me ... my gawd, I loved that man.

"I heard that Pisces men will stay with a woman no matter how miserable they may feel... They prefer to be drift away, hence the prolong relationship, rather than directly dealing with it. Is that true?"

Well, thats been my observation...but they do leave eventually, most often their S.O. had no clue they were so unhappy with the relationship...so it appears they just "swim" away when in actually they were ready to go long ago.

"most often their S.O. had no clue they were so unhappy with the relationship"

I would have to agree with the above statement ... it is apparant just listening in here in all the rooms about relationship issues peole are having .. that one of the partners is unhappy, while the other isn't clued-in .. normally, it's the female who is unhappy unbeknownst to the guy, however, sometimes it's visa-versa.

Second .... why?

I know when my kid was unhappy .. I knew when my mother was unhappy ... I know when my pets mood has changed .. I know when my husband is unhappy ....

So, why doesn't the other person know .. can they not tell? Are they not paying attention to nuances?

If it's not verbalized, then it's not paid attention to?

Interesting .........

17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

From my observation with pisces guys who do it...

They honestly dont voice their issues. They may act a little distant, but not to the point where you think there completely fed up. Sometimes they'll still do the nice boyfriend thing (we all know how you guys are romantics...maybe its there way of giving the benefit of the doubt and try and fix things...I'm not too sure) so it would be kind of difficult to know your Pisces is at that point. This is a reason why they've been pegged with the martyrdom label while in relationships.

But when the dream is crushed for them...I guess theres no looking back.

@Magenta_Azure

"Yes, I do suck ... t*tties and the other thingy ... and I suck pretty hard, or so I have been told."

O_O Whoa... the pisces guy I did my thing with was terrible in bed. -_- Geez.

17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

"The dream will be crushed eventually and if you want to be part of a healthy and working relationship then you must face reality at one point or another. It's difficult but it's certainly not impossible. In addition, if you have the right person you'll work towards what you two have (relationship) even when the dreamy days are over."

Well, Im glad you as a pisces realizes that...some never learn to live reality.

@Magenta_Azure

"Well, different people, different ways

Anyways I think for really good sex you have to wait until you mature a little more. Take care."

It's more about the person your doing it with versus maturity.