how to not fuck up a relationship?

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livictori
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And I am being very serious

I am actually happy with the person I am in a relationship with. It's the father of my children. He and I are putting in time and energy towards our children and each other. We talk often, chose to see only each other and send each other gifts to deal with the distance. We talk openly about our hopes for the future and lessons from the past. My problem is I'm not sure I know how to relax. I'm fixated on how/when our lives will merge, and I don't want to. I'm not patient. How do I not drive myself crazy?